Sooooo...This chick didn't text me back...

Blue Hef

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This chick from work has been giving me signs of interest for a while...We've texted once before...So I text her today after work and got no response...wtf?...Should I give her the benefit of the doubt or should I just drop this b*tch?...I feel hella embarrass yo :( ...Matter fact, f*ck her lol...That's her lost...I'm never gonna text her again...*deletes number* (p.s this isn't the same work chick I mentioned in my other thread, it's a different chick) It's gonna awkward when I see her tomorrow at work too :/
 

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dont be awkward, just be like its a normal day
 

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Dude, not bein a d1ck here but maybe you're being too thin skinned here... She doesn't text you back once and you go ape****???
 

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Is this a joke?

You text her and she didn't respond so you jumped on here to moan bout it.

How many times does someone contract you and you don't respond. It happens all the time. This isn't an interaction. Its barely a event.

I know I'm being harsh but this is so insignificant and you need to treat it as such.
 

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yuppaz said:
Dude, not bein a d1ck here but maybe you're being too thin skinned here... She doesn't text you back once and you go ape****???
yea, that's exactly what I did...I'm not used to this lol...maybe alot of you cats are used to this type of sh*t, but im not...im good now though, just got some head from my gf by the way ;) lol
 

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seethehoop said:
Is this a joke?

You text her and she didn't respond so you jumped on here to moan bout it.

How many times does someone contract you and you don't respond. It happens all the time. This isn't an interaction. Its barely a event.

I know I'm being harsh but this is so insignificant and you need to treat it as such.
that's not harsh little homie...I like harshness tho, but that wasn't harsh.

why are you guys cryin' about my post? Shout out to all the real DJ's who feels where im coming from...all of you sensitive cats are most likely AFC's...this isn't even that serious...calm down bros...sheeesh smh
 

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seethehoop said:
Is this a joke?

You text her and she didn't respond so you jumped on here to moan bout it.

How many times does someone contract you and you don't respond. It happens all the time. This isn't an interaction. Its barely a event.

I know I'm being harsh but this is so insignificant and you need to treat it as such.
Man you are pvssy beta. GTFO here. Its not like you been sending pics of ur c0ck and sexting her heavily.
 

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Use it as an opportunity show you don't give a dam. Most women expect you to text her even more. It should be the other way round, that she texts you, then texts again before you get chance to reply.

Under any circumstances DO NOT ask her why she didn't respond and act as if nothing has happened.

Don't initiate any contact for a few days then try again. If no further luck drop it.

Also to add - chick from work? Without knowing the importance of your job, I would proceed with caution. As you have already said you feel awkward going back tomorrow.
 

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Duracell_Bunny said:
Use it as an opportunity show you don't give a dam. Most women expect you to text her even more. It should be the other way round, that she texts you, then texts again before you get chance to reply.

Under any circumstances DO NOT ask her why she didn't respond and act as if nothing has happened.

Don't initiate any contact for a few days then try again. If no further luck drop it.

Also to add - chick from work? Without knowing the importance of your job, I would proceed with caution. As you have already said you feel awkward going back tomorrow.

good advice bro, thanks. And yea, I was proceeding with caution until she was giving me signs of interest. After a few months of light flirting, I decided to go in and text her. I really don't see a reason why she wouldn't text back...Perhaps maybe she didn't get it? Fell a sleep??...I hope that's the case lol
 

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Blue Hef said:
Perhaps maybe she didn't get it?
Neither do I!

What did you text her and how did you get her number?
 

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OP how old are you...my guess is under 21
 

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Blue Hef said:
yea, that's exactly what I did...I'm not used to this lol...maybe alot of you cats are used to this type of sh*t, but im not...im good now though, just got some head from my gf by the way ;) lol
Are you texting this girl and making plans with her. Or just texting her with boring, nonsense conversation that could be happening in person?
 

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Iceberg said:
Are you texting this girl and making plans with her. Or just texting her with boring, nonsense conversation that could be happening in person?
We've only texted once prior to this, I texted her while i was driving after work and her car was behind me so i just texted "why are you following me lol"
then she responded and we texted for about a hour, then i stopped texting after she sent one of those "one word responses" (i dont usually reply to those)

Duracell_Bunny said:
Neither do I!

What did you text her and how did you get her number?
I got her number at work, and i just texted her "how was work?"

Iceberg said:
Are you texting this girl and making plans with her. Or just texting her with boring, nonsense conversation that could be happening in person?
neither really, it couldn't even get to the point to make plans because the chick didn't respond lol
 

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* posting on this board whining after a chick doesn't text you back

* use of emoticons on this board

* every other message has a "lol" in it

What are you, 13?

Buck up sonny. You have some learning to do.
 

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This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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she's NOT really interested. stop deluding yourself that she's into you. talk to other women at your workplace...and just go move on to the next one.

next time when you have a target, always plan what and how would you do it and get some practice until it gets natural.

if she's really interested she'd call / text / reply to you even IF you have a gf.
 
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Texting should be kept to a minimum. Plates should always be spinning. If they were, you wouldn't be worried about this.

Use the phone to set up a date. That's it. Don't linger. Don't use texting and phone for pointless convos that could happen in real life.

But beyond a reasonable doubt, your princess is in another castle. Unless she initiates, go ghost on her. Move on and go get some new plates (girls). Judge nismo's orders.

Case closed. Get out of my court.
 

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^ I hate to rain on you little dudes parades, but she just texted me from her little brothers phone saying sorry she didn't respond and how her phone can't send out texts blah blah blah then said "hope to see you later at work ;) " ...and some of you kids got it confused, yea I came on here to post the situation and was upset for a few mins...AND? whats the problem with that? and i wasn't "whining", I was actually planning on just dropping this bird, I have a GF anyways (who's wayyy hotter by the way), i was just using her for fun...But yea, I got this under control now...you boys are too emotional, i don't see how you guys are having b*tch fits over this thread...and to that one fag who mentioned me using "lol", I'll use it as many times as i want son -----> lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol ...you mad???
 

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It's extremely rare to not recieve texts back due to a REAL technical problem.

She might even be lying about it / changed her mind about you if her other option dropped off.

The other posters could have easily been correct on this one.

More often than not a girl is not interested, not having phone problems.
 

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HalfPUAHalfAFC said:
* posting on this board whining after a chick doesn't text you back

* use of emoticons on this board

* every other message has a "lol" in it

What are you, 13?

Buck up sonny. You have some learning to do.
^I just read your thread bro, you're 45 years old yo wtf are you doing on here? Shouldn't you be married with kids...why are you worried about me? you're old enough to be my pops, you should be trying to help and give advice instead of condemning me. I'm 19 by the way and from the looks of your threads and post, I have more "game" then you lol...old flabby dust bunny...get off my d*ck old head
 

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