Sosuave's a good place for Men looking to build LTR's

[jhonny9546]

In addition to discussions about seduction, there is considerable talk about LTR.

Sosuave may not have been designed specifically for this purpose, but I believe it is crucial to engage in conversations about how Sosuave can assist individuals who aspire to start a family. Men here learn that the woman they choose as the mother of their children may not necessarily be the one they wish to spend their entire lives with. Moreover, they understand that there will be other women involved, as their partners could also have relationships with other men.

So? While Sosuave did not explicitly teach me techniques, it helped me recognize that I am the center of my own life, not an object or external entity.
I am a male figure, and my inner self expects me to take on the role of a parent to myself.
Consequently, any lack of knowledge or experience in areas like relationships or basic things like human nature, could lead me to feel inadequate.

To those who have gained insights into various aspects of human nature, can we assert that the Sosuave site serves as an ideal platform?
It offers resources for learning how to navigate STR, ONS and FB, but could we also consider it a good resource to teach more about LTR's?

Many men here had different LTR's experiences in their lives, so this might be the time to discuss more about it.
How preciuos that knowledge/experience would be to teach younger generations..

 

[CornbreadFed]

I wanted to make a topic about this, but your topic kind of explains my grievances for this site and male dating advice forums in general. The issue is that these sites attract three different types of groups that form a Voltron to stomp out anything beyond elementary level advice on these platforms. You have the bitter Black Pill/Red Pill Incels, the Online Persona Trolls, and the just overall degenerates that want chaos and negativity.

 

[BPH]

I don't think men should approach learning how to date as "how to find the perfect wife", at least not at the start.

I like analogies so I'll use one here:

If you were a hunter, and you wanted to bag a trophy buck, you would start by learning how to bag A deer - singular. Once you have success you'll repeat it, and over time you'll become better, more efficient, and more skilled at bagging more desirable deer. That way when your trophy comes along, you'll have the experience and confidence to not f*** things up.

I don't think every man NEEDS to be quite so promiscuous, but I definitely think they'll have an easier time picking and choosing who they end up with long-term.