Spanish chicks

[BxPrince24]

are b!tches... You're better off trying to get with them in their own country. As far as new york goes, I'm not even gonna bother anymore. If you're black and not built like tyrese you can forget about it with them in new york.

Those who are just starting out and are trying to get their social/approach game up, if you're black and not a 1, don't start out with spanish chicks. They'll piss you off and leave you in a bad mood.

I gotta stick to the black girls, way much better chance of things going good.

 

[Trapper]

come on buddy...do not generalize.. why are u pissed off?

 

[Cod3r]

If you're black and not built like tyrese you can forget about it with them in new york.

Ummm, I live in NYC and my ex-gf was Dominican and Greek... basically spanish... no problems with me, obviously u need to step your game up eh ??

BTW, i'm 5'10 and 150 lbs on my best day... skinny as a mofo

-Cod3r

 

[BxPrince24]

come on buddy...do not generalize.. why are u pissed off?

every spanish chick i've dealt with always does some stupid sh!t. And if I were one of their hispanic friends I KNOW the situation would have went differently.

Today I just I have to put a stop to it. No good experiences with spanish girls, even ones that were overly flirtacious with me, and that's just how they are. They flirt because it's fun and I don't expect nothing from it because I know that's how they are. But anyway, today I spoke to one of the ones that used to flirt heavily with me, maybe the most flirtacious out of them all. And when I called her out on it and asked her out she ignored the question, no response or nothin. And I ain't even ask her out on a date, it was just to chill like she does often with her spanish friends. Wouldn't get a yes or no for my life. So I was like f*ck it.

And it ain't the first time I had bad experience with spanish women. I have no problem with the whole race, I have cool spanish dudes i chill with every now and then. but like i said. In NY, 4get about it. Their attitudes will destroy any dude just starting up.

And this other shorty i tried talkin to about a year ago, stood me up. Now she's pregnant for some spanish dude who's a airhead, i know him. But all I can do is sit back and laugh. Let it flow.

 

[BxPrince24]

Ummm, I live in NYC and my ex-gf was Dominican and Greek... basically spanish... no problems with me, obviously u need to step your game up eh ??

BTW, i'm 5'10 and 150 lbs on my best day... skinny as a mofo

-Cod3r

You're light skinned. you get it easier. Plus you're not fat/chubby. Chocolate dudes who are a lil/lot overweight gets no play.

 

[BxPrince24]

Anyone wondering how i look can check it out.

http://myspace-869.vo.llnwd.net/01292/96/81/1292211869_l.jpg

Now if I was to go to spain, puerto rico, the bahamas, or south america. I'm sure that i wouldn't have a hard time gettin a spanish chick.

 

[Cod3r]

I'm a firm believer in looks attracts looks, and from your picture you're an ok fella, definitely not below average. I'd say average, but if you're trying for hot latina women who are 8's or above... well in my opinion u'd have a better shot out running a cheetah...

Also its obvious you have no game, so that's a starting point. Next if you're chubby work out and work on your body bro... as for being dark you can't change that but lets just say I have a best friend who is AFRIKAN purple and he pulls better looking girls than me most of the time...

Work-out, work on your game and stop b!tching....


-Cod3r

 

[Thugo]

You're better off to stay away from Spanish chicks.. trust me.. 2 of my exes are Hispanic. first of all they are psycho as hell. Good girlfriends (if they aren't cheating... i don't think mine did, but they are sluts. Both of em put out first date).. and if you piss them off, you better hide, cuz they'll stab you.

Oh yeah they aren't "spanish" they're Hispanic

 

[Trapper]

Cod3r made the points exactly.. nothing to say more... but one more thing why you are just into spanish girls? there are thousands man from entire world.. do not let it you worry...

keep it pimpin'

 

[BxPrince24]

I'm a firm believer in looks attracts looks, and if you're chubby and dark black well i'm guessing you're not very attractive and if you're trying for hot latina women who are 8's or above... well in my opinion u'd have a better shot out running a cheetah..

Also its obvious you have no game, so that's a starting point. Next if you're chubby work out and work on your body bro... as for being dark you can't change that but lets just say I have a best friend who is AFRIKAN purple and he pulls better looking girls than me 70% of the time...

Work-out, work on your game and stop b!tching....


-Cod3r

I am currently working out, I usually start and stop. I stop because I start thinkin why should I be working out to impress others? Accept me as I am. You don't notice that I'm chubby untill I take off my shirt. The way I walk makes it look like I'm more built than fat. But I'm still going to start working out again, started back up 4 days ago.

I'm not afrika black, probably a shade or 2 lighter than chocolate.

