I dunno the way I see it, if she leaves him for you then it wasn't a good relationship anyway and if you hadn't ended it something else would have so I don't have a big morl problem with it. On the other had girls like that could have bagage or be on the rebound.
"Stealing" girlfriends
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You don't have a morl problem because that is not a fking word:moon:Amigu said:I dunno the way I see it, if she leaves him for you then it wasn't a good relationship anyway and if you hadn't ended it something else would have so I don't have a big morl problem with it. On the other had girls like that could have bagage or be on the rebound.
Remulak
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If you have an interest in dating this girl then go ahead and steal her from her boyfriend. If you just want to fyck and dump her and ruin a relationship then I think you're scum just for the sake of a "challenge".
I say all's fair in love in war, (eventhough if you have morals or believe in karma then you shouldn't be stealing people from their relationships). If she has any decency, she should break up with her BF before dating you.
This crap is some of the reasons why so many spouses cheat and people can't stay together because no one places any value on a relationship.
However, all girls are emotional creatures. They long to be desired and wanted, and anyone who can meet all those desires as well as trigger the right emotions can get any chick that he wants. If blinkwatt's able to put the right buttons and get someones GF, then power to him.
This crap is some of the reasons why so many spouses cheat and people can't stay together because no one places any value on a relationship.
However, all girls are emotional creatures. They long to be desired and wanted, and anyone who can meet all those desires as well as trigger the right emotions can get any chick that he wants. If blinkwatt's able to put the right buttons and get someones GF, then power to him.
Delta
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again,
personally, i do feel that all's fair in love and war and that morality doesn't really come into play... eros love is anything but altruistic....
but my personal call for karma is related to my interpretation of the biblical call not to judge... it may be because it takes a personal, psychological toll on YOU.
having perpetrated, you may ever more see yourself as a victim of it... like how murderers fear murder like no other (this i get purely from the movies... but it feels true)....
it may wear down the psychological resources you have for yourself if it should ever happen to you.
anyhoo, as i said at first, whatever you do, you gotta live with it. and if you can, you're set.
delta
p.s. but an interesting point has been made. why go for a chick that's already taken (however rudimentarily)? by your account, you're quite the catch and can have anybody. and the world is FULL... CHOCK FULL of hot chicks that are single. no matter how hot she is, she isn't SINGULARLY SPECTACULARLY HOT is she? all hot chicks are a dime a dozen. so why go after one that's attached?
it sounds like you're trying to rescue her maybe but that can be a kind of a pathological complex too....
personally, i do feel that all's fair in love and war and that morality doesn't really come into play... eros love is anything but altruistic....
but my personal call for karma is related to my interpretation of the biblical call not to judge... it may be because it takes a personal, psychological toll on YOU.
having perpetrated, you may ever more see yourself as a victim of it... like how murderers fear murder like no other (this i get purely from the movies... but it feels true)....
it may wear down the psychological resources you have for yourself if it should ever happen to you.
anyhoo, as i said at first, whatever you do, you gotta live with it. and if you can, you're set.
delta
p.s. but an interesting point has been made. why go for a chick that's already taken (however rudimentarily)? by your account, you're quite the catch and can have anybody. and the world is FULL... CHOCK FULL of hot chicks that are single. no matter how hot she is, she isn't SINGULARLY SPECTACULARLY HOT is she? all hot chicks are a dime a dozen. so why go after one that's attached?
it sounds like you're trying to rescue her maybe but that can be a kind of a pathological complex too....
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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