something doesnt feel quite right

[Bingo-Player]

Something doesn’t quite feel right

Met a chick on tinder about 3 weeks ago I can tell her interest is immediately sky high , we have mutual friends and I’m able to scope her out on Facebook (not a catfish) before exchanging numbers

We discuss food and she says she’s a big fan of Indian & Italian (hinting for me to take her out)

Problem is I don’t “date” women before ive slept with them anymore its expensive and it’s counterproductive , il aim for a very casual meetup or invite them around to my place (aiming for sex immediately )

I make her an offer to come around last week which she declines due to “having to spend the night with her sister” not sure whether I entirely believed that but whatever

After that I cool things off off , I mean ice cold…….. 0 contact on my part

Her hamster for some reason then goes into overdrive, starts telling me she wants to fvck me & sending me explicit snapchats of her fingering herself

This may just be me being paranoid but She seems ridiculously horny constantly …..Never dealt with a chick like this one before ?? has anyone else ?

is there anything I need to be aware of further down the line??

 

[Julian]

borderline personality disorder

crazy sloot

dumb hoe

take your pic

 

[Poon King]

Just keep moving forward on YOUR terms.

MEN: The game is extremely simple. All you have to do is lead. Feminine women with high interest will be submissive and follow your lead. If a woman does not submit and does not follow your lead.. she has low interest/respect/attraction to you. So you simply move on to the next one. There is nothing to analyze and there is nothing to question. It doesn't matter how you met her or who she is friends with. It doesn't matter if she is a stripper, a Hollywood celebrity or a Victoria Secret model. The rules don't change.

 

[Sho-No-Luv]

I would say tranny lol! But you said you saw the goods. I mean she may be in between lays, and horny as hell who knows?

Invite her over again just to see, because she could be testing you out, dangling the goods in front of your face to tempt you. Then when you reach back out revert back to her previous self in an effort to get you to payout for dinners and the like.

I'm with you on not paying for dinners and such, learned the hard way, the worse feeling in the world soending money on a chic and never hearing from them again. Thats why now I get my puzzy up front!

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

LOL... If you are not a guy who regularly gets first night lays this might not be the strategy for you.

 

[Desdinova]

If you haven't met her in person yet, you're not going to be able to accurately judge her personality. Go out with her, meet her in person, then make the decision on whether or not she's bat5hit crazy.

From the sound of it, she's just trying to lure you back in. Don't play along with her sexual advances, just make positive comments on them; Stuff like, "Wow, you're certainly in a good mood tonight!"

 

[BetterCallSaul]

I would say tranny lol! But you said you saw the goods. I mean she may be in between lays, and horny as hell who knows?

Invite her over again just to see, because she could be testing you out, dangling the goods in front of your face to tempt you. Then when you reach back out revert back to her previous self in an effort to get you to payout for dinners and the like.

I'm with you on not paying for dinners and such, learned the hard way, the worse feeling in the world soending money on a chic and never hearing from them again. Thats why now I get my puzzy up front!

This.

She wants you to take her out to dinner, then she shows you video of her fingering herself? Either call her out and tell her to come over and f*ck your brains out or if she doesn't, she's just using you as a meal ticket.

 

[The Duke]

I'm seeing a girl right now that is always super horny. That pu$$y is constantly wet and its just drips! Never seen anything like it. Before we actually went out, there was sexting, then phone sechs, and sechs on the first date. My first thought was ok, this girl is going to be slut, so far she is totally not. I think it was a case of 2 personalities that hit it off extremely well, I said all the right things, and she is super attracted to me. Plus she was married to a needy, metrosechsual, insecure, beta for 13yrs. I'm quite the opposite and she ate that right up.

She has the drive/desire/rational thought processes of a guy and told me that from the start. No foreplay needed here. Its so awesome and I've never experienced it before, that I'm still very skeptical. so far she's been a very solid girl and zero games. She is 33yo, definitely does not give off the slut vibe and has been married most of her life. On her dating profile she didn't show any skin at all, super conservative pics.

I had sechs with this girl multiple times before we even went out on a traditional date. Most of the time it was just drinks and conversation at my house. She was totally cool with that.

I'd recommend keeping an open mind, enjoying it, and not letting her sechs/looks cloud your thoughts. Typically these are bad deals, but you never know. Women get horny too and its more acceptable than ever before.

If this girl you are referring to is highly confident, and very rational then I'd say she is wired more like a guy and this deal might be pretty good. If you see some typical female behaviors(insecure, emotional, irrational, schit testing, indecisiveness) then she might be using sechs to manipulate you and this is some damaged goods you have on your hands. so if you can analyze her personality then you will better know what you have on your hands.

