backbreaker
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how many times will **** like this be posted, before it is realized that most women are open to alot of different things, but in general, different people have different set perfrences
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This racial crap is really silly, and I think people post this shyt to get others riled up. But I will say this. Backbreaker, you're an idiot.Originally posted by backbreaker
alot of black/asian/hispanic guys like white women, and shoot themselves down because one girl turned them down or wasn't interested
little do most know, the probem more than likely their skin color, it was them...
someone said it best.. it's hard to look in the mirror and see what's wrong with you.. it's alot easier to place blame elsewhere (oh, she doesn't like black guys, that's why she didn't date me)
I have yet to find a girl that would turn me down simply because I am african american.. if I play my game right, and she is somewhat interested in the first place, I can sell the rest, regardless of skin color..
alot of women are willing to date outside their race.. however the problem isn't with the girl, it's with the guy who is an unfinished product trying to sell himself to "finished" women (i.e hotties) of any color
Originally posted by Mr_knowit_all
This racial crap is really silly, and I think people post this shyt to get others riled up. But I will say this. Backbreaker, you're an idiot.
Most people will date their own race....that's just the way it is. Hollywood likes to portray this multi-cultural dating world, where all blondes lust after black men, and all asian women want hot white men..the truth is...most people are most atrracted to their own race.
It's not being racist, it's how people generally tend to be.
Now I know there will be people screamning about how they see black men with the gorgeous white women...and I believe them...but it's not the norm. People can date who they want, but most of the time that happens to be their own kind.
What I was referring to, is your claim that your skin color doesn't exclude you from dating certain women. The truth is, some bytches will not date you because you're black. Most white women won't date you because you're black. Not necessarily because they're not attracted, but society, or family can hinder them from ever doing it.Originally posted by backbreaker
so you call me an idiot, and then proceed to regergitate varbatium what I said?
of course!! we aren't in a color blind world where every other couple is of the mixed varity
People for the most part usually tend to stick with their kind.. simply because people are attracted to their own race
however, just because people are attracted to their own race, doesn't necessarly mean that people aren't attracted to other races as well.
There are variying factors for why a woman will/won't date outside of their race, it's not simple. I am black and I do well with women of all races, but I am pretty good looking, in shape and I am well off finanically.
Ironically for me, it's black women I have the hardest time "(not a hard time, hard is realitive) with because I get the "I don't come off as the type that likes black women" line alot.. and I do, I love black women.. it's just that I love ALL women, not just black women.
I mean what you really have to ask yourself is, if a woman honestly sees nothign wrong with you, and says you know what.. you aren't white or you aren't hispanic or whatever the case may be, is that someone you want to date anyway? I sure as hell don't... I have never beent urned down because of my race so I have never had to face that problem head to head, but that is still not a person I would be too keen on dating anyway, and would be glad she saved me the time /trouble.
Originally posted by mroriginal2
Since when did this thread become about blondes craving blacks?
To me dark guys= italians-spanish or as what the ausie djs would call them ''wogs''.
I agree with mr.know it all, we are most attracted to our own race the most. only a few people in the world are attracted to another race instead of their own. where did I ever say blondes go crazy about blacks,asians, indians. BUT If you look at an italian or some south americans they are some what european but with darker features that most white girls like, thats the only race or whatever youwould like to call it that would have it easier with scandinavian or just white women in general. As a matter of fact being black or asian I see it as a disadvantage(no offence)
Originally posted by Mr_knowit_all
I'm in my late 20's dude, and I certainly don't see a bunch of women suddenly wanting to date interracially. It seems like a lot of black men want to perpetuate this myth, but I simply don't see it.
The argument is, that white women are secretly lusting after black men, but society is keeping them from pursuing their desires. I'm telling you bro, it doesn't work that way. The simple fact is, MOST WOMEN ARE ATTRACTED TO AND DATE THEIR OWN RACE.
I don't find that white men have as much of a problem with interracial dating as black men do. You don't see spanish guys, or oriental guys screaming about all the white chicks they can get. But black men seem to want to perpetuate this idea that they can get so many white women. If you can..that's good for you, but why do you think that bothers white men? We get our share, and don't begrudge anyone else.
I say date who you want, but just because it's your experience, doesn't mean it happens everywhere.
Good luck with the sarging bros.
that is very trueOriginally posted by Abbott
One thing I've noticed though, is that the richer someone is, or the higher social status they have, the less willing they are to have relationships with someone who isn't of their race.
anybody who doesn't like their own race either can't attract their own race, wishes they were a different race, or is just a plain freak with serious issuesOriginally posted by backbreaker
Like I said, i have an EX that only talks to black guys, and she is as white as snow.
she's my ex for a reason.. i'll leave it at that. She's good looking, but like I said.. she's my ex for a reasonOriginally posted by Silverback82
anybody who doesn't like their own race either can't attract their own race, wishes they were a different race, or is just a plain freak with serious issues
enough of the blacks on blondes crap too
just because a few pigs are willing to have sex with black guys for money doesn't mean ****
I guess guys that look like Ron Jeremy have hope![]()