SS is putting me off women......

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Slickster said:
Is it a vaccine or is it poison?
Hopefully it's poison to enabling mangina's. There's a special place at the 6th circle of hell for those chronic wrist fvckers.

Burroughs and Boiler you 2 should kiss and make up, you both are solid red pill contributors here. It's a shame because your both technically on the same page as one another.
 
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Burroughs and Boiler you 2 should kiss and make up, you both are solid red pill contributors here. It's a shame because your both technically on the same page as one another.
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Burroughs and Boiler you 2 should kiss and make up, you both are solid red pill contributors here. It's a shame because your both technically on the same page as one another.
You are right. As I am the younger man, and Burroughs has been nothing but cordial to me all along, I should apologize first.

My teases (just like his) have always been tongue-in-cheek, but perhaps we aren't giving that impression to others and it looks unpleasant.

I promise to stop ;)

Cheers ol'Burroughs!
 

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You shouldn't be against all women, just the half that everyone comes here to complain about. Avoid the feminazi, the land whales, cluster B's etc and leave them for the rest of the men. Find the good ones... or don't play.

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Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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I've noticed that men who turn on the light and expose reality are often labeled as women haters, misogynists, etc.

The irony is that these men are exposing reality because they think that through exposure and education, things can change and know that that a restoration of natural balance is best for all concerned, women included.

But the labelers, the self-described "lovers" and "defenders" of women, are usually the ones who espouse the idea of pumping and dumping as many women as possible.

Who is it that does more violence to women... The ones who have a deep caring for what is happening in our sick, morally bankrupt and feminized society and who want to alert others to that which is hidden from most men, or the ones who say, "That's just how it is, don't hate" and then bang the daylights out of as many women as they can smooth-talk into bed for a night?
 

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Women are not the enemy. You are -- you are your own worst enemy. You have to know where women fit in your life. They must never be the number one priority. Maybe third, preferably fourth. Having priorities ahead of them gives you a more fulfilling life, prevents you from being negatively affected by women, and makes you more attractive to women.

Accept women as, simply, women. They are one aspect of your life, certainly not the most important one, and you will not be so negative about dating.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
I've noticed that men who turn on the light and expose reality are often labeled as women haters, misogynists, etc.

The irony is that these men are exposing reality because they think that through exposure and education, things can change and know that that a restoration of natural balance is best for all concerned, women included.

But the labelers, the self-described "lovers" and "defenders" of women, are usually the ones who espouse the idea of pumping and dumping as many women as possible.

Who is it that does more violence to women... The ones who have a deep caring for what is happening in our sick, morally bankrupt and feminized society and who want to alert others to that which is hidden from most men, or the ones who say, "That's just how it is, don't hate" and then bang the daylights out of as many women as they can smooth-talk into bed for a night?
Very insightful.
 

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Well, one may easily disagree with Zarky, but I wouldn't put him in a category of "just a contrarian looking for attention"...
 

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Well, one may easily disagree with Zarky, but I wouldn't put him in a category of "just a contrarian looking for attention"...
Yeah, I think Zarky has conviction, he believes what he is saying.
 

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OP-I hear you. This forum has both helped and at times hurt me. Partially because my eyes have been opened to a variety of interesting perspectives, but also because there is a lot of negativity in terms of people being bitter, frustrated, etc--really I have just NOW understood a certain level of peace with the way things are--but do noy be fooled that because there are many callused men whom hate women because of pain, in some ways that is there choice--and there are plenty of people who have happy relationships. Just try and connect to someone you enjoy spending time with, don't place such emphasis on extrinisic, but also look intrinsically as to her core values, beliefs and interests. IDK--I have wasted a lot of time with superficial women whom don't have much solid intelligence to offer. This is the internet. Not reality. Reach into reality and see what you can also understand.

Don't let this place get to deep into your mind or absorb other people's pain and bad decisions. If you had met them in real life you might second guess your conclusions on your mental generalizations.
 

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Zarky said:
In fact, of all the boards I've ever been on, and I've been on a lot, this is the board that I would put my money on having the most FBI analysts lurking on it, just waiting for some George Sodini or Gunwitch-like guy to spill the beans that he's about to shoot up some woman's gym somewhere.

Lack of sex does awful, awful things to mens' minds. :crackup:

I read a book on Jack the Ripper awhile back and it cited evidence that he had a micropenis. His inability to screw women literally caused him to go nuts and stab them with a big knife -- a metaphorical phallus. Many of the guys on this board "f*ck" women by calling them names anonymously rather than actually being able to f*ck them literally.

I'd be really interested to know what these guys look like. Really interested.
Zarky, in light of this quote I'd like to ask you a favor. Read this article by self-confessed mangina Hugo Schwyzer and tell me what you think:

http://jezebel.com/5972788/no-one-is-entitled-to-sex-why-we-should-mock-the-nice-guys-of-okcupid

I'm doing a blog post about this soon and I'd appreciate the input.
 

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You still need to reconcile knowledge of women with being happy.

It's ok to know and understand hypergamy, whilst still loving women and wanting to sleep with them.

Don't let it turn you off to them, but rather let it keep you prepared for what they can do to you if you make the mistake of commiting to one, or getting one pregnant.

Agreed. I went through a bitterness phase, and it's easy to do here early on. Your mind is very impressionable when you are first wrenched away from your old AFC views, and, not surprisingly, SS attracts a lot of super bitter guys who blame their failures on women.

You CAN still love women while knowing and understanding their behaviors. When you realize you are in control of your own destiny then it becomes much easier to go about your life.

You have the power to CHOOSE your women;
You have the power to LEAVE a bad woman;
You have the power to PROTECT yourself and your future from common pitfalls.

My advice to guys who are feeling the way the OP does would be to reacquaint yourself with some positive material (DJ bible type stuff) and take a break from SS for a while.
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Zarky, in light of this quote I'd like to ask you a favor. Read this article by self-confessed mangina Hugo Schwyzer and tell me what you think:

http://jezebel.com/5972788/no-one-is-entitled-to-sex-why-we-should-mock-the-nice-guys-of-okcupid

I'm doing a blog post about this soon and I'd appreciate the input.
Rollo, I'd be careful using Zarky as an example of classic mangina if that's what your thinking.

1. Writes with an overtly feminine accentuation. 5 minutes on Gender genie confirms this. To get 1 out of 5 "written by a female" is rare, to get every post is almost unheard of.

2. While I agree typical mangina's tend not to have alot of male friends, but to openly despise men, traditional masculinity and admit you have nothing in common with men is again rare.

3. The lovely Zarky has been crusading against the manosphere for years at various sites which is more akin to an ardent fem loon than a typical mangina.
 

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betheman said:
Absolutely, read the basics and move on out and do what works for you and what suits you. its too easy to get wrapped up in other people train wrecks and take their bitterness and let it cloud your views.
women arent the enemy, they arent the goal, they are just women doing what they do, once you understand the way they work, your life wilbe that bit easier
+ 1.

If you're goal is any type of LTR, you'll have to endure this thing called "compromising", which blows, but since women got the right to vote 'n all, things have changed. I kid. The Alpha-male stuff portrayed is great for pulling women, but keeping her takes real game.
 
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