Alright guys (and the lurking gal) I am back to posting topics (if you cared.) This topic will be on staying motivated. It is a request from an aspiring Dj who shall remain nameless for right now. Now on to the main point of this topic...
Motivation?: I realize that for a lot of you out th...ok, all of you out there, you will lose interest at some point (hopefully not during this post
.) You need to be motivated to keep going that extra...whatever it is to improve yourself. You could get almost everything done, then lose interest and not want to talk to new people. That's a waste. Below are ways to stay motivated...
Ways To Stay Motivated And Keep Going:
Set a goal and reward for yourself when you accomplish it: What do you like to do? Computer games? Video games? Watch tv? Work out? Great. Cut that off. Set a goal for yourself for something that you wouldn't normally do. Suppose it is to talk to five girls you like. Once you do it, then reward yourself. Work out, play an hour of games, whatever. Just set a goal.
Do Something With Your Friends: Have any of you seen American Pie? Great. You have the idea now. Make a pact with your friends to get dates for the weekend. Alright! To the next step!
Do Something On A Dare: Somehow trick one of your friends or someone to dare you to do something you wouldn't normally do. Prove that you have the cajones to do it. Enjoy the look of shock on thier face. Enjoy the satisfaction that you got from knowing that you could do it.
Give A Little To Get A Little: Sort of like a pact. Say to one of your friends "If I talk to blah blah blah, then you blah blah blah." You are doing something and getting something, although if you are asking a girl out, you could get a little more then whatever you talked to your friends about...
That's it for right now. Either enjoy it or don't!. Comments/suggestions/flames/I want to increase my post count posts are welcomed...until the moderators see.
Motivation?: I realize that for a lot of you out th...ok, all of you out there, you will lose interest at some point (hopefully not during this post
.) You need to be motivated to keep going that extra...whatever it is to improve yourself. You could get almost everything done, then lose interest and not want to talk to new people. That's a waste. Below are ways to stay motivated...Ways To Stay Motivated And Keep Going:
Set a goal and reward for yourself when you accomplish it: What do you like to do? Computer games? Video games? Watch tv? Work out? Great. Cut that off. Set a goal for yourself for something that you wouldn't normally do. Suppose it is to talk to five girls you like. Once you do it, then reward yourself. Work out, play an hour of games, whatever. Just set a goal.
Do Something With Your Friends: Have any of you seen American Pie? Great. You have the idea now. Make a pact with your friends to get dates for the weekend. Alright! To the next step!
Do Something On A Dare: Somehow trick one of your friends or someone to dare you to do something you wouldn't normally do. Prove that you have the cajones to do it. Enjoy the look of shock on thier face. Enjoy the satisfaction that you got from knowing that you could do it.
Give A Little To Get A Little: Sort of like a pact. Say to one of your friends "If I talk to blah blah blah, then you blah blah blah." You are doing something and getting something, although if you are asking a girl out, you could get a little more then whatever you talked to your friends about...
That's it for right now. Either enjoy it or don't!
. Comments/suggestions/flames/I want to increase my post count posts are welcomed...until the moderators see.