My game may not be strong. I'm not gonna go and say that I got it like that when I don't. But I do know that I can go and talk with a black girl for hours and I don't get a "poof" for a conversation from spanish chicks when I'm aproaching off the street or talkin on the net. If I know them or if they go to my school, I get a little more.

The main reason i'm single right now tho is because of a lack of free time. I'm up late doing homework so when I hit the train to get to school, i'm sleeping on it, to home and back. So I don't get to try any girls there. And when I be tryin to holla at girls on the street with my boys, they keep on walking. Maybe if I was by myself they'd stop but whatever.

Main point is that Spanish girls give black dudes a harder time than their own race.

 

[BxPrince24]

Cod3r made the points exactly.. nothing to say more... but one more thing why you are just into spanish girls? there are thousands man from entire world.. do not let it you worry...

keep it pimpin'

I think it's their combination of spicy attitudes, cute faces, curvy bodies, and freakyness that turns me on about them. But what can I say, if I can't get it where I'm at, then I can't. I still don't recommend unexperienced dudes to try hispanic girls first when just entering the game.

 

[Cod3r]

Main point is that Spanish girls give black dudes a harder time than their own race.

This is what we call an 'excuse'...

aka --> I can't get Spanish girls, I need an excuse outside of myself that will explain my inability to attract these women. The problem is YOU my friend.

I still don't recommend unexperienced dudes to try hispanic girls first when just entering the game.

This is what we call a 'rationalization'...

aka --> I can't get Spanish girls, no one with my amount of game can get Spanish women... The problem is YOU my friend

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Excuses and Rationalizations will destroy your life bro, because they fool you into keeping your life at the status quo. They blame the enviroment, the stiuation, the circumstance and keep blame off the real culprit... urself... Don't let excuses and rationalizations keep you from growing...

For every excuse you can come up with, I can disprove it...

You say, "Spanish girls are too hard for beginners"

My answer --> Wat about AFC guys with Spanish gf's ?? I had a spanish gf before I even knew what 'game' was....

I mean what else do you have, wake up... change yourself or keep making excuses and keep crying about how life has treated you sooo unfair...


-Cod3r

 

[Thugo]

Prince, you can get Spanish girls my friend. I have no game and I've had 2.

 

[BxPrince24]

This is what we call an 'excuse'...

aka --> I can't get Spanish girls, I need an excuse outside of myself that will explain my inability to attract these women. The problem is YOU my friend.



This is what we call a 'rationalization'...

aka --> I can't get Spanish girls, no one with my amount of game can get Spanish women... The problem is YOU my friend

--
Excuses and Rationalizations will destroy your life bro, because they fool you into keeping your life at the status quo. They blame the enviroment, the stiuation, the circumstance and keep blame off the real culprit... urself... Don't let excuses and rationalizations keep you from growing...

For every excuse you can come up with, I can disprove it...

You say, "Spanish girls are too hard for beginners"

My answer --> Wat about AFC guys with Spanish gf's ?? I had a spanish gf before I even knew what 'game' was....

I mean what else do you have, wake up... change yourself or keep making excuses and keep crying about how life has treated you sooo unfair...


-Cod3r

What is there for me to change other than increasing my game? I make sure that I look good, I make sure I smell good, I'm working on a better body, breath always fresh, hair always fresh. I'm cool with everybody.

I mean, I'm not gonna go and try to imitate juelz santana or daddy yankee trying to impress ppl. In the end, I like being myself and that's all i'm gonna be. I know how to hold a convo, I keep good eye-contact, I try to make everyone's experience with me a fun one. I don't see what else is there about me I would need to change. Maybe I should make a poll with my buddies and see what they would change.

 

[BxPrince24]

Prince, you can get Spanish girls my friend. I have no game and I've had 2.

Another thing about me is that I usually go after the popular ones, the sexy, beautiful types. My dudes do tell me my standards are too high, and girls they'd go out with I'd turn down. I just always want the best and I can't see myself settling for anything more. maybe i should change that.

 

[Thugo]

Another thing about me is that I usually go after the popular ones, the sexy, beautiful types. My dudes do tell me my standards are too high, and girls they'd go out with I'd turn down. I just always want the best and I can't see myself settling for anything more. maybe i should change that.

Well, the first one I got was working in a gas station. I hit on her paying my bill and was ****ing her the next day. The next one worked in a grocery store, and she also ****ed on the first date.

 

[Cod3r]

What is there for me to change other than increasing my game? I make sure that I look good, I make sure I smell good, I'm working on a better body, breath always fresh, hair always fresh. I'm cool with everybody.

