DJ de Florida
Master Don Juan
I've seen some posts from guys concerned about competition from other males when in the company with one woman. You have to have the killer instinct to close the deal, but you have to keep under control.
We spend a lot of time talking about what you should say about her and yourself, but what about the competition? Women care about a man's status. Your status is being evaluated within the group of guys, the other guys she knows, and society at large. Ideally you want your status level as high as possible. But what really matters to most women is your status compared to other men. One way to widen the status gap between you and the other guys is to drop the status of the other guys.
Here are some examples of how to drop the status of others in your presence:
1) situation: You, 3 guys you know, and one woman in bar. You are talking about majors in college.
Friend 1: Yeah, I'm majoring in psychology.
You: That sounds real interesting. My cousin and a couple of her roommates are majoring in psych. They say it is fun.
[You have just said this guy selected an easy chick major in a polite way.]
2) situation: You, a wingman, two guys, and a woman at club just bull $hitting:
Wingman (to other guys): Oh, I'm Don Juanito. And you guys?
Guy 1 (short guy): Eddie. Eddie Jackson.
Guy 2 (balding guy): Jeremy. Jeremy Williams.
You: Do people call you Ed for short?
Guy 1: Yeah, Ed.
You: Hey, Mr. Williams, would be a gentleman and hand me my beer by your arm please?
[You've brought attention to the guy 1's physical stature and to guy 2's older appearance in a polite way.]
3) situation: You, person at work, worker's wingman, and woman at mall. They are talking to her at a distance while she works the stand. You walk up.
You: Oh, hey John. What is going on?
John: Not much. Just shopping for shoes.
You: Cool. John, did you get that paper done for me? I really appreciate you working on it last weekend for me.
John: I'm almost done with it.
You (to woman): Oh, I apologize for interrupting. I'm Don. John is a research analyst in my division at work. And you are?
Her: Lisa
You (taking her hand for a DJ handshake and strong eye contact): Nice to meet you Lisa. Don't break these guys' bank account with all this incense. A guy only needs so much. (turning to John's friend) And you are?
Worker's wingman: Jason
You: Hey Jay. I was looking at your necklace. Interesting.... My younger sister has one that looks like that.
blah, blah, blah between you guys
You: Well, guys I got to go. Keep smiling Lisa, only 3 hours left. See you later...(leave looking at woman but you return later)
[You put John in is subordinate place and made everyone question Jason's clothing preferences in a polite way.]
The point is to think quick with your charm and wit to take jabs at the competition in a subtle way. Put the other guys in their place to widen that status gap......
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Don Juan de Florida
We spend a lot of time talking about what you should say about her and yourself, but what about the competition? Women care about a man's status. Your status is being evaluated within the group of guys, the other guys she knows, and society at large. Ideally you want your status level as high as possible. But what really matters to most women is your status compared to other men. One way to widen the status gap between you and the other guys is to drop the status of the other guys.
Here are some examples of how to drop the status of others in your presence:
1) situation: You, 3 guys you know, and one woman in bar. You are talking about majors in college.
Friend 1: Yeah, I'm majoring in psychology.
You: That sounds real interesting. My cousin and a couple of her roommates are majoring in psych. They say it is fun.
[You have just said this guy selected an easy chick major in a polite way.]
2) situation: You, a wingman, two guys, and a woman at club just bull $hitting:
Wingman (to other guys): Oh, I'm Don Juanito. And you guys?
Guy 1 (short guy): Eddie. Eddie Jackson.
Guy 2 (balding guy): Jeremy. Jeremy Williams.
You: Do people call you Ed for short?
Guy 1: Yeah, Ed.
You: Hey, Mr. Williams, would be a gentleman and hand me my beer by your arm please?
[You've brought attention to the guy 1's physical stature and to guy 2's older appearance in a polite way.]
3) situation: You, person at work, worker's wingman, and woman at mall. They are talking to her at a distance while she works the stand. You walk up.
You: Oh, hey John. What is going on?
John: Not much. Just shopping for shoes.
You: Cool. John, did you get that paper done for me? I really appreciate you working on it last weekend for me.
John: I'm almost done with it.
You (to woman): Oh, I apologize for interrupting. I'm Don. John is a research analyst in my division at work. And you are?
Her: Lisa
You (taking her hand for a DJ handshake and strong eye contact): Nice to meet you Lisa. Don't break these guys' bank account with all this incense. A guy only needs so much. (turning to John's friend) And you are?
Worker's wingman: Jason
You: Hey Jay. I was looking at your necklace. Interesting.... My younger sister has one that looks like that.
blah, blah, blah between you guys
You: Well, guys I got to go. Keep smiling Lisa, only 3 hours left. See you later...(leave looking at woman but you return later)
[You put John in is subordinate place and made everyone question Jason's clothing preferences in a polite way.]
The point is to think quick with your charm and wit to take jabs at the competition in a subtle way. Put the other guys in their place to widen that status gap......
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Don Juan de Florida