Spinoff AZNmen-whitegirl: think darker guys would have a better chance with blondes?

[mroriginal2]

Interesting observation im seeing around my college campus, lighter chicks are always with a darker complexion guy, especially blonde girls. It could probably go the same with blonde guys and dark girls. but thats what I see most of the time. even with me, most women that check me out are blonde and blue eyed (im italian and hispanic BTW).Im not saying this is a universal rule but their is some truth to it I think. Do you think this is true or is it just a silly observation that I can only see with my x ray vision?

 

[Tomatoes]

Blacks on Blondes....

I must admit I know a few blonde girls who have said they crave a black man. I dont hold any social or scientific reasoning to it thow. Just happens...

 

[$BD]

My Hispanic Eyes are like a freaking BLONDE-SEEKER

Once I see a HB Blonde.. I can't get my eyez of her..

I think that theory might actually be true

 

[Not Quite There]

someone said before:

men are attracted to blondes because its seen as a sign of youthfullness.

where as women are into tall dark and handsome men because its seen as sign of maturity.

I've heard before that scandinavean women like mediteranean looking men, so there good be something in it. but then again, most women are into the sterotypical 'tall dark and handsome ' look.

Also, the fact that most blondes aren't real, kinda goes against your theory.

 

[Le Parisien]

Originally posted by mroriginal2
Interesting observation im seeing around my college campus, lighter chicks are always with a darker complexion guy, especially blonde girls. It could probably go the same with blonde guys and dark girls. but thats what I see most of the time. even with me, most women that check me out are blonde and blue eyed (im italian and hispanic BTW).Im not saying this is a universal rule but their is some truth to it I think. Do you think this is true or is it just a silly observation that I can only see with my x ray vision?

Sure if you mean by dark the "mediterranean latin lover" type, I think it works wonders, and NOT just with the blonde girls...

I have this turkish friend in the US, he fits perfectly the dark mediterranean look. His ex girlfriend is the perfect all american hot tall blonde, plus she's not an airhead. Too bad they had to break up for obscur reasons (mostly career related/geographic location reasons...)

It's quite funny, I actually tried to hit on her after their breakup, not really knowing anything about their relationship (I only learned it from my friend months later ). With all the charm I have , I was almost transparent to her.

 

[Not Quite There]

Originally posted by Tomatoes
Blacks on Blondes....

I must admit I know a few blonde girls who have said they crave a black man. I dont hold any social or scientific reasoning to it thow. Just happens...

probably a bit to do with the media, porn and mtv seem to promote this image all the time.

 

[Le Parisien]

Originally posted by Not Quite There
probably a bit to do with the media, porn and mtv seem to promote this image all the time.

Spot on!

Personally, I'm waiting for the mass media to promote the Asians with airhead blondes image...

Maybe in ten to twenty years from now...

 

[mroriginal2]

Today I had to stop by my G.E.D computer class to pick up some papers from my instructor as I walked in, their was this SMOOOOOKKIN HOT tall blonde HB9 who kept eyeing me(in a goodway). too bad I was in their for about 10 minutes or I would ve sat next to her to prove my theory.and when I mean smokin hot, I mean this chick was flawless *drool*.

does anyone else have a story to further my theory?

 

[mroriginal2]

Forgot to mention my last girlfriend was a brunette so that goes against my theory BUT she could easily pull the blonde look

 

[Big Eee Zee]

what does this have to do wtih anything?

girls dont "favor" any one particular race, they "favor" a guy's presentation of himself. and if a certain ethnicity behaves like that, they may say "I like such-and-such."

What they mean is "I like the way such-and-such act."

So adopt a masculine attitude, and stop wondering whether being black will get you chicks.

 

[Warlord]

Most definetely, skin color, hair color plays a role in attraction. But more so in facial features and the value a guy has.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Originally posted by Not Quite There
probably a bit to do with the media, porn and mtv seem to promote this image all the time.

The media portrays black men as gangsters, rappers and atheletes. When you think of the sterotypical black male what do you think of? I myself dont dress 'how black guys should' nor do i speak ebonics like an ignorant shrew. Its merely whether theyre attracted to someone or not, its not a science or some sh*t.

 

[mroriginal2]

Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
what does this have to do wtih anything?

girls dont "favor" any one particular race, they "favor" a guy's presentation of himself. and if a certain ethnicity behaves like that, they may say "I like such-and-such."

What they mean is "I like the way such-and-such act."

So adopt a masculine attitude, and stop wondering whether being black will get you chicks.

First of all, im white italian with a hint of cuban and peru. second of all, I already do fine with chicks. third, girls may not favor a race but facial features and skin color do play a big role when attracting a girl and thats a fact.

 

[Mr_knowit_all]

I'm not sure why some people associate "dark features" with black men? I think some blonde women like black men, but I think a majority prefer the Italian/Spanish look. Dark hair, dark eyes, olive complected skin.

Not that blonde men, and red haired guys don't get women, but those features on men tend to be less attractive to most women.

I agree Hollywood promotes the blacks on blondes image. I also don't think it's nearly as prominent as they'd make you believe.

Word to your mother

 

[The Former Priest]

while I was using Yahoo dating site for almost one year, I noticed that most blonde girls prefer guys with dark hair, eyes..

So i can claim that it's a fact.

 

[SynTheUnscathed]

Blame it on Grease.

 

[oranges]

Originally posted by The Former Priest
while I was using Yahoo dating site for almost one year, I noticed that most blonde girls prefer guys with dark hair, eyes..

So i can claim that it's a fact.

nothing a bit of hair dye and contacts cant sort !

 

[Adone]

Originally posted by The Former Priest
while I was using Yahoo dating site for almost one year, I noticed that most blonde girls prefer guys with dark hair, eyes..

So i can claim that it's a fact.

I don't think that having blue eyes is keeping girls away from me, dude...

 

[Don Ronny]

Pretty obvious post. People tend to be curious about exotic races. Evolution has us wanting to tap other gene pools so it's only natural for a gal to want to try different flavors. Especially in college, which is a breeding ground for sexual experimentation.

In the end, racial trends should not concern you, because game knows no color!

 

[Abbott]

Different people have different preferences. That's all there is to it.

As a white male, I refuse to date, have sex, or have a relationship with someone who isn't a white female.

But that's just me.

Plus I don't feel the least bit bad or racist (though once an idiot called me one because of my preferences) because it's just a preference. There are those who only want black partners, or hispanic partners. Going around with a shotgun and killing every (ethnic) man you see just because they are (ethnic) is racist. Only wanting relationships with certain people isn't.

One thing I've noticed though, is that the richer someone is, or the higher social status they have, the less willing they are to have relationships with someone who isn't of their race. This is true regardless of the race involved. There are exceptions to every rule, of course. But that's just a general trend I've noticed.


Ben