Somewhat blunt advice for minorities.

[Listen_to_Olly]

@Trunks

That's the spirit!

Since you're Latin, I thought I'd give you some advice as well since I've noticed this up here in the northeast. Try to go after some of the darker complexioned white girls if you get what I am trying to say. Italian American women with Hispanic guys is slowly becoming a thing up here and it does seem like, from what I've noticed, that these girls like Hispanic men.

One of my friends is a darker skinned Cuban guy and he dated 2 girls who were Italian and just simply gorgeous. I went out to a bar with him one time and this one Italian cougar, older but good looking, was all over him and pretty much threw herself at him. He claims that the last 8 women he has been with have all been Italian background, at this rate, his pecker is going to grow a mustache like Super Mario. I spit my drink laughing when he told me that.

Not just Mediterranean background women, I notice it with tanned brunettes in general, they seem to really like more exotic looking men. Even Megan Fox said she thinks Asian and Latin men are handsome and make for great lovers. My Cuban friend lived down south before coming up here and he said that down there, he was doing pretty well with the many tanned brunettes he ran into down south (southerners probably have an idea of what I am talking about).

I think it's because most people don't really all that much if a Catherine Zeta Jones goes for a minority as opposed to a Brooklyn Decker doing it.

 

[BreezyB84]

Most of the issues listed I think would be a problem for any guy, myself included. I'd have dating issues too if I had overbearing parents, whined about my situations and/or lived in a sh*tty area. I'd probably miss out on a lot of dates with women too if I was pretending to act like I wasn't white. These are universal issues that any person with struggle with regardless of race.

The wedge in interracial dating is more often due to a perceived cultural gap that can lead many people into imagining many situations within a typical, normal relationship that they would feel uncomfortable in and would rather avoid.

In other words, a white girl, for example, will imagine a relationship with a minority by looking at her own past relationships with white men, change the boyfriend from white to a minority in her head, and then immediately look at all of the possible awkward and uncomfortable scenarios that could possibly arise from it, and I'm not talking about skin color or white backlash from social circles. I'm talking about common relationship situations.

I'll admit that I had the same wild imagination too the first time I dated a black girl and was invited over to eat dinner with her whole family. Way in the back of my head I was hoping someone from her extended family wouldn't stand up and be like, "Damn, girl! Why'd you bring the devil to the table!" Lol. Stupid sh*t, I know, but it happened. That girl was only interested in the "taboo" of sleeping with white men (to piss off her father, maybe), and I guess at that time my interest was the same. The wrong reasons.

I eventually came to learn that interracial relationships work out great when both people can be who they are without shame, yet still bridge those cultural gaps with mutual interests, hobbies, whatever. And more often than not, many people like this also come from families like this.

All of the minority guys that I've ever known personally who did well with hot white women had not only embraced their own heritage, but they also embraced many interests and hobbies that also spanned beyond it. The same is true of the white women they had dated. The same is true of most of the minority women I have dated. The same is true of myself.

The next black girl I dated turned out to be a completely different experience than the first. She was straight from Trinidad, but she had a lot of ink work, liked rock music and loved going to concerts. I loved how her mother always wanted to introduce me to Caribbean dishes I've never heard of (and liked a lot). She and her family told me all about the culture, traditions, even superstitions, which I found interesting. There were back and forth exchanges in cultural interests and such to the point that neither her or I ever felt uncomfortable being the only person of our race in the room when I was in her element or she was in mine.

Some white girls haven't had that experience yet, or the very few attempts they made didn't go down quite like that. People just gotta break those walls down, that's all.

This is true. It just takes the right kind of interacton with the right person and opinions change. people forget that these are learned and taught behaviors.I realize some of these girls just don't know any better . and when I meet them, I always try to be a better example then what they've previously have seen. that's all you can do.

 

[Trunks]

@Trunks

That's the spirit!

Since you're Latin, I thought I'd give you some advice as well since I've noticed this up here in the northeast. Try to go after some of the darker complexioned white girls if you get what I am trying to say. Italian American women with Hispanic guys is slowly becoming a thing up here and it does seem like, from what I've noticed, that these girls like Hispanic men.

One of my friends is a darker skinned Cuban guy and he dated 2 girls who were Italian and just simply gorgeous. I went out to a bar with him one time and this one Italian cougar, older but good looking, was all over him and pretty much threw herself at him. He claims that the last 8 women he has been with have all been Italian background, at this rate, his pecker is going to grow a mustache like Super Mario. I spit my drink laughing when he told me that.

Not just Mediterranean background women, I notice it with tanned brunettes in general, they seem to really like more exotic looking men. Even Megan Fox said she thinks Asian and Latin men are handsome and make for great lovers. My Cuban friend lived down south before coming up here and he said that down there, he was doing pretty well with the many tanned brunettes he ran into down south (southerners probably have an idea of what I am talking about).

I think it's because most people don't really all that much if a Catherine Zeta Jones goes for a minority as opposed to a Brooklyn Decker doing it.

I think it has more to do with local culture and location. Lived in the USA South for a while, where blondes were a dime a dozen and latinos were relatively rare and I didn't find dating blondes the hurdle that people make it sound like. Before that, was in Southern California, where people perhaps assumed I was of lower economic status just by looking at me. But you know what? I don't give a darn about people's opinion anyway, so I'd just ignore it and continue chatting them up

 

[Chamber36]

You know if everyone in the world dates white girls there will be no more white girls left over in 100 years....

 

[EyeBRollin]

Why do white men always feel qualified to give advice to non-white men on how to succeed as a non white man?

 

[Trunks]

Why do white men always feel qualified to give advice to non-white men on how to succeed as a non white man?

