State of Suspension

[Desdinova]

The thing is, you don't always know what you are up against.

I usually assume I'm up against an AFC, and given the AFC population, that's a very good chance. It's incredibly easy to be more interesting, more fun, and in the case of a crush or LDR, more in her presence than some AFC.

When you think of how an AFC works, he's always afraid of offending her with a smartass comment, he won't dance in public because he'll think he looks like an idiot, and he's likely got her on a pedestal, treating her like a princess. Given how the average AFC behaves, it's fairly easy to guess what you're up against. And if you know that a woman is fantasizing about having these deep, strong emotions about some man who sweeps her off her feet, all you have to do is create situations that cause her to have strong emotions. You then become what she fantasizes about.

 

[##17]

well damn. why u hatin this should describe YOU too.

No hating, m' dear. Just expressing reality. And absolutely, that SHOULD and does describe me.

Desdinova, I do disagree with you here--I think that it's not so much about these other guys being AFC or not--or being better-looking or more successful or anything like that either--it's more about there being some sort of emotional connection to the girl that you (dating her once or twice) just don't have.

This could go off into a whole nother topic, but I think that dating (the way it is traditionally done) is a TERRIBLE way for a guy to seduce a girl.

 

[Desdinova]

I think that it's not so much about these other guys being AFC or not--or being better-looking or more successful or anything like that either--it's more about there being some sort of emotional connection to the girl that you (dating her once or twice) just don't have.

You are correrct about that. What I'm talking about is creating an emotional connection with her. Simply dating a woman won't create anything. Getting her phone number won't create anything. Fvcking her might not create anything either. It's not about what you do with the woman, it's how you do it, how you excite her emotions, how you get yourself stuck in her brain, and how you get her thinking about you when you're not around her.

I'm talking about creating that same "emotional connection" that she has with Mr. X, and it can be done. When she's thinking about you, she's not thinking about Mr. X.

You're wrong Des, women never think!

Yes iqqi, I know I'm wrong

 

[##17]

You are correrct about that. What I'm talking about is creating an emotional connection with her. Simply dating a woman won't create anything. Getting her phone number won't create anything. Fvcking her might not create anything either. It's not about what you do with the woman, it's how you do it, how you excite her emotions, how you get yourself stuck in her brain, and how you get her thinking about you when you're not around her.

I'm talking about creating that same "emotional connection" that she has with Mr. X, and it can be done. When she's thinking about you, she's not thinking about Mr. X.

Agreed.

 

[JLR]

This is why I only go after HIGH IL women.

You reach a certain point in life, when you don't CHASE. They either open the door or I close it. There will be some women I may overlook because of this no nonsense approach. I frankly don't care. At the end of the day, I have an army of plates that will jump through hoops for me.

Here is my no nonsense approach.

1) Only 1 phone call until it's returned
2) Only 1 offer to go out
3) One excuse is her last

I dont have time to ANALYZE philosophies of WHY?

If you were a CELEBRITY, a woman would return your calls, take your first offer and never make excuses.

Treat me with HIGH IL or you are out the door.

Thank you!! This states my philosophy to a "T"!!! I have zero "regrets" about "blowing" a chance w/ a chick; I am no dancing bear put on this earth to amuse some woman. Her IL needs to match or exceed mine; I HATE wasting time on some flake.

 

[Last Man Standing]

Women hate to be alone! They are "dependent" creatures!

 

[iqqi]

That's not what I would have said, Des, you are SLIPPING!


Also I was drunk when I posted that last comment on page one, haha, the hatin comment. I am DJ when I am drunk too! I didn't even remember posting that.