Stealing girls....

[European-DJ]

I must admit I was surprised that so many guys on this forum 'steal' other guys girls.

What I can recall when reading the posts from pre-2010, the forum was about embracing manhood and being a man, helping other men and be the better person.

Lately I have notices many guys asking for tips on how to 'steal' other men's girls, and even more guys give great advice and share their own experience with stealing girls.

I don't know if my parents raised me wrong - they probably did, or else I would not be on this forum - but I live by the 'do to others as you would like them to do to you' at least when it comes to my basic acting towards other men (I have Lost to much respect for women, to be acting the same way towards them).

Let me know guys, what are your pov on stealing fellow men's girls?

 

[Who Dares Win]

What changed from the past is the fact that due to obesity and entitled mentality the appetible girls are fewer and fewer and more likely to be already engaged to someone else, its not a matter of being morally bad but simply a necessity.

Just keep in mind that something is to get physical with someone else girl while a different one is taking her away from him.

And about your parents stop listen at them they just want you to play it safe,have a boring plain life and work a crappy 8-14 job behind a desk better yet with the same average girl you have to pedestal and keep her happy since she will be the only source of pvssy for you.
Love them but dont take their advice about life choices.

 

[ilikecharlene]

I don't do it, I consider it non-decent do to so.

What changed from the past is the fact that due to obesity and entitled mentality the appetible girls are fewer and fewer and more likely to be already engaged to someone else, its not a matter of being morally bad but simply a necessity.

That's "reasoning", if I ever heard it.

 

[MaudGrimes]

I agree with this, but is it any different from a girl looking for her next LTR whilst still in one with somebody else?

 

[European-DJ]

I agree with this, but is it any different from a girl looking for her next LTR whilst still in one with somebody else?

I am honest when I say I would not go for such a girl - when she gets tired of you, she will once again be looking for a new guy while still in a relationship with you.

 

[Kerpal]

I have also noticed that, and the posts here lately have a much darker tone. It's probably due to the fact that the competition is getting even harder, due to the obesity epidemic, bad economy, etc. It'll get worse.

 

[Packers2010]

if i didn't know the guy, then sure i would do it.

if i knew the guy, i wouldn't... one exception. Paul "****face" leone. my enemy

 

[European-DJ]

if i didn't know the guy, then sure i would do it.

if i knew the guy, i wouldn't... one exception. Paul "****face" leone. my enemy

For mé, not knowing him makes no difference - you could miss out on a genuinely great new friend because of a 'cheatung' woman

 

[Who Dares Win]

Let me clarify my previous post, when we get a girl from someone else she is not considered long-term material after accounting her past behaviour.
She is more than fine to be a short thing or a fvck buddy.

 

[ezio]

You got it all wrong from the onset. You're portraying girls as the victims, a common mistake for most guys in our day and age. you don't 'steal' anyone, girls are not shop items you just pick up and run with. if a girl is in a relationship you present her with a better set of options than she currently has, better sex, more money, more excitement etc. You don't point a gun to her head and command her to dump her boyfriend or else. she has to make a conscious decision to leave the person she's with to be with you even if its only for a single night. no matter what she might say, its still a decision she has to make and you can bet she'll go with the option which is most beneficial to her at that particular time. if anyone is a victim here, its the guy who falls victim to a female's fleeting urges, warped sense of entitlement and the poor excuse of a rationalisation that goes along with it. i don't know if this is what rollo refers to as hypergamy but you should read his blog to get a better understanding of the female mind. There is also a thread on the forum about girls always wanting the new guys, u should read that as well.
guys are advised not to get emotionally attached to girls because she might leave the moment the next guy comes with better bag of goodies. in LTR you have to keep your game tight, never slip up, never stop improving yourself and never become complacent. at this point in my life if another guy was to 'steal' my girl away from me its all meh! because wth, i just charge it to the game and move on with my life. no girl is worth all that effort that goes into trying to win back. I only draw the line with married women and gf of friends, all others are good to go

 

[MM92]

I must admit I was surprised that so many guys on this forum 'steal' other guys girls.

What I can recall when reading the posts from pre-2010, the forum was about embracing manhood and being a man, helping other men and be the better person.

Lately I have notices many guys asking for tips on how to 'steal' other men's girls, and even more guys give great advice and share their own experience with stealing girls.

I don't know if my parents raised me wrong - they probably did, or else I would not be on this forum - but I live by the 'do to others as you would like them to do to you' at least when it comes to my basic acting towards other men (I have Lost to much respect for women, to be acting the same way towards them).

Let me know guys, what are your pov on stealing fellow men's girls?

Stealing another mans woman makes you less of a man in my opinion, as well as a total ****. A man should have class.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Stealing another mans woman makes you less of a man in my opinion, as well as a total ****. A man should have class.

