There was a study done in the mid 80s that asked a lot of women how many sexual partners they had had sex with.
Most women were under 3.
Now that was a lot of women from 50s generation still around but it makes clear something that we all know but don't really talk about.
/Math lesson on
Average networth in America is probably somewhere near one million dollars. It is the total networth of America divided by the number of people.
Median networth is probably closer to 50 thousand. That is the number where half the people have more half the people have less.
The rich in America are reallly really really rich but most people are not all that rich.
/Math lesson off
The average number of heterosexual partners among men and women is equal. Evertime a man has sex with a woman a woman is having sex with a man. Pretty simple.
But most women have had fewer partners than most men....how can this be?
Its because their are women who have sex every day with a different guy. Most guys can't do this. A woman who wants to have a lot of sex can easily get 2 guys to have sex with her at once....most guys can't get 2 girls at once etc.
So some women have a lot lot lot more sex than other women. But most women have fewer partners than most guys. The women DJs get more action than the male DJs. The average the same but median for males is more partners than women.
So why do you care?
Well having a lot of sex with the women who have lots of sex doesn't strike me as most guys ideal. Kind of like having a free pass at a brothel may be fun but would you brag about it? Having that free pass doesn't say anything about your abilities to get the woman of your dreams unless she works there and it may lower your odds dramatically if she knows where you have been spending your time if she doesn't.
So be careful as a DJ that you are not going where the girls are easy and then being amazed at how successful you are. Many of the "DJ" things like SS and NLP etc are much much more effective on women who are easily influenced and you know what? Most of them have been easily influenced before...
So pick the women you want to measure yourself against and see how you improve your game with them.
Most women were under 3.
Now that was a lot of women from 50s generation still around but it makes clear something that we all know but don't really talk about.
/Math lesson on
Average networth in America is probably somewhere near one million dollars. It is the total networth of America divided by the number of people.
Median networth is probably closer to 50 thousand. That is the number where half the people have more half the people have less.
The rich in America are reallly really really rich but most people are not all that rich.
/Math lesson off
The average number of heterosexual partners among men and women is equal. Evertime a man has sex with a woman a woman is having sex with a man. Pretty simple.
But most women have had fewer partners than most men....how can this be?
Its because their are women who have sex every day with a different guy. Most guys can't do this. A woman who wants to have a lot of sex can easily get 2 guys to have sex with her at once....most guys can't get 2 girls at once etc.
So some women have a lot lot lot more sex than other women. But most women have fewer partners than most guys. The women DJs get more action than the male DJs. The average the same but median for males is more partners than women.
So why do you care?
Well having a lot of sex with the women who have lots of sex doesn't strike me as most guys ideal. Kind of like having a free pass at a brothel may be fun but would you brag about it? Having that free pass doesn't say anything about your abilities to get the woman of your dreams unless she works there and it may lower your odds dramatically if she knows where you have been spending your time if she doesn't.
So be careful as a DJ that you are not going where the girls are easy and then being amazed at how successful you are. Many of the "DJ" things like SS and NLP etc are much much more effective on women who are easily influenced and you know what? Most of them have been easily influenced before...
So pick the women you want to measure yourself against and see how you improve your game with them.
