Still in touch with an Ex

[TheManOfSteel]

Jeez man, what exactly is there to talk about? You've let her know what's up and now it seems like she just wants to try to explain it to you in a way that justifies her actions. I wouldn't waste anymore time with her. As Bible Belt stated, start looking for other options.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Its your way or the highway. You have to be like this if YOU want to be happy. Don't let somem girl drag you down. What she is doing is messed up and if I were you I would have just broke up with her: None of that talking BS.

 

[Johnnyventana]

Sorry, but she loves him. And if you make it a big deal, all you will do is push them closer together. It's human nature. And it's a losing proposition. So that angle ain't no good.

I would seriously go the subtle jealously way. Make her "go there.' Make her talk about your 'friend.' Not you talking about hers. Then you win. Subtle is the key. Don't give her an excuse to jump ship.

 

[The_411]

You know what's going to happen with this "talk" don't you? I'm asking because if you don't you're going walk right into an ambush.

She's either going to give your the break up talk or she's going to try to shame you into believing you are controlling possessive etc at which point if you agree she'll lose her remaining respect for you and likely cheat on you if she hasn't already.

[nerd on] This is like Kobayashi Maru [/nerd off] except you know the winning move now which is to dump her pre-emptively and avoid the unwinnable scenario