You talk the same way of men who lived in the world before the fat epidemic and the facebook/cellphone ego madness.
My father would probably say the same thing as you, right after he would call my mother who would answer in few seconds and would ask her to bring him a beer before leaving to work, only to have her coming with a respectful and grateful smile for being him the breadwinner and fixer in the family.

Lets imagine that we are 10 thirsty man and there are 10 glasses of water of which 5 are filled with polluted water...would you feel bad to get someone else fresh water?

And keep in mind that unlike the engaged ,girls the glasses in the example dont usually collaborate.

 

[Audiophile]

You got it all wrong from the onset. You're portraying girls as the victims, a common mistake for most guys in our day and age. you don't 'steal' anyone, girls are not shop items you just pick up and run with. if a girl is in a relationship you present her with a better set of options than she currently has, better sex, more money, more excitement etc. You don't point a gun to her head and command her to dump her boyfriend or else. she has to make a conscious decision to leave the person she's with to be with you even if its only for a single night. no matter what she might say, its still a decision she has to make and you can bet she'll go with the option which is most beneficial to her at that particular time. if anyone is a victim here, its the guy who falls victim to a female's fleeting urges, warped sense of entitlement and the poor excuse of a rationalisation that goes along with it. i don't know if this is what rollo refers to as hypergamy but you should read his blog to get a better understanding of the female mind. There is also a thread on the forum about girls always wanting the new guys, u should read that as well.

Guys are advised not to get emotionally attached to girls because she might leave the moment the next guy comes with better bag of goodies. in LTR you have to keep your game tight, never slip up, never stop improving yourself and never become complacent. at this point in my life if another guy was to 'steal' my girl away from me its all meh! because wth, i just charge it to the game and move on with my life. no girl is worth all that effort that goes into trying to win back. I only draw the line with married women and gf of friends, all others are good to go

I completely agree with you on this one. I never see it as the girls fault at all, I see it as their SO's fault for not being able to keep them. Clearly you are a much better option, so why wouldn't she go for you?

By far the biggest rebuttal I've heard is that "If you take her from her boyfriend, what's to stop her from leaving you some point down the line?"

Well, absolutely nothing! But if you follow the message that permeats through these forums of being a Don Juan, why in the hell would she ever leave you? If you make yourself consistently the best and most exciting option, she has absolutely no reason to run off with another guy unless he's even better than you. And if you keep improving yourself and playing it right, that's very unlikely to happen.

 

[European-DJ]

I completely agree with you on this one. I never see it as the girls fault at all, I see it as their SO's fault for not being able to keep them. Clearly you are a much better option, so why wouldn't she go for you?

By far the biggest rebuttal I've heard is that "If you take her from her boyfriend, what's to stop her from leaving you some point down the line?"

Well, absolutely nothing! But if you follow the message that permeats through these forums of being a Don Juan, why in the hell would she ever leave you? If you make yourself consistently the best and most exciting option, she has absolutely no reason to run off with another guy unless he's even better than you. And if you keep improving yourself and playing it right, that's very unlikely to happen.

When i talk About 'stealing' a Girl, I refer to guys pursuing girls who are already in relationships and keeps pursuing until they get her.
I am not talking about the girls who are putting them self out there, flirting and whoring with everyone they can, while their man is at home - those girls are pure slvts.

Nevertheless, in my eyes, it is wrong to pursue a girl within a relationship, out of respect to our fellow man.

 

[rum]

It takes two to tango...no such thing as stealing...she has to let herself be stolen as well.

And I agree, with the obesity epidemic, bad economy, and continuously inflating ego and sense of entitlement that women have...competition is getting tough. You have to stake your claim and and make sure her eyes never wander.

 

[ArcBound]

It's good that you have morals and values and it's great that you don't compromise them.

Now understand different people have different morals and values and live with it.

 

[European-DJ]

It's good that you have morals and values and it's great that you don't compromise them.

Now understand different people have different morals and values and live with it.

I respect other people's opinions, just want to have a healthy discussion - at least I will get a new perspective on things, maybe i'll even change my mind.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Me personally,

If a girl chooses she chooses. I don't care if she has a boyfriend or not. I've scooped many girls with dudes. But most of the time it takes extra work to scoop a girl from her boyfriend. and that same amount of work can be focused on many other things. Such as getting single girls.

 

[Alle_Gory]

If someone steals your girl she wasn't yours to begin with.

 

[Young Stallion]

If someone steals your girl she wasn't yours to begin with.

Absolutely agreed.

Girls have unbridled loyalty to a man who she she is with and she is physically ATTRACTED to.

Girls are flaky as hell to a man who she may be with but is NOT physically attracted, but just feels affection for.

This about sums it up.