 

[Bingo-Player]

I'm seeing a girl right now that is always super horny. That pu$$y is constantly wet and its just drips! Never seen anything like it. Before we actually went out, there was sexting, then phone sechs, and sechs on the first date. My first thought was ok, this girl is going to be slut, so far she is totally not. I think it was a case of 2 personalities that hit it off extremely well, I said all the right things, and she is super attracted to me. Plus she was married to a needy, metrosechsual, insecure, beta for 13yrs. I'm quite the opposite and she ate that right up.

She has the drive/desire/rational thought processes of a guy and told me that from the start. No foreplay needed here. Its so awesome and I've never experienced it before, that I'm still very skeptical. so far she's been a very solid girl and zero games. She is 33yo, definitely does not give off the slut vibe and has been married most of her life. On her dating profile she didn't show any skin at all, super conservative pics.

I had sechs with this girl multiple times before we even went out on a traditional date. Most of the time it was just drinks and conversation at my house. She was totally cool with that.

I'd recommend keeping an open mind, enjoying it, and not letting her sechs/looks cloud your thoughts. Typically these are bad deals, but you never know. Women get horny too and its more acceptable than ever before.

If this girl you are referring to is highly confident, and very rational then I'd say she is wired more like a guy and this deal might be pretty good. If you see some typical female behaviors(insecure, emotional, irrational, schit testing, indecisiveness) then she might be using sechs to manipulate you and this is some damaged goods you have on your hands. so if you can analyze her personality then you will better know what you have on your hands.

this is the answer I was looking for

thanks

 

[SadoMasochrist]

She has the drive/desire/rational thought processes of a guy and told me that from the start.

Danger Will Robenson, DANGER.

This is a female psychopath looking for her next mark. "Hey look, I'm so rational, just what you want... right? I'm a slut, but not! Tehehe!" This is textbook how I got involved with a BPD. You WANT a girl to be emotional, that is a good sign. What you're viewing, in a positive light, is a lack of empathy. This is girl game. What that probably also means, is you're a r-AFC. She senses your neediness and wants to exploit it. I mean I can see you rather than discussing the technicals, talking yourself up and being amazed at her. Not yet oneitus, but you're certainly putting her up there.

Proceed with extreme caution.

 

[The Duke]

Danger Will Robenson, DANGER.

This is a female psychopath looking for her next mark. "Hey look, I'm so rational, just what you want... right? I'm a slut, but not! Tehehe!" This is textbook how I got involved with a BPD. You WANT a girl to be emotional, that is a good sign. What you're viewing, in a positive light, is a lack of empathy. This is girl game. What that probably also means, is you're a r-AFC. She senses your neediness and wants to exploit it. I mean I can see you rather than discussing the technicals, talking yourself up and being amazed at her. Not yet oneitus, but you're certainly putting her up there.

Proceed with extreme caution.

lol, thanks for the well wishes! You might be exactly right on your analysis of her, but you are miles off with your analysis of me. I'm definitely not needy nor AFC. Far from it. I'm definitely not amazed by her. Skeptical of her....yes....as I stated. I'd say your comprehension skills need some sharpening! And one-itus.......jeezus dude you are grasping for straws here. Read my ENTIRE post before you reply next time. ;-)

 

[SadoMasochrist]

lol, thanks for the well wishes! You might be exactly right on your analysis of her, but you are miles off with your analysis of me. I'm definitely not needy nor AFC. Far from it. I'm definitely not amazed by her. Skeptical of her....yes....as I stated. I'd say your comprehension skills need some sharpening! And one-itus.......jeezus dude you are grasping for straws here. Read my ENTIRE post before you reply next time. ;-)

R-AFC, or REFORMED AFC.

Listen man, this is only offered as help. I say that as someone who tangled with BPD for 10 years. 10 ****ing years. You can be R-AFC and still not be AF. It's really what I've decided to coin D-BB, or a dark beta. Enough to keep interest, generate some tingles, but you're still failing the long term **** test. Girl game has two directions. One is manipulative, which seems to be your case, the other submissive. The fact that she's walking both lines shows it's manipulative girl game, which means she thinks you're receptive to being manipulated. That being said, they have to choose a mark they like, in some capacity, so that's why I said r-AFC. She's not going to stick around with Billy Beta, but if she sees a chink in your armor, she likes that. She's a predator and you have to ask yourself why you're prey. That doesn't mean you're a chump, but she saw your achilles heel. Ask her why she likes you and then take what she says and decode it.

I can guarantee you it's going to be some variation or weakness she presents as a plus or that she sees you as a "fixer upper." Basically a poor woman's alpha. Just be careful and apply standard plating rules and be ruthless to demoting her. She'll show her cards, I can guarantee it.