SOsuave is NOTHING

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sosuave is done, its garbage, you dont need it. i dont need it. no one needs it. sosuvae only opens your eyes, thats it. the rest is comming out of you. you have the ability to get a girlfriend, sosuave doesnt get you a girlfriend, you do. you, only you can get an education. not sosuave. this site doesnt tell you step by steop on how to get a date. because there isnt such thing as one. the sh1t that comes out your mouth to a girl is you, not sosuave.
stop creating such a depency on this site. its patheic that as one society, we are beneath earth surface.. fuk. its 07 and ppl are asking how to get a girlfriend? its not Hard. its all about connection. sosuave is only teaches u how to trick woman who are not interested in you to sleep with you. to play games..
fuk the 3 days rule after u get the number, if u wanan call the next day. go ahead. if the girl doesnt show interest in you/ then guess what. HER LOST fuking next her.
sosuave is NOTHING. its just a mind booster ego booster. it opens your eyes. it opens the door but YOU HAVE To walk through it. sosuave isnt going to hold your hand. think about it. all the good posters, cod3r, pook, and more.
they hardly post. and i understand why the left. because they dont need it. YOU dont need it. sosuave is only gonna open ur eyes. thats it the rest is U. the marriage. long term relationships, gettin a car, learnign to save money, learn to respect ppl. become confident. learn to buy a house. learn what you want. figuring out a simple math problem.. ALL OF THAT IS YOU, NOT sosuave.
so why create such a depecny on this site? its a forum full of opinions not facts. OPINIONS. some right some wrong. some to get you thinking about your own opinion.

im 16 yet i fuking understand this sh1t. if i can, why cant you? so before you post a thread. asking a question which you can proberly understand youself.. think for a min. because i truely believe in that every human being has the ability to solve and reissue any problem. we all have the light to shine. its just the matter of flicking the switch to "on" position...

so get away from this site. go enjoy. go the gym. SMILE for once. go out meet ppl. and dont meet ppl just for one cause. meet new friends.. go introduce youself to a whole bunch of girls and PUT UR SELF in the friendzone. its good to have a few girls in the friend zone. go meet some guys. drink. have fun. enjoy life, because all life is one experiement. it LIVE and LEARN.

im out from this site. peace..

and PS: im not attacking everyone on this site. some ppl just check out the health n fitness and thats cool. and some ppl are here to help. so im not after you.. but the ones im after... you know who you are i aint gotta spell it out for you.
 

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You're one cool 16 year old. I'll admit it, I'm a fan, lol.
 

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875 posts later you're coming to this conclusion... We can only hope that everyone else will reach your level of enlightenment...
 

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Who cares if sosuave doesnt "hold your hand."

Your opinion just like the opinions of sosuave are the same.

"Sosuave is nothing" ---> Is your opinion.

If sosuave helps YOU get the girl YOU want, then sosuave is working for you. Dont tell some troll come in here and tell you otherwise. Yes, live your life, go to gym, meet people, do all that stuff.

Sosuave can be the foundation to doing all those things, some people need guidance and with sosuave's guidance with the many articles it can change a "nerd" into a "don." Ive seen it happen.

The thread poster has his opinion, in MY opinion this site can help many people and like I said Ive seen it happen. Not everyone is born into a "don", infact stats suggest 8/10 guys havent much of a clue therefore they are AFC.

And yes you dont need it, but some people WANT it.
 

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You guys are taking him literally? I saw it more as a pep-talk.
 

