I know some think these posts are cheezey, but I've always enjoyed reading them and think they can be helpful. I am going to start posting these for new lays.
Here is mine from last night.
I'm 39. Met a very cute, attractive Hispanic, 29 year with big tit.ties last night from one of the apps. Lately, I have been having more success in exchanging a couple quick messages on the app and then following up one of her responses with something like, "i'm off to do x,y,z, want to exchange numbers and go from there?" And then I'll leave my number. Probably half the time, they just text me, the other half of the time they leave their number for me. It seems to weed out those with lower interest.
Anyway, the hispanic initiated the first text. We went a few messages in talking about our week and what we enjoy doing. I told her I was big into playing tennis. She followed up with she would love to learn. I said we should go play on Saturday. She said something to the effect of she would like to, but really did not want to embarrass herself on the first meet and asked to grab a drink instead.
One major thing that is helping me is that I have very solid logistics. I belong to an upscale tennis/golf/pool resort type deal three minutes from my place. It also has a bar and restaurant there. So lots of options for dates/activities.
So meet her at the bar. There was live music at an upstairs bar and we were downstairs at an empty bar below. We had several drinks. She showed high interest from the start. We were both playfully teasing one another with a lot of Kino, which she initiated most of and kept getting closer to me. Ended up looking at her, laughing and then going for the kiss, but got the cheek! She later told me she didn't go for the kiss because she was nervous. To be honest, I would have done the same thing over again.
We finish our drinks and I just say "Lets go" We take the elevator from the first floor to the second and start kissing in the elevator. We hop in my car and I take her to my place and lead her straight away to the bedroom. I usually want the girl out of my place before the end of the night, but we were pretty tired and probably both still tipsy, and so she ended up sleeping there.
End up driving her back to her car. I am in the habit of not mentioning any future plans or anything like that. I give her a hug and kiss. And she starts to say, well do you want to....(alluding to meeting up again)? I think she was a little worried that I might not be all that interested. And she cuts herself off and says "well, we can just text (to set some future meet).
And that's it for now.
Here is mine from last night.
I'm 39. Met a very cute, attractive Hispanic, 29 year with big tit.ties last night from one of the apps. Lately, I have been having more success in exchanging a couple quick messages on the app and then following up one of her responses with something like, "i'm off to do x,y,z, want to exchange numbers and go from there?" And then I'll leave my number. Probably half the time, they just text me, the other half of the time they leave their number for me. It seems to weed out those with lower interest.
Anyway, the hispanic initiated the first text. We went a few messages in talking about our week and what we enjoy doing. I told her I was big into playing tennis. She followed up with she would love to learn. I said we should go play on Saturday. She said something to the effect of she would like to, but really did not want to embarrass herself on the first meet and asked to grab a drink instead.
One major thing that is helping me is that I have very solid logistics. I belong to an upscale tennis/golf/pool resort type deal three minutes from my place. It also has a bar and restaurant there. So lots of options for dates/activities.
So meet her at the bar. There was live music at an upstairs bar and we were downstairs at an empty bar below. We had several drinks. She showed high interest from the start. We were both playfully teasing one another with a lot of Kino, which she initiated most of and kept getting closer to me. Ended up looking at her, laughing and then going for the kiss, but got the cheek! She later told me she didn't go for the kiss because she was nervous. To be honest, I would have done the same thing over again.
We finish our drinks and I just say "Lets go" We take the elevator from the first floor to the second and start kissing in the elevator. We hop in my car and I take her to my place and lead her straight away to the bedroom. I usually want the girl out of my place before the end of the night, but we were pretty tired and probably both still tipsy, and so she ended up sleeping there.
End up driving her back to her car. I am in the habit of not mentioning any future plans or anything like that. I give her a hug and kiss. And she starts to say, well do you want to....(alluding to meeting up again)? I think she was a little worried that I might not be all that interested. And she cuts herself off and says "well, we can just text (to set some future meet).
And that's it for now.