Steal The Girl - [Not Too Long]

[Tristan Rhymes]

Steal The Girl!

I dated this girl for a few weeks, nothing serious. We would just hang out every other night usually at my house, and i've got lots of friends male and female that stop by. [I'm a popular guy] So we were never really alone. We talked one night and agreed that we would start seeing each other.

I had known from an earlier discussion that she had had an ex bf that she had lived with. She also told me that they had split up 4 months earlier, and she wasn't going back because he had cheated on her. Well after i hadn't heard from her in a week, I started to wonder what the F%#* is goin on?! It wasn't until one of her friends mentioned that she was back with her ex. This was the first time i heard about it, because she hadn't mentioned anything to me, she just sort of disappeared. Now i still see the girl sometimes, but it's when she's working. And only then, she doesn't contact me anymore or anything. At the time i met her i thought she was interested, and she was coming to see me. Now that she's back with her man, I'm guessing it's over... or iz it?

I'd still like to get her, should I try? And if so, what the **** do i do about it without looking like a crazy fool. Should I try to work this girl and steal her from her bf or should I just look elsewhere, she's super HOT, and we did get along really good.

I want her still, but don't know what i should do. Like I said I WANT her bad.

Thanks, TR

 

[DJ_Dork]

Forget about her. What makes you think she might not go back to her ex again.. she's playing ya both dude.

 

[Slickster]

Tristan.

Please don't take any offense, bro but you've made a few errors here. I'm going to try and tell you what they are so you don't make the same mistakes in the future.

1. Dated her for a few weeks and seeing her every other night. Too much too fast. You have to maintain a challenge for her or she's going to think getting you is easy. When first dating you should see her once or twice a week max. On weekends you're busy so make your dates for early in the week.

2. Talked one night and agreed we should start seeing each other Too fast again. Also you shouldn't talk about this stuff. Especially don't bring up being exclusive yourself. This is for her to ask. You have to have her believe that you are a man who is in demand. You have many options and are keeping them all open.

3. She talked about her ex. Red flags here. Maybe she is over him. But why is she talking about him? Hmm.... Any chicks who talk about ex's should be dealt with very cautiously. Usually a good sign that you should be looking elsewhere. Which is what you should be doing anyways.

4. She dissappeared Just like Jack Handey said, "If you drop your keys into molten lava - let 'em go cuz man they're gone!" Thats what you should do here. She used you for attention while she was apart from her ex. Probably to make him jealous. Now that he's come back you're out. She'd love for you to hang around and chase her. DON'T! Super HOT chicks are for the most part attention wh0res and never give them what they want. Not unless you're getting something in return
Doesn't this give you some signs of what type of woman you're dealing with here. Besides her looks she's a dud and would cause you nothing but problems in the future. You say the two of you were "together" and she didn't have the decency to break up with you. She's playing you like a fool. The ultimate insult. And you're still holding hopes to get her back! Time to wise up. Good move coming here.

Its a tough lesson Tristan but you've learned something here.

Good luck.

 

[Tristan Rhymes]

Well fella's... it appears to me that the advice you guys have given me is bang on. Believe me when i tell you, this chik is soo HOT, and her body rivals a pornstars, but that doesn't matter if this little attention ***** is going to be playing me like a fool.

DJ_Dork - I was thinking the same thing... and you are right, she's already proven that she can just split and go back to her ex so what would stop her from doing it again. Thanks man!

Hey Slickster,

I'm not taking offese to what you've said... it actually rang a bell in my head, i've been dealing with this for a week or so now with advice coming from all directions, and i've already learned not to take advice from a woman. What you say is soo true. It's the best advice i've gotten and i'm taking it.

I have definately learned a few lessons here, with help from you guys. I'm going to forget this chik... I was doing just fine without her a month ago, I'm sure i can do alot better.

I've got alot to learn, and i think i can take some tips from here for sure. Anyway thanks alot Slickster.... you too DJ_Dork.

Tristan