Split Personality, this has helped me more than anything.

[S0LID]

Hey guys this is a little project I'm working on. I was out the over night and was looking at average guys with smart girls at closing time. Got thinking well I’m better looking than some of these guys so it’s obviously down to personality and attitude. then you see an ugly guy who is lively with a hot girl. Got me thinking, if he was me what girl would he be with tonight?

Due to being an AFC all my life I see myself from passed achievements which aren't good. So what if I had been full of confidence all my life? What if..... Well for 1 I wouldn't have been sitting in the club at the end of the night pitying myself. You can’t change the past however hard you try.

What if though you create a personality in your head. A personality which is confident and doesn’t care about rejection because his past is epic cause you invent his past. He’s inside you just waiting to come out and seduce any woman he wants.

In my head I become Tyler Durden (thank you fight club).

Try it out. It may not happen instantly but give it time.

You'd be suprised the stuff you know after being on this forum for a while. Problem is you wont use it. Tyler will cause he has no fear.

Comments?

 

[gav]

i can get a split personality too. all i have to do is the drink the magic potion (usually in the form of a case of beer)

that becoming tyler durden thing is just the same principle as following your role model

 

[S0LID]

o yes beer helps.

 

[DJ_Dork]

Split personality = Inconsistency in relationship. Girl will find you threatening if she sees you acting in different personas. You wouldn't want to date a girl that was a shy girl to you and then all of a sudden a wild sex starving woman when she's at parties. The reverse is okay though!

 

[S0LID]

yeah but once its worked a few times and uve pulled them babes you are the character then cause you have actualy pulled hbs.

 

[hoxxxie]

As weird as this sounds, I do something extremely similar to what you mentioned: every once in a while, I'll stop and ask myself "What would Tyler do?". I'm a pretty big fan of Fight Club, and this always gets me into the desired mentality.

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by S0LID
You'd be suprised the stuff you know after being on this forum for a while. Problem is you wont use it. Tyler will cause he has no fear.

Comments?

Testosterone doesn't have any fear either, as it's impossible to be horny and scared at the same time. I think that if instead of pretending to feel like tyler durden, just allow yourself to get jazzed up sexually and use that as a supercharge for the approach. This is a great way as long as you don't make yourself look like a real idiot or extreeme pervert somehow in the process, and the ladies actually enjoy being around a man like this [ I know from experience], and it's fun too. Try it some time...

 

[ali_g]

Split personality = Inconsistency in relationship. Girl will find you threatening if she sees you acting in different personas. You wouldn't want to date a girl that was a shy girl to you and then all of a sudden a wild sex starving woman when she's at parties. The reverse is okay though!

On the contrary, this is exactly what would intrigue a lot of women. It always makes life interesting both for you and them to have some sort of an alter-ego. As women are emotional creatures, what gets them interested and excited is someone who's unpredictable.

 

[ali_g]

Adding to that, I agree that I wouldn't want a women to be inconsistent. But what turns a women on is not what turns us on. Us men want consistency with women, but women due to their more complex natures want just as much some excitement. A lot of them due to their emotions would rather feel intrigued than bored. Unusual behaviour intrigues them particularly as it's in their nature to constantly study and analyse people behaviour.

 

[S0LID]

better to be complex than simple.

 

[AFK Protector]

Yeah! Split personalities rock!! They think they can keep me in this looney house....but not for long....NOT FOR LONG

MWAHAHAHAHAAHAHAAAA

 

[Dimebag_Darrell]

I use that same technique.

I'm Jeffrey Dahmer..

I'll be at a party and I want to talk to a girl, what do I do to motivate me? I simply say in my mind "what would Jeffrey or Mr. Gein do?" and I proceed to get the convo rollin, and then the number. its fantastic!

 

[S0LID]

I still use this. I'm getting better at it, got a kinda aura about me now, it just feel a part of my personality.

"Fake it untill you make it"

 

[theSpeculator]

There is a concept about personality that most people are either ignorant of it or do not understand. The concept is that a personality is much more complex than being a single entity. Personality is in fact made up of many different subpersonality. There is of course your dominant subpersonality that is usually at the surface of your mind and what people usually equate you as. Then there are many other subpersonalities that lies below the surface. And ocassionally they would surface for a certain time period before going back down.

Subpersonalities are complex. Some common ones are a father and mother personalities that is similar to the personality of your father and mother. A inner child subpersonality that reflect you when you were young. An adolescent subpersonality. An femine/masculine (depending on your sex) subpersonality.

You could even create one that was confident and charismatic. In other words, a subpersonalty of the person that you are trying to become.

Another interesting concept that I have been thinking a lot about is that just because one of your subpersonality may be currently the dominat one, does not mean that it will always be. Another subpersonality can take over and become the dominant one. This may explain how some people can change their personality so drastically; into a completely new person.

However, when you try to change, your current subpersonality will not let itself lose without fighting back. It will fight your your new subpersonality will everything it has. And with most guys, it will usually win. It takes someone with a very strong mind and will to be able to change himself, especially when it is a drastic (HUGE) change.

Another concept it that for someone to be healty in mind, all their subpersonality must be working together (like a community) to support your main personality. It is when you have two or more subpersonalities in conflict with each other is when psychological problems appear.

This is meant to be a short post and there is much more to be said about this subject, like how can it be apply to DJ. But that will have to be written another time. I might do that and put it in the Testaments, which I am currently working on right now. If you are interesting in helping, go click on the link below to learn more.

 

[eggnawgkid]

Originally posted by hoxxxie
As weird as this sounds, I do something extremely similar to what you mentioned: every once in a while, I'll stop and ask myself "What would Tyler do?". I'm a pretty big fan of Fight Club, and this always gets me into the desired mentality.

I wonder if there's a big market for WWTD bracelets?

 

[Alpha_Animal]

Good post I agree with having split personalities.
Thats not what you told me a week ago, you seemed annoyed back then.
I can change my mind on things you know.
Suppose so, now you have an excuse for your other personalities.

Seriously, whats with all the what would Tyler Durden do? What you should ask is "what would I do if I was free of all my negative emotions and beliefs, what would benifit me(or us)?"
I know Tylers alpha in every sense of the word but you've got to keep the focus on what you want to do. Thinking of it from a third person perspective probably helps loads but, at the end of the day, relying on an image that has already been created by someone else than you is pointless. Sit down, write down what your image of a perfect alpha is, name him I or your name and then think "What would I do?" "What would Animal do?" etc. You are then moulding your own persona thats suited to you.

 

[DjDreamer]

Love the idea of being in control with a split personality.

It's basicly acting and a good defense.

If the woman gets upset with 1 personality, it's no major worries... the original personality is the net below the personality balancing act and a better personality can always be created.

 

[n00bPimp]

I've started trying this lately, it has worked well specially in the social aspects of my life. I used to be conservative and shy before. Now, I'm an accountant while at work, Vin Diesel everywhere else. Of course its not that extreme, I try blending them both and shaping it into 1 person.

 

[DJ Hawtness]

I dunno, I think you're just lucky SOLID. It has them curious because you are "different" from other guys.

Basically, just don't make yourself look stupid and this could work...

 

[Virtú]

What if I want to change who I am instead of just pretending to be someone else?

Personally, I don't want to have to bother with keeping up appearances, with having to spend time and effort maintaining a facade or remembering which personality I used with which girl.

My character flaws go way deeper than not being able to pick up chicks, so I've got more to gain by big deep fundamental change.

Remodeling isn't enough; I feel that I have to tear down, redesign, and rebuild from the foundation up.