Stacy laments that even after 400 first dates in 3 years, she can't find a man, while aquaintance gets divorced, and gets a new man quickly
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Pierce Manhammer
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Might be all the Botox and filler in her face and lips, ridiculous makeup, and 500ml saline bags embedded in my chest.
EyeBRollin
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Nah. She is attractive enough for some men. Her standards are just way too fvcking high. 400 dates and none were good enough for her.
Fortune_favors_the_bold
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They all look the same, they are like the borg from star trek where the collectivity sucks their individuality.
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Sadly, she would have likely been far happier with some of those guys long term than if she were to find her "perfect guy".
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Ever went shopping for shoes and you simply couldn't pick one? Like, you said "imma spend 300 whole bucks this time!!". And you go online and see 400 types of shoes. You maybe want two pairs but that's too expensive. You can only get ONE.
This is what these women go through. And the very few men they do fancy, well...these men dont want them.
Lets be honest: if any of us could go on 400 dates a year she would have zero chance as well.
400 actually means more than 1 a day..
This is what these women go through. And the very few men they do fancy, well...these men dont want them.
Lets be honest: if any of us could go on 400 dates a year she would have zero chance as well.
400 actually means more than 1 a day..
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Spoiled for choice. Or, just plan spoiled.
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She has been single for 3 years. Based on @kavi and his math, it's probably not 400 first dates. It might be something like 200-300 because she's likely had some 2nd and 3rd in there. Regardless of the number, she has failed in the mating marketplace.
She has had too much abundance and has been spoiled for choice. Even if she has had 200 first dates, she has likely had thousands of options to choose from just to get to those 200 first dates.
If she has had 200 first dates in 3 years, how many of those 200 first dates have resulted in sex? The majority of those first dates will be "one date, no sex, no second date" type interactions. I would estimate she's only had sex with around 10-20 of those men. Most won't be good enough for her. That's still a higher notch count woman.
I find her physically attractive. Nice breasts. She's likely younger than 33. Plenty of men will find her desirable.
She seems like one of those women who has absolutely nothing in common with men so it is hard for her to connect. Some women are so girly that they live in another universe from men and can only get a bf if they are really pleasant to look at.
