Uh, no, please don't give me any advice or post any more in my threads. You obviously have no game whatsoever. Not only do you not have game, you have severe social anxiety, an all too common issue on this board. I've copied and posted, unaltered except for boldfaced comments, the many times where you have admitted you can't even make eye contact with people! You also admit you are
1. very creepy and shady,
2. have low self esteem, as the basics of social interaction such as looking at people are lost on you
3. can't smile properly
4. run away from girls
And this is just what you'll admit to.
Seriously, no one takes anything you say seriously since you are such a loser that you are still at the stage of running away from girls.
Why should anyone take your comments seriously? I know I don't.
Plus, everything you've posted was evident even before I even read it.
From J the Stalker:
"I still have big problems making EC with people, especially girls. Just going into restaurants, walking down the street, school, parties etc. If I'm actually engaged with someone (as in a cashier at a store or one of my customers) it's not a problem, it's more just strangers that I'm not going to talk to. Pretty sure this is mainly a self-esteem/confidence issue. Also subconsciously I don't want to give hot women the satisfaction of looking at them because I know it will just add to their ego and validate that all guys want to bang them.
Anyway, I'm wondering if there's any way I can get over this and just basic EC tips. My instinct is to look away if I catch the eye of anybody (guys too, but mainly girls), and if I hot chick catches me looking at her I'll do my best to vacate the premises immediately and if that's not possible, I just instinctively try to play it off and make sure that it doesn't happen again. If I try to "beat" her and make her look away first, I know I come across as creepy and it doesn't feel right. Also I have a really tough time smiling so I'm also likely sending the message that I'm not a fun or happy person, and therefore am not a person she'd like to get plowed by. Ugh, any ideas about what I can do about this?"
edit: not only does J the Stalker come across as creepy in real life, he is also able to demonstrate this characteristic online as well! What a surprise!
And here's ANOTHER post where J the Stalker admits he is creepy, and is not only terrified of attractive women, but of women he is not attracted to:
"I've got a question or two for you, though. I understand the importance of kino, but right now I'm at the point where I'm so nervous around girls (even ones that aren't necessarily attractive) that all my effort is going toward trying to act natural and communicate "confident" body language. So whenever I try to do natural kino, like touching the arm or shoulder...it comes across as awkward and maybe even creepy, so I just don't do it. Do you have any ideas for getting over this and kino'ing more naturally? I think girls can sense my fear and it comes across as forced (which it really is).
And when you say "day-2" her, do you mean on the second DATE, or do you mean that you'll be able to bang her the day after that you manage to put her arm around your waist? And what kinds of things would a girl do to NOT let you escalate? Do they verbally call you out on it/back away, etc.?"
So, here's the deal, J the Stalker:
1. can't make eye contact with people
2. can't smile
3. can't touch without coming across as creepy
4. is afraid of attractive women
5. is afraid of unattractive women
6. radiates fear
7. doesn't know what a date is.
Yet, he's an internet "tough guy" who calls random people "son" as if he were a "thug." Thanks, internet gangster for your ridiculous laughable posturing.
The problem is, you've already admitted you are severely socially retarded, and that everybody knows it.
Please keep posting your drivel, as we all know you are a complete loser, not only around other women, but around people in general, even online.
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Here's a bit more stuff on how pathetic J the Stalker's social life is:
"Please also keep in mind I'm a WWWBAFC and have zero confidence or self-esteem, so nothing too brazen."
For someone who has below the worst game imaginable, and with zero confidence, you sure do talk tough on the internet! And this is after begging everyone else to be nice to you! Keep it up loser!!
Here's a thread J the Stalker started where he's peeing his pants because a girl waved to him in public:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1633393#post1633393
Here's ANOTHER thread where J the Stalker needed a year to ask out, only to be turned down. He even thinks she made up an excuse and invented a boyfriend to reject him. Even after posting dozens of times where he admits he is a creepy guy, he STILL doesn't understand why she invented an excuse. He's even COUNTING THE DAYS since she rejected him!:
"You're speaking for yourself, man. A girl that I took a year to work up the courage to ask her out told me 2 months and 27 days ago that she couldn't go to lunch with me because she had a boyfriend, and I'm STILL trying to decide whether or not she was telling the truth, and if she wasn't...why?"
Here's another gem of J the Stalker doing what he does best, stalking people:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1660210#post1660210
Here, he stalks a starbucks girl and describes MASSIVE IOI's such as the girl looking at him.