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Don Juan
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Hi, I've never had a longterm relationship with any girls. In fact, I wasn't very much successful with them until this summer, mainly thx to reading and doing some of the stuff on PUA websites. At the start of school I hooked up (no sex) with a girl (and made out with her friend in the same room, but that's a story for another time) and I kinda enjoyed it and asked for her number which she gave to me.
So fast forward to a week later and I see her again by chance late this Friday and afterwards decide to call her up and see if she wanted to "chill" at my place, which she said yeah and came over and we did the thing again (no sex). I made plans to hang out with her again the next day (this sat) and watched a movie at my place, followed by a bunch of conversation and more hooking up (no sex!! apparently she is a virgin).
Next I made plans for today to cook her dinner, but she only had an hour to hang out before she had to go back and do a bunch of work (we're in college btw). So we hang out today, eat, talk a bit, I tried to make some moves, but she gently refused saying if we started now she wouldn't leave for a while and then wouldn't be able to do the work she wanted. That's ok, I kinda expected it tho it kinda made me doubt myself .
I hope you enjoyed the story for what it's worth but now comes the question, what steps do I take to move this relationship forward? It's pretty clear she enjoys hanging out and I've made her come every time we hooked up (not me though, she's kinda bad at that ). I want to know, what steps do I take next? Do I call her up and invite her to dinner during the week? Do I wait until the weekend (Fri/Sat) and call her then to come out and party with me? I kinda like her. She's focused on her school work and is an overall good girl, so she's def relationship material. Thx!
So fast forward to a week later and I see her again by chance late this Friday and afterwards decide to call her up and see if she wanted to "chill" at my place, which she said yeah and came over and we did the thing again (no sex). I made plans to hang out with her again the next day (this sat) and watched a movie at my place, followed by a bunch of conversation and more hooking up (no sex!! apparently she is a virgin).
Next I made plans for today to cook her dinner, but she only had an hour to hang out before she had to go back and do a bunch of work (we're in college btw). So we hang out today, eat, talk a bit, I tried to make some moves, but she gently refused saying if we started now she wouldn't leave for a while and then wouldn't be able to do the work she wanted. That's ok, I kinda expected it tho it kinda made me doubt myself .
I hope you enjoyed the story for what it's worth but now comes the question, what steps do I take to move this relationship forward? It's pretty clear she enjoys hanging out and I've made her come every time we hooked up (not me though, she's kinda bad at that ). I want to know, what steps do I take next? Do I call her up and invite her to dinner during the week? Do I wait until the weekend (Fri/Sat) and call her then to come out and party with me? I kinda like her. She's focused on her school work and is an overall good girl, so she's def relationship material. Thx!