There was a post about not hanging out with guys better looking than you as that would potentially lower your chances of seducing a woman. Comments like "The girl would take a look at the both of us and I'd be out of the picture" were written. But what about confidence? The first thing every DJ was taught to work on? Where is it now?
See how emotions are controlling you again? Envy, low self esteem.. you're losing your grip. This is where the most basic DJ principle comes to play. Know that you can, and your boundaries will expand. You don't need all that negative energy. Once you're able to hone your negative-energy-ignoring-skills, you'll have more game than anyone else ever could.
Now.. I can't just NOT go out with my friends because most of them are good looking and they're my pretty close friends. It'd be boring doing things alone. Being in their company always makes me happier. I get to laugh at their AFCness sometimes yet, they tend to surprise me with some DJ moves once in a while. After hanging out with them for quite a while.. I've noticed a few things.
Point #1: Just because he's better looking than you doesn't necessarily mean he'll be getting the numbers. Example:
Him: Umm.. uhhhh.. hey! Your eyes.. they're like the stars in.. umm... you know.. I like sushi and I LOOVEE football.. I watch Oprah everyday and uhh... can you call me sometime please? I'll give you my phone number!
You: Hi. (Insert DJ speech here)
Assuming you rate more than 2/10 on the looks scale, I don't think it would be hard choosing decision between AFC pretty boy or DJ homely looking dude.
Point #2: Taste differs. One girl might think your friends "da bomb" and another might think she'd rather waste her time on the janitor. Some will find you ugly, others would amputate herself to sleep with you.
Sometimes, people find flaws in themselves. A portion of these people find something or someone else to blame. The ones that excel in life does something about it.
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i'd rather die than give you control
[This message has been edited by stuartSan (edited 01-21-2002).]
See how emotions are controlling you again? Envy, low self esteem.. you're losing your grip. This is where the most basic DJ principle comes to play. Know that you can, and your boundaries will expand. You don't need all that negative energy. Once you're able to hone your negative-energy-ignoring-skills, you'll have more game than anyone else ever could.
Now.. I can't just NOT go out with my friends because most of them are good looking and they're my pretty close friends. It'd be boring doing things alone. Being in their company always makes me happier. I get to laugh at their AFCness sometimes yet, they tend to surprise me with some DJ moves once in a while. After hanging out with them for quite a while.. I've noticed a few things.
Point #1: Just because he's better looking than you doesn't necessarily mean he'll be getting the numbers. Example:
Him: Umm.. uhhhh.. hey! Your eyes.. they're like the stars in.. umm... you know.. I like sushi and I LOOVEE football.. I watch Oprah everyday and uhh... can you call me sometime please? I'll give you my phone number!
You: Hi. (Insert DJ speech here)
Assuming you rate more than 2/10 on the looks scale, I don't think it would be hard choosing decision between AFC pretty boy or DJ homely looking dude.
Point #2: Taste differs. One girl might think your friends "da bomb" and another might think she'd rather waste her time on the janitor. Some will find you ugly, others would amputate herself to sleep with you.
Sometimes, people find flaws in themselves. A portion of these people find something or someone else to blame. The ones that excel in life does something about it.
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i'd rather die than give you control
[This message has been edited by stuartSan (edited 01-21-2002).]
