Stood me up with the Address

[JonF]

We had dated very briefly not too long ago- great lay, but i failed her sh1t tests. Now we only talk through texts. She hit me up randomly after running into me a few weeks back, initiated what I thought was a booty call only to back out at the last minute. She initially told me to wait out her friends, and come over, but subsequently texted me that she was about to fall asleep.

Yesterday, she contacts me and sends me a snap chat inviting me to drink on campus. I tell her i need 45 minutes, and an address. She sends me back the name of the person throwing the party, but no address. I tell her i don't know where that is, and she doesn't reply at all. Two in the morning i get a "sorry my phone died message". Should i freeze out and put up with these games, call her out, or just fold?

 

[apprenticedj]

I say go NC for awhile, she doesn't seem that interested. Things happen, phones do die so I don't think you need to make anything of it by calling her out. Just kick back and of course, the golden rule of this forum, SPIN PLATES. Get a few other chicks on you and she'll be wondering what's up. Then once you fvck her again you can start lagging on her. Shoe, meet the other foot. BAM!

 

[VladPatton]

What a crock of shıt! Go ghost on her. She's messin with you. If you run into her again just say :

"yeah I've been calling you every day, but since your phone is defective you must not be getting your calls"

 

[nismo-4]

Drop her ass and just f**k her later, if later even occurs. I'm not betting on it, but spin more plates. She has low interest. That's my ruling.

Case closed.

 

[adam225]

make HER pass through YOUR shiat tests.

Make her work for your attention OP (if she does get in contact).

e.g.

SKANK : Hey, you ok ?

Me : ...... (no reply)

SKANK: are you still speaking to me ?

Me:.....

Me (several hours later) : I don't know why I even bothered with you in the first place. Thanks for messing me around and giving me that bull sh1t excuse. I'll be putting my time into someone else from now as you're not worth the effort. I can do much better.

Then see how the SKANK responds....

If she doesn't, then at least you know you've smacked her ego nice and hard, and done her next man a favour. She won't forget it....

What goes around, comes around... Take me for an idiot, and I'll take you for twice the idiot back.

 

[Greasy Pig]

I'd advise strongly against getting all butthurt with her.
I'd say her phone "died" because she couldn't text you back while her hands were full of some guy's junk.
She's playing you. Don't let her. Just ignore for a while until she shows she's serious about hooking up.

 

[JonF]

Ya'll right on the money. I'm going to stick to NC.

Ironically, she just texted me, "Yo homie Yo. Can you as my token male jew help me figure out what to get my boss for Hanukkah???Because I don't have a damn clue."

 

[sigma335]

Make her work for your attention OP (if she does get in contact).

e.g.

SKANK : Hey, you ok ?

Me : ...... (no reply)

SKANK: are you still speaking to me ?

Me:.....

Me (several hours later) : I don't know why I even bothered with you in the first place. Thanks for messing me around and giving me that bull sh1t excuse. I'll be putting my time into someone else from now as you're not worth the effort. I can do much better.

Then see how the SKANK responds....

If she doesn't, then at least you know you've smacked her ego nice and hard, and done her next man a favour. She won't forget it....

What goes around, comes around... Take me for an idiot, and I'll take you for twice the idiot back.

I love this.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

We had dated very briefly not too long ago- great lay, but i failed her sh1t tests. Now we only talk through texts. She hit me up randomly after running into me a few weeks back, initiated what I thought was a booty call only to back out at the last minute. She initially told me to wait out her friends, and come over, but subsequently texted me that she was about to fall asleep.

Yesterday, she contacts me and sends me a snap chat inviting me to drink on campus. I tell her i need 45 minutes, and an address. She sends me back the name of the person throwing the party, but no address. I tell her i don't know where that is, and she doesn't reply at all. Two in the morning i get a "sorry my phone died message". Should i freeze out and put up with these games, call her out, or just fold?

at least you got to sleep with her

 

[JonF]

How long should i keep up no contact?

She hit me up on Facebook again asking whether i had an outline (conceivably to see if I'm ignoring her since you can check when Facebook messages are opened).

This chic is playing games, but theres a large history, and i know i can swing this (its in my other post if you want to read it).

 

[Driggs]

Reply to that message, and from now on reply to one third of her contacts.

 

[Purefilth]

"my phone died at a party" beep beep ***translating****Beep BEEEEPPPP

"Me and these two dudes made an eiffel tower adn I couldn't reach my phone because I was skewered in both ends."


/translation

 

[JonF]

"my phone died at a party" beep beep ***translating****Beep BEEEEPPPP

"Me and these two dudes made an eiffel tower adn I couldn't reach my phone because I was skewered in both ends."


/translation

You're sh1t is funny, but I don't give a Fzck who else she's fzcking. She don't faze me. Like i'm not working other chics. The point is I want to hit that sh1t again. DJ if you got the answers then hit me with them. She contacted me twice today, and got her girlfriend to snap chat me. Theres something there, i'm going to figure it out, and get it. Right now, i'm ignoring her.

 

[adam225]

You're sh1t is funny, but I don't give a Fzck who else she's fzcking. She don't faze me. Like i'm not working other chics. The point is I want to hit that sh1t again. DJ if you got the answers then hit me with them. She contacted me twice today, and got her girlfriend to snap chat me. Theres something there, i'm going to figure it out, and get it. Right now, i'm ignoring her.

Post her messages up. If you don't, we'll have nothing to go by.

 

[JonF]

Post her messages up. If you don't, we'll have nothing to go by.

Adam225, you're right. So, i already posted the first text message about her wanting some suggestion for the jewish holiday. I thought she was being coy by intentionally not using the word friend, but whatever we have a long history.