I am not a white man, but the main attributes that make a man attractive to a woman cut across all races.

 

[Listen_to_Olly]

I think it has more to do with local culture and location. Lived in the USA South for a while, where blondes were a dime a dozen and latinos were relatively rare and I didn't find dating blondes the hurdle that people make it sound like. Before that, was in Southern California, where people perhaps assumed I was of lower economic status just by looking at me. But you know what? I don't give a darn about people's opinion anyway, so I'd just ignore it and continue chatting them up

Where in the south were you? I cannot imagine them being okay with a latino dating some blonde chick in most parts of the region but it does differ based on the state you're in.

 

[Listen_to_Olly]

You know if everyone in the world dates white girls there will be no more white girls left over in 100 years....

The thing I love the most about white girls is that if you're in a first world country, except for Japan, there are plenty of them to go around so I don't lose any sleep when minorities get with them.

As for life outside of the first world, I don't really care all that much, those people are too busy trying to survive rather than game white girls.

White nationalists lose sleep for no reason, the irony here is that the same old bitter guys who are trying to preach on about preserving the white race will be passed over by hot white girls in their prime in favor of some black athlete on a football team or even an ethnic guy their own age. These same guys will have to resort to traveling to Thailand or somewhere in the third world in hopes of p-ssy.

 

[Trainwreck]

Why do white men always feel qualified to give advice to non-white men on how to succeed as a non white man?

Thank you

 

[Trunks]

Where in the south were you? I cannot imagine them being okay with a latino dating some blonde chick in most parts of the region but it does differ based on the state you're in.

Nashville, TN

 

[Listen_to_Olly]

Nashville, TN

That makes sense, do you actually look non-white or are you one of those latinos that can easily pass for a white guy?

Take my advice about tanned brunettes though, you won't regret it.

 

[Trainwreck]

I live in Nashville, what part of Nashville were you in. There's so much pedastization of white women going around. Wtf does being blonde make her so unobtainable? There's plenty of trashy blonde white women out there.

 

[Listen_to_Olly]

I live in Nashville, what part of Nashville were you in. There's so much pedastization of white women going around. Wtf does being blonde make her so unobtainable? There's plenty of trashy blonde white women out there.

jeeeezus, dude says he gets blondes and I showed my surprise to it, what is your f-cking issue? So what if some guys want to talk about blondes or brunettes or asian girls, quit being such a social justice phaggot and complaining about it.

 

[Trunks]

I live in Nashville, what part of Nashville were you in. There's so much pedastization of white women going around. Wtf does being blonde make her so unobtainable? There's plenty of trashy blonde white women out there.

I lived just outside of downtown. I was pretty much saying the same thing, that being blonde isn't anything special.

 

[Trunks]

That makes sense, do you actually look non-white or are you one of those latinos that can easily pass for a white guy?

Take my advice about tanned brunettes though, you won't regret it.

I don't look white, but don't look "native" either. Standard latino.

 

[Chamber36]

The thing I love the most about white girls is that if you're in a first world country, except for Japan, there are plenty of them to go around.

I'm not too sure about that, but I hope what you're saying is true, lol.

Just like all the minorities on this forum, ironically.

 

[RangerMIke]

Why do white men always feel qualified to give advice to non-white men on how to succeed as a non white man?

LOL! I was thinking the same thing. Really the only advice any man needs, regardless of race is to be the very best man you can be. That's it. All women are the same, they are all attracted to the same things, be a man and you will do fine. You should really put anything out of your mind that is giving you a limiting belief and try not to worry about it. If you think your race, or height, age, or anything else is a problem... it will be.

I know a guy who is half-Indian and half-Chinese, he is the strange looking dude you will ever meet, but he has a purpose (and online business concept), is a funny-happy guy, and is in great shape. His girlfriend is one of the hottest best women I have EVER met. She is fvcking crazy about him.

 

[Ambitious Player]

While most of the stuff is accurate, I wanted to comment on the part about the "airheads" and blonde popular girls. For a while, I used to think they were unattainable too because I never met a guy of my background (Indian) that had any success with them, had a thing for them too.

I think that is something that gets guys of a lot of minority groups, Indian guys the most, that lack of a role model or someone to look up to from your own background. White guys have seen countless white guys do well and same is true for black guys, it is rare for Indian guys to see someone from his background do well. Starting out, this was a major issue for my inner game and it created a nasty cycle of self-doubt. A lot of Indian guys to a lesser extent guys of other minority groups tend to struggle with this, almost never seeing someone of their race do well and then wondering if it is even possible.

As time has gone on and I've gotten better, I've actually had a much easier time with the blonde "airhead" types and even been with some. I do believe that if you're a brown guy who is bringing something to the table, there will be girls from this demographic who will want to go for you, especially if it is short term. While I do think it is more difficult if you're brown, something I agree with @SmooveMooves on, it is doable.

 

[Dingo]

White, black, Asian, tall, short, blond or brunette.... I just want one that is cool and loving.

 

[skinnyguy]

LOL! I was thinking the same thing. Really the only advice any man needs, regardless of race is to be the very best man you can be. That's it. All women are the same, they are all attracted to the same things, be a man and you will do fine. You should really put anything out of your mind that is giving you a limiting belief and try not to worry about it. If you think your race, or height, age, or anything else is a problem... it will be.

I know a guy who is half-Indian and half-Chinese, he is the strange looking dude you will ever meet, but he has a purpose (and online business concept), is a funny-happy guy, and is in great shape. His girlfriend is one of the hottest best women I have EVER met. She is fvcking crazy about him.

Would you say that an ethnic guy has to be in "great shape" to get women, while other men don't need to work out to get women?