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Ll Principe said:
And yes you dont need it, but some people WANT it.
of course everybody wants it.. jan 06 i dreamed of a site liek this.. i cumed my pants when i found this.. but now i relized.. i did evertthing myself.. yeh sosuvae guided me but i did those things myself.

but picture this. without sosauve would the divorse rate still be like 50?
lets take it back 10,20,30 years.. before something like sosauve exsited..
did we really think no one survied marriage?

like i said. im not after EVerbody, lets get that in here. im after ppl who got dumped then immediately make a thread. how to get her back.
or threads such has.. "how to walk like a dj" i remember that back a few months ago,
sh1t like that that eats me up. its patheic... and no im not agianst those ppl who are asking for help with a 5 month relationships because everyone WANTS support. its nice to have it. makes things easier. but im against those people who expeect everything to be given to them. those ppl who dont try. they just come here and make a thread and expect us to give them intructions. at least try. get rejected 10 times then come here.. dont just ask how to pick up girls withotu giving it a shot. makes me sick.

yes everyone wants it but they dont NEED it

like i said. sosauve is there to guide you. to open ur eyes. to let u relize on ur own on WHAt ur really about. what U can do.. thats all!
 

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azanon said:
You're one cool 16 year old. I'll admit it, I'm a fan, lol.
I wish I had the enlightment of Sexy Kuta when I was 20.
 

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This second post of yours sounds more logical from you. I thought you done with this "site" glad you decided to stick around abit.

Obviously you do everything yourself, whoever tells you otherwise is lying.
Remember: You are the master of your own destiny.
Sosuave is merely a guide, one of the best guides there is out there, better than most books on bookshelves, hell at one stage a few years back I thought DON JUAN himself invented this site.

Marriage/Divorce is another issue completely, sosuave is more about picking up girls, meeting girls, its not based upon getting married and saving your marriage.

Your "outburst" tonight is NEVER going to stop those people from coming in and posting "How to get her back" , "How to walk like a DJ" . My response in accordance with your argument for those people you are "against" is, guys, before posting questions, do a little field experience first, read the articles under quick tips, do a boot camp, learn abit, than IF you not sure of things , come in, place your questions and they should be answered, Im not against that. If you are referring to people that want quick fix's than yes, I have to agree with you its abit annoying.

Alot of people post out of emotion and hurt. There is a grand article I once read about emotions, I wish I had the link but I dont but all it basically said is dont let your emotions get ahead of you, If you get dumped dont jump to a conclusion on "how to get her back" , Think abit, then post.
 

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This second post of yours sounds more logical from you. I thought
you done with this "site" glad you decided to stick around abit.
this is my last thread im going to contribe to.

Your "outburst" tonight is NEVER going to stop those people from coming in and posting "How to get her back" , "How to walk like a DJ" . My response in accordance with your argument for those people you are "against" is, guys, before posting questions, do a little field experience first, read the articles under quick tips, do a boot camp, learn abit, than IF you not sure of things , come in, place your questions and they should be answered, Im not against that. If you are referring to people that want quick fix's than yes, I have to agree with you its abit annoying.
YEs, that is what im trying to say. for those ppl who just want everything to be given to them. fuk that sh1t.
they dont relize that they can figure it out themselves! they are lazy and if we tell them what to do. yeh sure it might help them once twice. even maybe three times. but what about the next time? whatabout 4 months down the road? will we still be here? we cant predict the furture,

Alot of people post out of emotion and hurt. There is a grand article I once read about emotions, I wish I had the link but I dont but all it basically said is dont let your emotions get ahead of you, If you get dumped dont jump to a conclusion on "how to get her back" , Think abit, then post.
alot of ppl DO get hurt emotionally and like i said i got no problem with those ppl, they need support as bad as they want it. i love helping ppl out. especially wiht LTRS, im aiming to become a marriage theriapst. i took a physychologly class at my school and aced it. it was common sense to me.

i hope you do get my point. let me add more deapth it. it.. sosuave is JUST a guideline, eye opener, sosuave only can support you which to some ppl is an important need.. because they tried everything, they need the extra strength/push to move foward. like a weight lifter, i use a spot to push myself on the last rep. if i didnt have a spotter, i'll drop the weight, and in reality. i'd fall.. so the supprot is good.. but when u want it based on something u dont need it. then No u dont need it. its a guideline for something u dont need..
i have no pity for those ppl who expect everything to be given to them apose to what want.

they want this. they want a hb10, they want a sexy car. they want ABS without ****ing knowing how to diet proberly..

they want MONEY! driving a bus.. they want MONEY! while they dropped out of school in grade 10 just to smoke weed

they want to be good at basketball without spending 0 pratice time at the gym.
 

