Spinning plates. How many and how do you find the time?

[HumbleNinja]

I do agree it's good to have options but I believe you get more options from having a good social circle, being outgoing, dressing your best, working out, and grooming your best.

That being said. For anyone spinning plates..

How many can you handle at one time without screwing up stories or what you've talked about with which one?

How IF you actually have a life, work, have friends, family, do activities, sports, have hobbies, school etc. find the time to juggle multiple chicks, yet not spend too much money on them?

I can barely handle two let alone three at the same time.

Dudes make spinning plates sound as if they find all this time in their lives to juggle different women, never fvk up in stories/not get busted/ have their name get out there to other chicks/ within their social circle etc (without doing online dating). as if there is some unlimited supply of chicks who never cross each other, don't care if you are seeing other chicks and just all gravitate to the dude.

IMO if you have nothing going on for you in life other than chicks maybe you can handle a few tops.

The most you can do is have several contact numbers and keep in touch sporadically. I know too many good looking dudes who aren't dating numerous chicks at once. Most will date a person for a time and then meet more chicks. Not have a bunch of different chicks and unlimited money and time to go out, hang out etc with them and keep everything under control.

 

[Purefilth]

Dudes make spinning plates sound as if they find all this time in their lives to juggle different women, never fvk up in stories/not get busted/ have their name get out there to other chicks/ within their social circle etc (without doing online dating). as if there is some unlimited supply of chicks who never cross each other, don't care if you are seeing other chicks and just all gravitate to the dude.

if only it were that easy

The most you can do is have several contact numbers and keep in touch sporadically. I know too many good looking dudes who aren't dating numerous chicks at once. Most will date a person for a time and then meet more chicks. Not have a bunch of different chicks and unlimited money and time to go out, hang out etc with them and keep everything under control.

Sounds more like it. I collect numbers and date 1 or 2 at a time, so most numbers go stale (I dont bother calling if ive left it more than 2 weeks, I just pick up more.) Some chicks do throw themselves back into rotation - the keen ones do anyway

 

[mustfirstregister]

when you say spinning plates? it means having s3x with them? or just work in progress?

If it's having s3x then one.
if its work in progress then i have 12.

 

[HumbleNinja]

when you say spinning plates? it means having s3x with them? or just work in progress?

If it's having s3x then one.
if its work in progress then i have 12.

How do you maintain 12 chicks and keep them interested besides doing other things in life?

 

[Contrails]

How do you maintain 12 chicks and keep them interested besides doing other things in life?

They are interested in me cos I am more interested in doing other things. From time to time I show them a really good time and then I go back to doing my own thing.

 

[BeDJ]

I love these kind of threads. Men proving to other men how 'successful' they are with women. Of course you should be spinning at least 6+ plates, or else you are beta as fvck.

This goes back to average men trying to protect their own ego. We don't like to lose and we buff up our own achievements. That's cool. Feminists win.

 

[mustfirstregister]

How do you maintain 12 chicks and keep them interested besides doing other things in life?

Its not ez

 

[The Simple Man]

Its not ez

Guess you are too fvcking old to write proper English huh.

 

[zekko]

Dudes make spinning plates sound as if they find all this time in their lives to juggle different women, never fvk up in stories/not get busted/ have their name get out there to other chicks/ within their social circle etc (without doing online dating). as if there is some unlimited supply of chicks who never cross each other, don't care if you are seeing other chicks and just all gravitate to the dude.

I don't really care about spinning plates at this point in my life because I don't have a mindset where I'm going to be desperate or needy anyway. If a girl isn't interested, I'm not going to force it. I would be perfectly content to serial date if I was on the market.

As for the "keep your stories straight, chicks who never cross each other" type of thing, this was never an issue back when I was in my 20s (my main plate spinning days). As long as you keep a frame that you are just hanging out having fun and are keeping things casual, it's not like you have to worry about two "girlfriends" crossing each other.

Thing is, a lot of girls (especially in their 20s) are perfectly content to keep things casual and it can actually take a lot of pressure off when you don't frame things romantically. That doesn't mean that you aren't sexual or physical in a "friendly" way, however.

In other words, don't decieve the girls you go out with into thinking that they are the only ones or that you are wanting to be exclusive with them if you do not. Just do the "I'm looking around, if I find the right girl...." type of thing.

 

[JohnChops]

I only enjoy 2 at most. The most I've ever had at once was 5 and at that point I didn't have the time to hangout and hold onto them all due to schedule constraints.

Having 2 plates makes it easy to alternate between each weekend I have free. That way I can tell the other plate I'm staying in to study while I go entertain plate number two.

I didn't have a problem with crossing stoties when I had 5 plates though, none of them knew each other which worked out well and they were all gulible.

I actually like the idea of getting numbers, weeding them out and dating 1 for awhile then go find more. That suites my life style better than going out every weekend to find all these plates.

 

[Mr Wright]

Sleeping with 3 at once, that's plenty and talking to anywhere between 4-10 other girls.

 

[mustfirstregister]

Guess you are too fvcking old to write proper English huh.

i must 've hurt someones ego

 

[PlayHer Man]

2 or 3 is best. I like to continue approaching and meeting new women I find attractive. If I can f*ck them I do.. then I just keep f*cking them.

For me the hottest and/or easiest plate to deal with will be "top plate" and the other plates will get less attention or maybe almost no attention at times. It just depends. I do whatever I want and I don't care if a plate leaves or loses interest.

But spinning plates (at least to me) doesn't just mean "date multiple women". To me it also means "keep your options open" --> Which is saying don't commit 100% EVER.

If I meet a woman I'm attracted to.. I will try to f*ck her regardless of how many other women I'm f*cking. This is what spinning plates means to me --> Never being the PROPERTY of one woman.