I mean, I'm not gonna go and try to imitate juelz santana or daddy yankee trying to impress ppl. In the end, I like being myself and that's all i'm gonna be. I know how to hold a convo, I keep good eye-contact, I try to make everyone's experience with me a fun one. I don't see what else is there about me I would need to change. Maybe I should make a poll with my buddies and see what they would change.

This is what I'm saying, in my opinion with your physical looks you just are going to have a very hard time consistently getting with HB8's or above. You say you go for the most popular and most beautiful so i'm thinking 8's, 9's and 10's and just in my opinion and my experience you are going to have a tougher time...

Social value will help you, network with popular people in your society and become related with them so you can overcome the looks to have a decent shot with a beautiful girl once you get your game up....

Also, what you should realize is that beautiful females want something different than what they see everyday. From your style, you're just a typical black gangster dude, that's how I'd judge you if I saw you on the subway. I wouldn't think, "wow he's rich" or "wow he's smart" or "wow he looks popular" or anything... u just look like a thug.... and since you're not the best looking guy IMO you're playing the wrong angle, get what i'm saying ?? You can't beat Spanish guys who are really good looking and great bodies and whatever else by doing what they do... do something different...

Do you know how many spanish guys wanted my ex-gf ?? All of them asked me how I got her, and the point is... when we talked, we talked about getting ahead in life, ambitions, graduate school, ect..., I invited her to my companies xmas party with high value exec's and CEO's and CFO's and all that, she'd never seen anything like it because she was used to thugs and people who only know one lifestyle...

Show these girls something they haven't seen...


-Cod3r

 

[BxPrince24]

This is what I'm saying, in my opinion with your physical looks you just are going to have a very hard time consistently getting with HB8's or above. You say you go for the most popular and most beautiful so i'm thinking 8's, 9's and 10's and just in my opinion and my experience you are going to have a tougher time...

Social value will help you, network with popular people in your society and become related with them so you can overcome the looks to have a decent shot with a beautiful girl once you get your game up....

Also, what you should realize is that beautiful females want something different than what they see everyday. From your style, you're just a typical black gangster dude, that's how I'd judge you if I saw you on the subway. I wouldn't think, "wow he's rich" or "wow he's smart" or "wow he looks popular" or anything... u just look like a thug.... and since you're not the best looking guy IMO you're playing the wrong angle, get what i'm saying ?? You can't beat Spanish guys who are really good looking and great bodies and whatever else by doing what they do... do something different...

Do you know how many spanish guys wanted my ex-gf ?? All of them asked me how I got her, and the point is... when we talked, we talked about getting ahead in life, ambitions, graduate school, ect..., I invited her to my companies xmas party with high value exec's and CEO's and CFO's and all that, she'd never seen anything like it because she was used to thugs and people who only know one lifestyle...

Show these girls something they haven't seen...


-Cod3r

I was thinking this to myself the other day. Many people look at me and they see me as the typical wanna be gangster/thuggish guy, which I'm not. My head's actually in a way higher place. I mean I'm an actor, I've been in a few movies. I play the alto sax, I'm an artist, been drawing since the 3rd grade, I go to the school of visual arts which has me making movies, commercials, and 3d animating in preperation for a career, I write music, write poetry, make beats, I mean, there's a hell of a lot to me. I was thinking about changing my whole style, start wearing suits/dress/classy clothing instead of the normal gear that i wear and I still have a line up of clothing I'm gonna buy, it's just geting the cash for it.

 

[Cod3r]

^ ^ Now THATS a start bro !

What you should realize is its all about percieved value. You sound very interesting, but if no one ever gives you the chance because you don't look interesting, no one would ever dispute their first impressions of you...

Btw, also, think about foregoing the 'hats' you'd probably look better if you actually showed off your figure (tighter fitting clothing) and your hair, hats are for people hiding things... keep a nice hair-cut at ALL times...

I think you could improve 100% if we cleaned up your style... def. could


-Cod3r

 

[BxPrince24]

^ ^ Now THATS a start bro !

What you should realize is its all about percieved value. You sound very interesting, but if no one ever gives you the chance because you don't look interesting, no one would ever dispute their first impressions of you...

Btw, also, think about foregoing the 'hats' you'd probably look better if you actually showed off your figure (tighter fitting clothing) and your hair, hats are for people hiding things... keep a nice hair-cut at ALL times...

I think you could improve 100% if we cleaned up your style... def. could


-Cod3r

Thanks for the insight. I'll take your crits into consideration. Here's how i look without the hat for those who are interested.

http://myspace-622.vo.llnwd.net/01023/22/69/1023499622_m.jpg

But yea, I'm definately gonna start dressing more like how i had planned to a while back.