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and you are right. this IS MY OPINION> my opinion and be right and wrong in your own eyes. im not telling you whats right. im only telling you my opnion and like i said i nmy first post..

its a forum full of opinions not facts. OPINIONS. some right some wrong. some to get you thinking about your own opinion.
 

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True- I have a friend who wanted a 6pac for December, hell he had the whole year to get it, he ate bad, smoked weed, went to gym once a week , came December- NO 6PAC.

Me, I went to gym 5 times a week, I got my 6 pac.

You got to put effort into everything you do in life, I think we've both covered this topic now. Everything in life is there as a guide, the rest is up to you.:box:
 

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This post is utterly blind...I'm glad some more people are starting to understand, but there's no need to attack anybody for their methods, whoever they may be.

Telling people that sosuave is nothing is as bad as telling a youngster that he doesn't need training wheels on his bike.

It's better to have the support and use it until YOU are ready to let go...Once you let go and realize that being a DJ is as easy as riding a bike, don't go back and tell the learners that they don't need their training wheels.

Excuse me for the analogy, but there are a lot of people--apparently sexy_kuta now-- who finally "get it", and instead of thanking and appreciating the support, they come back and trash the support telling others that they don't need it.

p.s. he's completely right on one aspect though...don't post dumb questions on the forums...I'm lucky in that I--more accidental than anything else--didn't know about the forums for months...I found this site in March last year and read everything I could(tips, hall of fame, articles), and finally discovered the forums by accident. I'm happy I didnt find the forums first.
 

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BluEyes said:
This post is utterly blind...I'm glad some more people are starting to understand, but there's no need to attack anybody for their methods, whoever they may be.

Telling people that sosuave is nothing is as bad as telling a youngster that he doesn't need training wheels on his bike.

It's better to have the support and use it until YOU are ready to let go...Once you let go and realize that being a DJ is as easy as riding a bike, don't go back and tell the learners that they don't need their training wheels.

Excuse me for the analogy, but there are a lot of people--apparently sexy_kuta now-- who finally "get it", and instead of thanking and appreciating the support, they come back and trash the support telling others that they don't need it.
funny but your analogy isnt what near the point im trying to make it. since when im treashing this site? i thank this site for guding and making the man i am today.. where am i telling young kids that they dont need training wheels?
no thats not my point. i encourge support. i LIKE helping people who help themselves. but apose to those OTHER ppl that want help with little desire of needs.

let me put it in an example maybe yo might get it ;)

fat guy in mc donalds. whining that he wants ABS= im against that.

fat guy in the gym, just got off the treadmil after running 40 min..=i'll support ihm and take some time and give him tips. that im NOT against.

try to undertstand my point of view. ppl create such a depency on this site! they make a thread on everything that is happening in their lives.. without even thinking or giving it a try. they come home and make a thread and then ASK for help/intructions without even TRYIN.. knowing they can even fix the problem themselves!!!!!!!1
 

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sexy_kuta said:
this is my last thread im going to contribe to.
Oh so it was literal? I guess that requires me to withdraw my praise. Its a great post as a pep-talk though.

The site has tremendously helpful things for people of all experience levels. If you're failing to recognize that, then you are showing your age. Also, thinking you know it all pretty much nails you as a 16 year older too.

So go out there and get that experience! Some people need experience to realize they have more to learn.
 

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azanon made a key break through to this thread now.

Sexy_kuta: You can never stop learning. You want to go off this site? Cool go for it. Im willing to bet you may be back:)
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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azanon said:
Oh so it was literal? I guess that requires me to withdraw my praise. Its a great post as a pep-talk though.

The site has tremendously helpful things for people of all experience levels. If you're failing to recognize that, then you are showing your age. Also, thinking you know it all pretty much nails you as a 16 year older too.

