jafyk
Master Don Juan
This here is the attitude that is creating a lot of conflict on this site. The MY WAY or the highway attitude. In this comment alone you made. You've given off the vibe that married people are neither welcome here nor beneficial to this site. Also that marriage = crap. As I said earlier we don't live in a black and white world. Marriage is for some, the single life for others. There's no where on this site that states that this site is for singles only. As much as you may want it to be that way. This is the reality. Accept it for what it is.Malice said:
In my opinion I believe that SOME married guys to some degree can be used to measure success. Why? because they (1) have been able to game multiple women while single and have been able to pick the one they consider best. (2) they have also shown they maintain that relationship. It's easy to bang random chicks every week and cut them lose compared to maintaining and keeping a family and especially a happy one at that.
For your disdain of the married guys there are some of them who are just like us single guys...spinning plates (yea, cheating on their wives and getting away with it). This could be in part because they are slick or they have wives with low self esteem whom they've been able to control.
I believe when a lot of you think of married guys you think of the "yes dear" or "let me check in with the boss" types. I've seen these types also and it makes me want to puke as well. Perhaps your other issue with marriage is the restrictions and potential to loose your hard earned money. I understand that as well.
To me a married guy coming here to learn values is smart because he is equipping himself to have a successful marriage. I believe all things being equal the level of success a married guy will have will often depend on how that relationship started off and is currently being maintained. By this I mean if a guy has established how he wants the relationship to be from the get go...in terms of letting the woman know what he expects, what is acceptable and what is not. If he's able to continue gaming and providing for his family. What are the chances of his woman leaving him? Forget that what are the chances of him not having a happy marriage except perhaps that longing of maybe wanting to try a new vadge years later. I believe there's more to life than fvcking. I believe it's also possible for a man (especially a married man) to enjoy other women's company without the sex. You might have hobbies, projects, jobs or social events that put you in interaction with different women.
Speaking from the view point of a single guy. I know that even if you 5 girls to fvck every week. You wouldn't have all the time, energy or mindset to fvck them all. You might even get bored esp when these girls are just hotties with not much else to offer. I can sense that despite how many women a lot of you here claim to have bedded it's never going to be enough for you. Why? because there's more to life than sex and you want that more. Perhaps some married men have understood this and hence have chosen to stick to their married lifestyle.
The one thing I have observed is that both the married and single continuously mock each other because they think they are better off. This is an attitude I dislike very much. Neither is better and both have their strengths and weaknesses. To those of you who think that most of what you need to know about successful relationships is on this site. There's a whole lot out there not being discussed here.
