Stoic: Lay Report #1

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I know some think these posts are cheezey, but I've always enjoyed reading them and think they can be helpful. I am going to start posting these for new lays.

Here is mine from last night.

I'm 39. Met a very cute, attractive Hispanic, 29 year with big tit.ties last night from one of the apps. Lately, I have been having more success in exchanging a couple quick messages on the app and then following up one of her responses with something like, "i'm off to do x,y,z, want to exchange numbers and go from there?" And then I'll leave my number. Probably half the time, they just text me, the other half of the time they leave their number for me. It seems to weed out those with lower interest.

Anyway, the hispanic initiated the first text. We went a few messages in talking about our week and what we enjoy doing. I told her I was big into playing tennis. She followed up with she would love to learn. I said we should go play on Saturday. She said something to the effect of she would like to, but really did not want to embarrass herself on the first meet and asked to grab a drink instead.

One major thing that is helping me is that I have very solid logistics. I belong to an upscale tennis/golf/pool resort type deal three minutes from my place. It also has a bar and restaurant there. So lots of options for dates/activities.

So meet her at the bar. There was live music at an upstairs bar and we were downstairs at an empty bar below. We had several drinks. She showed high interest from the start. We were both playfully teasing one another with a lot of Kino, which she initiated most of and kept getting closer to me. Ended up looking at her, laughing and then going for the kiss, but got the cheek! She later told me she didn't go for the kiss because she was nervous. To be honest, I would have done the same thing over again.

We finish our drinks and I just say "Lets go" We take the elevator from the first floor to the second and start kissing in the elevator. We hop in my car and I take her to my place and lead her straight away to the bedroom. I usually want the girl out of my place before the end of the night, but we were pretty tired and probably both still tipsy, and so she ended up sleeping there.

End up driving her back to her car. I am in the habit of not mentioning any future plans or anything like that. I give her a hug and kiss. And she starts to say, well do you want to....(alluding to meeting up again)? I think she was a little worried that I might not be all that interested. And she cuts herself off and says "well, we can just text (to set some future meet).

And that's it for now.
 

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Nice!!!
 

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For those who don't do it...

Assuming the sale gets you the sale far more often than you imagine it would. Even if you have no idea if the woman is interested or not. To the point once you start doing it you'll be wondering how many lays you've missed out on by not doing it prior.

Keep in mind that women like to fvck and even if she doesn't see things going further than a single date, she might be open to getting banged still in the moment thinking "why not?". In general, most women are far more open to a ONS than you'd imagine.

Literally had a woman I was talking to once tell me how she went on this horrible date that was so boring and the dude asked if she could drop him off as he was in town for business staying at a motel and had walked a few blocks to the place.

Said he asked if she wanted to come in for a little bit and said she ended up banging him because she was horny and he was in the right place at the right time, even tho she really wasn't into him. Don't ever discount how often this happens. She was a solid 7.5 with a great body and cute face too.

The dude simply could have told her have a good night and walked away and that would have been that. Instead he asked if she wanted to come in and banged her. It really can be that simple. Never assume you know what a woman is thinking or what she will or won't do in the moment.
 
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I think in this Post-Covid era. A lot of girls didn't get their usual lays "fix"

So we got 6month to 1 year of girl being open about lay.

Good job OP, I like your opening. Also, you seemed in control of the flow of the date. Than we gave you a reward, which you took.
 

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For those who don't do it...

Assuming the sale gets you the sale far more often than you imagine it would. Even if you have no idea if the woman is interested or not. To the point once you start doing it you'll be wondering how many lays you've missed out on by not doing it prior.

Keep in mind that women like to fvck and even if she doesn't see things going further than a single date, she might be open to getting banged still in the moment thinking "why not?". In general, most women are far more open to a ONS than you'd imagine.

Literally had a woman I was talking to once tell me how she went on this horrible date that was so boring and the dude asked if she could drop him off as he was in town for business staying at a motel and had walked a few blocks to the place.

Said he asked if she wanted to come in for a little bit and said she ended up banging him because she was horny and he was in the right place at the right time, even tho she really wasn't into him. Don't ever discount how often this happens. She was a solid 7.5 with a great body and cute face too.

The dude simply could have told her have a good night and walked away and that would have been that. Instead he asked if she wanted to come in and banged her. It really can be that simple. Never assume you know what a woman is thinking or what she will or won't do in the moment.
Exactly.

Don't spend the entire night wondering if she's up to going home with you. Escalate appropriately and assume that she will. Over time, this will obviously result in far more lays than a more wait and see passive approach.
 

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For those who don't do it...

Assuming the sale gets you the sale far more often than you imagine it would. Even if you have no idea if the woman is interested or not. To the point once you start doing it you'll be wondering how many lays you've missed out on by not doing it prior.
Agree with this. It's very good to put this into practice. If you do this, you'll not have any regrets about missing opportunities.
 

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Did you bang her again?
 

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Must be nice to be able to go on a dating app and actually get matches lol
how are you an attractive lanny krevitz guy and you do not get any matches ?

something must be off with you bro
 

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how are you an attractive lanny krevitz guy and you do not get any matches ?

something must be off with you bro
IDK...lately I've even had a few women approach me IRL, and no, they weren't 11/10 French supermodels or w/e, but even with Tinder platinum, I get next to nothing there. Hell of a self-esteem killer.
 

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IDK...lately I've even had a few women approach me IRL, and no, they weren't 11/10 French supermodels or w/e, but even with Tinder platinum, I get next to nothing there. Hell of a self-esteem killer.
then it means that you are not as handsome as you think you are

so you should focus on developing your social skills and game in order to start having results
 

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then it means that you are not as handsome as you think you are

so you should focus on developing your social skills and game in order to start having results
Lol I never said or thought I was. Random people I meet are the ones that said it. Pretty fecking confusing.
 
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IDK...lately I've even had a few women approach me IRL, and no, they weren't 11/10 French supermodels or w/e, but even with Tinder platinum, I get next to nothing there. Hell of a self-esteem killer.
Tinder is garbage and I have platinum. Hinge is the way to go
 

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Swipe apps have a way of doing that. Even for a 6'3" Lenny Kravitz looking guy.
i am fine on tinder , so for sure it is a matter of people having a better opinion about themselves than actually it is
 

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Did you bang her again?
Actually I did not. I had a two week stretch where I had my daughter. I have a rule where I don't place ***** above my daughter or career or tennis.

Messaged me a lot after. I tend to be a bit of a jerk where I will message back, but just keep things mostly to logistics.

I got a little lucky because I didn't message her for a week or so, but I reached out when I became less busy. She is coming over this weekend.
 

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Actually I did not. I had a two week stretch where I had my daughter. I have a rule where I don't place ***** above my daughter or career or tennis.

Messaged me a lot after. I tend to be a bit of a jerk where I will message back, but just keep things mostly to logistics.

I got a little lucky because I didn't message her for a week or so, but I reached out when I became less busy. She is coming over this weekend.
Perhaps another bang this weekend.
 
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