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I play video games, but when you compare ALTERNATES...
*Lifting, running, sports, etc.
*Reading, joining public groups.
...for kids, there's a decided difference. Video games for the mind are like choosing masturbating over sex with a hot woman. It doesn't fulfillingly replace the true action. You can beat it, but sex is better with some1 you love, or at least care for. You can play games, but there are better ways to work on hand-eye coordination, such as physical sports and hobbies. There's also better ways to work on puzzles, such as doing actual mind bending puzzles. There are few educational puzzles. Again, I play games like Halo, and now WoW, from time to time, but I can't honestly put video games in a category with other skills and hobbies that will build a better future for myself, or any family I may create.
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And having EXCESSIVE fat is unhealthy. A long-time ago, Mens Health wrote an article on a man shaped like a big beach ball, who could do marathons, ride a bike over 100's of miles, and lift and job, yet he was big and round. It called into question our definition of "fit". This man was VERY active.
Lifting a ton and being fat is NOT healthy. Lifting is good, and it will change one's shape, but it won't help your cardio, your endurance, or your recovery ability. It's great when it calls to question issues of posture, or lifting anything, or standing still without pain, and the like, but if all you did was eat big and lift big, sure you'd get big, but ideally, you wouldn't be In great shape. You could be a lineman in the NFL, but that isn't ideal for health either. Carrying that much weight w/out strengthing the tendons and joints leads to many health problems. Fat does help powerlifters with some issues of strength, so if you're competitive IT DOES help, but if competition is not your goal, it's only energy waiting to be used. And fat DOES increase estrogen in the body and therefore it causes the cycle of fat addition we see prevalent in America. The more Fat you have, the more likelihood that calories will elect to convert to fat, because of the presene of Estrogen in/around fat cells.
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