After ignoring her sh1t for about 6 hours, she sent me a Facebook message ostensibly to gauge whether I'm reading her messages at all, because Facebook notifies you whether someone has read the message.

Her second message reads, "Do i already have that outline you sent me? I have one, but i don't know where i got it" ….. In my opinion its just bull**** to gauge whether ill respond. Not too long ago, i must have ignored this chic for like 2 weeks straight with me getting bull**** snap chats to see if i would bite. The thing is when i was abroad only 6 weeks ago this chic invested 2+ hours daily into me, and although sh1t got f1cked i don't know whether i got any equity left

The snap chat from her friend i haven't opened, because i don't want to give her any satisfaction today. I just don't care enough to have to see it.

 

[adam225]

Good, good.... the key, is simply not to care, and to get HER to fight for your attention. You must make sure that no matter what she does to impress you, you spoon feed her attention (a little sip at a time haha) - As soon as she knows she's got your full attention, and you're completely focused on her, it's downhill from there.

You need to be patient with her and keep putting her below you. She is testing you through and proper (unconsciously - this is why not caring is the key). I'd probably ignore her for another day just to see how she reacts. When you respond to her, you need to be blunt and straight to the point - that is, with putting your OWN interests and wellbeing first. She must know you won't put up with her bull sh1t and that you won't be taken for an idiot. She must know that you look down on all girls who play stupid mind games, and that you label them as "little skanks". She must know that you loose SEXUAL interest in any girl who doesn't treat you with the respect that you deserve (this will kill her, hehe).

If you can get all that across to her, and she is interested in you, she'll fight VERY hard to get you back as she'll be feeling pretty worthless.

Again, never let anyone take you for an idiot. If people treat you good then treat them good back (why wouldn't you ?!?!). She hasn't treated you good. There for she must be punished for it (the same way you'd punish a child for misbehaving - it's no different).

 

[JonF]

Good, good.... the key, is simply not to care, and to get HER to fight for your attention. You must make sure that no matter what she does to impress you, you spoon feed her attention (a little sip at a time haha) - As soon as she knows she's got your full attention, and you're completely focused on her, it's downhill from there.

You need to be patient with her and keep putting her below you. She is testing you through and proper (unconsciously - this is why not caring is the key). I'd probably ignore her for another day just to see how she reacts. When you respond to her, you need to be blunt and straight to the point - that is, with putting your OWN interests and wellbeing first. She must know you won't put up with her bull sh1t and that you won't be taken for an idiot. She must know that you look down on all girls who play stupid mind games, and that you label them as "little skanks". She must know that you loose SEXUAL interest in any girl who doesn't treat you with the respect that you deserve (this will kill her, hehe).

If you can get all that across to her, and she is interested in you, she'll fight VERY hard to get you back as she'll be feeling pretty worthless.

Again, never let anyone take you for an idiot. If people treat you good then treat them good back (why wouldn't you ?!?!). She hasn't treated you good. There for she must be punished for it (the same way you'd punish a child for misbehaving - it's no different).

Adam225, brother you are so on the money. I'm going to follow your advice to a tee, but i'm going to hold off on when i check her, and tell me what you think. So i opened up that snap chat a few minutes ago, the one i had ignored for well over a day. Its a picture of her in an apron smiling in the kitchen sent from her girlfriend's phone with a caption that reads: "My wife cooking me dinner".

So after ignoring her other means of communication, she sends me a picture that reflects what? Her happiness, her indifference at me ignoring her sh1t, maybe another attempt at getting back into my mind. Regardless, i see right through it. We have a history and she wants to reflect strength and/or control. If she's happy or is just pretending, it makes no difference, but if i call her out two days removed from her last text it'll show that i was thinking about her rather than indifferent. So i'm going to wait it out, see how she feels getting ignored, and when she does text me again i'll check her with essentially the same kind of language you proposed in your last post. What you think?

 

[adam225]

That sounds like a fun plan bro. You just need to be sure you are blunt and straight to the point with her (don't be afraid to swear at her - I would lol). If it was me I'd bring another women into the fun as well (she doesn't have to exist). The idea is to make out that "the other women" is better than "her" (looks and personality wise) and doesn't act like she's a demented fvck up.

Man, this SKANK is going to have a shock lol. O well, she'd happily do it to you or someone else. Taste of her own medicine I guess...

P.S. Please excuse my use of the word "SKANK". I've been over using it lately lol (I've overdosed on the "red pill" I think).

 

[DJClever]

Damn

 

[JonF]

That sounds like a fun plan bro. You just need to be sure you are blunt and straight to the point with her (don't be afraid to swear at her - I would lol). If it was me I'd bring another women into the fun as well (she doesn't have to exist). The idea is to make out that "the other women" is better than "her" (looks and personality wise) and doesn't act like she's a demented fvck up.

Man, this SKANK is going to have a shock lol. O well, she'd happily do it to you or someone else. Taste of her own medicine I guess...

P.S. Please excuse my use of the word "SKANK". I've been over using it lately lol (I've overdosed on the "red pill" I think).

I've been ignoring this Skank royally. She wants this outline from a class I had earlier. So this b1tch befriends my good friends girlfriend and now I have my friends lady asking me for this thing. What a crock of Sh1t. So my friends lady asks, hey can I get that outline to which I respond "really? Did she ask you to ask me?"... She says haha, no. I want it because I have the same professor"... That was a few minutes ago. I got love for my friend and I hate that his lady is getting involved. What would you guys do? Send it to my friend and make her work a little harder? Or just give it to his lady?