Still not being seen as alpha or leader of tribe...

[evan12]

So we've established in previous posts that humans evolved in tribes and we are not programmed to live in the world we live in today. This has also been told in books like The Mystery Method. So this means that any of us males can join social groups and, if we are the highest member of the group, have the pick of the ladies. It has also been said that guys with "game" can fool people into thinking they are high value and that is the essence of what "game" is. And that guys who actually do have high value need less "game" than guys who have lower actual value.

My frustration is this....

I am still not being seen as an alpha male when I approach strangers. Despite everything I've been through in life, I get disrespected, lied to, and even stolen from.

I have been through too much. Broken my neck, broken my back, spinal cord injury, lived homeless on the streets, 4 years of incarceration. In this world full of feminized men, I would like to think that I should be cleaning up. But I'm not.

Is it because of feminism and the ill-effects that it's had on the women of today's world? Is it because of the ridiculous hypergamy standard that they have?

I still think that getting rich is my only ticket in the door to "impress" these ladies that aren't worth impressing in the first place. They are worth nothing more than a hole in most cases and that hole isn't even worth all that much.

https://goo.gl/images/ZFv68z

Is anybody out there going to tell me that driving this car isn't going to get me noticed? That it won't show status and "peacock" in a very effective way? I think that people would either want to rob me, take advantage of me, or get to know me. What do you think? (and no, this whole post wasn't just about a car, it was about being seen as the leader of a group).

Some guys do it by being socially proofed bartenders. Some do it, like Chad, by being extremely good-looking, other's do it by being street thugs that intimidate most. I think this is my only way into girl's hearts and vaginas.

Lets start from the beginning , why do you think you should be alpha in the first place ? any qualifications , you cant be alpha just because you think you are, you have to be on the top of men at least socially, are you the most social person

 

[BeExcellent]

Richard many people here have tried to help you. I have good news and I have bad news. Your problems are NOT solved by money.

Fact is you don't want help. You want attention.

You think you need a gold star and an award certificate for your injuries, your prison time and your homelessness, as if those things constitute a successful life. You have not overcome those things so much as you wallow in those things expecting a pass in life like a spoiled child. You want a sweet woman and a family just handed out to you like a 0% interest loan.

Sorry pal. That ain't the way life works.

I'm going to be brutally honest with you (in case you haven't noticed). No woman wants an ex-con formerly homeless, formerly spoiled brat stalker who bitches and moans about the hand he was dealt when of all things he came from a family of means and then goes about flaunting a "poor me" pity party attitude. UNLESS he gets over it, gets up and demonstrates that he has risen above those circumstances and become a better man. You refuse to do this.

Many men have pointed this out to who and your response is "Who....ME???? Whatever are you talking about."

You are a classic covert narcissist Richard. That is what I see. Seething and angry but yet courting supply for your narcissism because to be ignored is to be marginalized.

On the one hand you lament the woes of women not wanting to be near you...and then one the other hand you feign interest in strategies to improve yourself, while at the same time rubbing daddy's money (hard money at 0% and the like) in everyone's face and starting thread after attention seeking thread.

The world owes you nothing. Women owe you nothing. Until you realize YOU are the common denominator in all your issues you will remain as you are, unhappy and bitter until YOU decide to quit whining and being the victim of your life and moving forward in a positive way.

Your seething anger, victimhood and inability to accept responsibility in your own life comes across without question in each and every one of your posts. This is the last time I will post on one of your threads. I've observed enough to conclude that you simply want attention and pity and are not really interested in improvement or self awareness or growth. Women read your anger and your instability on a subconscious level and are repelled.

Get into a behavioral treatment program and/or get with a well regarded psychiatrist. Ask your father to contribute to your welfare in this way if you are serious about getting better. That will help you more than a 0% loan. What you need is beyond the scope of the forum.

 

[Konada]

I'd start with losing the toxic entitlement.

Just because you broke your neck, lived homeless and went to prison doesn't entitle you jacksh!t.

 

[sph21]

Richard, being an alpha male is hard. You have to lead. Most people, don't want to lead because to lead is to overcome your own insecurity of being decisive.

Maybe you are right. We don't know who you really are. We can only assume about who you are based on your words of choice. But consider this, it is possible that most men here gave you advices based on what they had experienced in their own lives. We have our own sh*tty past. Move on from it & learn how to be a better leader.

We're here to help you to become a better man. We gave you some advices because we care.