So go out there and get that experience! Some people need experience to realize they have more to learn.
i think i know everything i need to know FOr now im confident. i can solve mostly any issue. and im learning at the same time.
this site has helped alot of ppl. it even helpd me. sht1t, check out my thread history.. check my first few threads apose to my latest threads.. u'll see a difference.. same with anyone. its natural. you learn then u take that knowleadge that u adapted and you put it to use.
there isnt much about the "game" ppl make it seem more than it is..
the "game" isnt big as it sounds.. and i met one the mods... Desdinova. i personally met him and shook his hand, hes a good guy, we talked for an hour and half about the game. and it was a fun conver.
but if u look around.. if the other person can do it. you can too..
 

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I started coming here when I was 16, I also thought I knew it all after learning, but sometimes I occasionally pop in to read and learn more. Yes one you come on you set yourself up for a foundation to follow but it doesnt hurt to keep learning once in a while, you'll see in a year or 2 you'll want 2 know more.
 

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Ll Principe said:
azanon made a key break through to this thread now.

Sexy_kuta: You can never stop learning. You want to go off this site? Cool go for it. Im willing to bet you may be back:)
i will be back, not now not 2morrow. not next month, im going to test myself. to see how i can do well, see how it is different to live my life without any support.
then i can speak my eperience with people.. and u are right. im not gonna disgree. ur always learning. u learn to walk when ur 2. u learn to buy a house in ur 20is. u learn marriage in ur 30's.. you learn something every day.

im not leavin for good. buy for a few months at least. bday is commin up in march. gonna have fun. right now im in the middle of two long term goals and im planning to finish it.
1st goal was set in last summer, to have a body that im proud of.. and its progressing..
2nd goal was that i have my first lowrider, i dreamed in grade 8. i been working my ass off and savin up lots.. i started working in november and now i got my hydraulics sittin in my cloest. and other goodies. im picking up my new car next month.. who knew dreams could happen right?
 

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Ll Principe said:
I started coming here when I was 16, I also thought I knew it all after learning, but sometimes I occasionally pop in to read and learn more. Yes one you come on you set yourself up for a foundation to follow but it doesnt hurt to keep learning once in a while, you'll see in a year or 2 you'll want 2 know more.
This is more me too, even at 35 and married.

Choice C is the best answer. Its not like you can only do one or the other. I have time to do both. Besides, i like forums anyway as a hobby, and this one is pretty cool.
 

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try to undertstand my point of view. ppl create such a depency on this site! they make a thread on everything that is happening in their lives.. without even thinking or giving it a try. they come home and make a thread and then ASK for help/intructions without even TRYIN.. knowing they can even fix the problem themselves!!!!!!!1
Yes, exactly! Until, on one fateful morning, they wake up and realize that they in fact don't need so suave. We are learning that everything we do and all the "advice" we glean from these forums are things that we can do on our own. But no one can teach us this. You coming in here fresh off an epiphany of your own won't change anything. People learn at their own speed. For all that people can teach on here, we cannot teach independance. Independance comes from first-hand learning. So all you're doing on here is venting, anger is it? , at people who are still learning.

The fat dude at McDonalds who wants a six-pack will one day learn ON HIS OWN, despite whatever people tell him, that to get a sixpack you have to eat cleanly. Only then will he change.

If you understand people as you said you do, you would know that we are creatures of curiosity. If somebody tells us "Don't eat McDonalds if you want a six-pack!!" guess what Mr.Curiosity will go do? He'll go to McDonalds, sure in his own mind that he will be able to prevail against all odds. Finally when he sees FOR HIMSELF that what he's doing is wrong, he'll change his ways.

My point in a nutsack: People mature at their own pace, telling a learner not to ask dumb questions and do dumb things is like telling a drowning man that the way to survive is to stop thrashing. THEY JUST DON'T UNDERSTAND YET.

So drop it.

edit: p.s.

funny but your analogy isnt what near the point im trying to make it. since when im treashing this site?
Uhh .. How about in the first line of this thread, and your signature? "sosuave is done, its garbage."

that's a start.
 

Channel your excited feelings into positive thoughts and behaviors. You will attract women by being enthusiastic, radiating energy, and becoming someone who is fun to be around.

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