Original written for WSA:
http://www.worldsuccessalliance.com/forums/showthread.php?p=5988#post5988
STATE DOESN'T MATTER
SCREW HOW YOU FEEL!
For the longest time, I was under the impression that state actually matters. I've always been against blindly following the various chick-related dogma, but it's now become apparent to me that this is one area I've managed to overlook. Over time, I've come to realize that very few things actually matter (80% is guts/action, 20% is everything else combined) and it doesn't look like state is one of those few.
I mean don't get me wrong, being in various states does have its advantages. For instance, it's a thousand times easier to make a chick horny if you're horny yourself. Or is it? What if you're completely disireless and she's the type who wants what she can't have? What if that's the one thing that arouses her desire like nothing else? What if she hates horny guys? Or what if she loves them? Starting to see what I mean now? Precisely! It doesn't matter! You're not gonna win every time no matter who you are, no matter what you do!
Of course, the whole point of this, "this" being whatever it is that we're trying to accomplish here, is to decrease the odds of failure since we can't eliminate it. But are we really accomplishing that by thinking so much into the horrible mess that is the mind of your average female? The answer is a resounding no. The more we think, the more time we spend doing just that: thinking. The more time is wasted online, the less time is spent out there, where the women are. The more we hesitate, the longer it takes us to act, the more opportunities are missed.
In the end of the day, what are we really accomplishing? If you spend an hour each day on reading "seduction material" and the knowledge extracted from that hour will increase your odds of success by 0.1%, have you not wasted that hour, in which you could have actually MET a few women? Do you actually go for so many of them that the 0.1% will eventually amount to much of anything? So all you're doing is taking three steps forward and two steps back. Screw it. Go head-on!
But wait, I'm getting ahead of myself here. "Go head-on HOW? What if I don't feel like it?" Perfect! "What?" Perfect! If you couldn't care less about chicks right now and meet some, they'll love you because you'll appear cool and non-needy. On the flip side, if you're horny as hell, they'll love you because few men have the ability to unleash the raw, fiery passion within them. Even if you're depressed, they'll still love you because you'll appear dark, edgy and mysterious.
The only thing that actually makes any difference is that you're out there meeting people! There's a chick out there for everyone, really. Many chicks even. And they all like different things. I mean, just listen to the gurus. One swears on his life that being extremely horny is the only way to go when meeting chicks, the other is dead-on positive that a state of complete and utter lack of desire is the only thing capable of getting results! If they're both right, how is it that they're both getting laid?
I hope you understand what I've been trying to tell you now. Screw how you feel. If you don't wanna fvck, well then go out there to find chicks you could watch old movies and read books with. If you do wanna fvck, fine, go find chicks to just that! If you're feeling like Tony Montana himself, ready to take on the world, no fear - great, they'll love you for it. If you're feeling kinda shy and aren't exactly sure of what the hell you're doing - great, they'll think it's the cutest thing in the world and will love you for it just as easily.
BUT THE POINT IS: GET YOUR ASS OUT THERE! STOP TALKING, STOP THINKING, AND GO ACT! "LIFE PASSES MOST PEOPLE BY WHILE THEY'RE MAKING GRAND PLANS FOR IT." WORDS TO REMEMBER!
http://www.worldsuccessalliance.com/forums/showthread.php?p=5988#post5988
STATE DOESN'T MATTER
SCREW HOW YOU FEEL!
For the longest time, I was under the impression that state actually matters. I've always been against blindly following the various chick-related dogma, but it's now become apparent to me that this is one area I've managed to overlook. Over time, I've come to realize that very few things actually matter (80% is guts/action, 20% is everything else combined) and it doesn't look like state is one of those few.
I mean don't get me wrong, being in various states does have its advantages. For instance, it's a thousand times easier to make a chick horny if you're horny yourself. Or is it? What if you're completely disireless and she's the type who wants what she can't have? What if that's the one thing that arouses her desire like nothing else? What if she hates horny guys? Or what if she loves them? Starting to see what I mean now? Precisely! It doesn't matter! You're not gonna win every time no matter who you are, no matter what you do!
Of course, the whole point of this, "this" being whatever it is that we're trying to accomplish here, is to decrease the odds of failure since we can't eliminate it. But are we really accomplishing that by thinking so much into the horrible mess that is the mind of your average female? The answer is a resounding no. The more we think, the more time we spend doing just that: thinking. The more time is wasted online, the less time is spent out there, where the women are. The more we hesitate, the longer it takes us to act, the more opportunities are missed.
In the end of the day, what are we really accomplishing? If you spend an hour each day on reading "seduction material" and the knowledge extracted from that hour will increase your odds of success by 0.1%, have you not wasted that hour, in which you could have actually MET a few women? Do you actually go for so many of them that the 0.1% will eventually amount to much of anything? So all you're doing is taking three steps forward and two steps back. Screw it. Go head-on!
But wait, I'm getting ahead of myself here. "Go head-on HOW? What if I don't feel like it?" Perfect! "What?" Perfect! If you couldn't care less about chicks right now and meet some, they'll love you because you'll appear cool and non-needy. On the flip side, if you're horny as hell, they'll love you because few men have the ability to unleash the raw, fiery passion within them. Even if you're depressed, they'll still love you because you'll appear dark, edgy and mysterious.
The only thing that actually makes any difference is that you're out there meeting people! There's a chick out there for everyone, really. Many chicks even. And they all like different things. I mean, just listen to the gurus. One swears on his life that being extremely horny is the only way to go when meeting chicks, the other is dead-on positive that a state of complete and utter lack of desire is the only thing capable of getting results! If they're both right, how is it that they're both getting laid?
I hope you understand what I've been trying to tell you now. Screw how you feel. If you don't wanna fvck, well then go out there to find chicks you could watch old movies and read books with. If you do wanna fvck, fine, go find chicks to just that! If you're feeling like Tony Montana himself, ready to take on the world, no fear - great, they'll love you for it. If you're feeling kinda shy and aren't exactly sure of what the hell you're doing - great, they'll think it's the cutest thing in the world and will love you for it just as easily.
BUT THE POINT IS: GET YOUR ASS OUT THERE! STOP TALKING, STOP THINKING, AND GO ACT! "LIFE PASSES MOST PEOPLE BY WHILE THEY'RE MAKING GRAND PLANS FOR IT." WORDS TO REMEMBER!
