LongLostFriend
Don Juan
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- Apr 9, 2013
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"When you talk about girls to another girl, you don't have to give her all the details like a police report."
Definitely this. You will inevitably end up coming off as defensively explaining yourself (i.e. qualifying yourself to her) or giving the impression that you are more dedicated to one of the other plates (and thereby giving her the impression that she is "the other woman" when she is one of many others).
Walk the line between hiding it and divulging the details. That sweet spot works for "preselection" and gets her hamster trying to fill in the blanks you leave in a way that satisfies her.
Definitely this. You will inevitably end up coming off as defensively explaining yourself (i.e. qualifying yourself to her) or giving the impression that you are more dedicated to one of the other plates (and thereby giving her the impression that she is "the other woman" when she is one of many others).
Walk the line between hiding it and divulging the details. That sweet spot works for "preselection" and gets her hamster trying to fill in the blanks you leave in a way that satisfies her.