This is more annoying then a straight "no" from a chick when asking her out.
They either just stall or act as if you never actually said anything even though you are like right there....two feet from their ears.
Now logically I know what a stall/ignore means. It's as good as a no. But if I accept a stall/ignore as an answer then it just feels like I lost some self-respect.
If I "push" the matter and demand an answer or say something that shows I'm pissed off then that makes it seem like I can't handle rejection.
The last time I pointed out to the chick she was stalling and just said that I respect an either yes or no answer. She then said "probably not". I just let it go at that but what I really wanted to say was "look you idiot, I just told you to either give me a yes or no answer, are you braindead?".
They either just stall or act as if you never actually said anything even though you are like right there....two feet from their ears.
Now logically I know what a stall/ignore means. It's as good as a no. But if I accept a stall/ignore as an answer then it just feels like I lost some self-respect.
If I "push" the matter and demand an answer or say something that shows I'm pissed off then that makes it seem like I can't handle rejection.
The last time I pointed out to the chick she was stalling and just said that I respect an either yes or no answer. She then said "probably not". I just let it go at that but what I really wanted to say was "look you idiot, I just told you to either give me a yes or no answer, are you braindead?".