starting to attract females

[Juan Don]

i haven't posted here in a while because i've been busy. also,i haven't been out in a while. lately i have been getting attention from females ever since i started working out. it feels so good. the other night i went to the club and this girl approached me. she started qualifying herself and showed lots of interest. a lot of touching flirting going on and then kissing. i think i ruined it though after some kissing i told her she could do better than that. lol tried to see her reaction then i said i was kidding in a playful way. i don't know it didn't phase me but was that harsh? she later caught up with her friends and she looked kind of sad i said that. i didn't number close either. since she approached me i figured she would give it to me without asking. but, like i said it felt good and i didn't expect anything from it. i still enjoyed my time.

thoughts?

 

[betheman]

... i think i ruined it though after some kissing i told her she could do better than that. lol tried to see her reaction then i said i was kidding in a playful way. i don't know it didn't phase me but was that harsh? she later caught up with her friends and she looked kind of sad i said that.

thoughts?

she took it as a criticism, maybe she is insecure, women dont like any kind of criticism. put it down to experience, your didnt do anything wrong, maybe re phrase it next time, ..." you kiss good, do you have any other talents? {with a wink or a raised eyebrow}"

 

[Juan Don]

she took it as a criticism, maybe she is insecure, women dont like any kind of criticism. put it down to experience, your didnt do anything wrong, maybe re phrase it next time, ..." you kiss good, do you have any other talents? {with a wink or a raised eyebrow}"

ahh good call thanks!:rockon: i shall use that next time... and not criticize like how i did

 

[NewAndImproved]

Depends on the girl but in general I'd say it's safe to use that line on a HB8 or above.

You have the strike the balance between smiling when you say it (so it's clear you're not completely serious) but more of a coy smile (so it's still a little in doubt).

It's a challenge.

 

[zekko]

No one wants to be told they're a lousy kisser, that's too personal a thing to try to make into a "neg".

 

[Juan Don]

No one wants to be told they're a lousy kisser, that's too personal a thing to try to make into a "neg".

yeah. i'll take it as a learning experience. through out our conversation her interest was high and we both were joking each other and flirting. so i guess i thought nothing could kill the attraction...but that obviously did. so that won't happen again. hah