some things i've learned =]

oOh Nasty

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lionfox and some other cool people on this site did this so i'll do it too :D!!

im a junior in highschool, so highschool students might be able to relate to this more.

some things i've learned through experience:

- always speak loud and clearly when you speak. whenever you have something ****y or funny to say but you're not loud enough and she goes "huh?" it just ruins it.

- alot of girls that are cute far away aren't always as cute close up.

- it's better to put your ego on risk when doing or saying stupid things rather than letting your ego sit and becoming the "shy person who says nothing."

- pretending that you don't notice her is more effective when you really don't notice her.

- too much of anything is not good.

- working out and then looking at yourself in the mirror is a good way to keep confidence up. do it everyday! oh yeah...and eat correctly also.

- whining is very unattractive.

- we tend to like more of the race that we had our last affair or crush on. (oh no, the deadly crush word).

- if something is uncomfortable to do, do it everyday non-stop for two weeks and then it won't be anymore.

- if you're gonna be funny, keep these in mind: make sure it's not annoying, make sure it doesn't make you look bad, and make sure its actually funny.

- change your hairstyle, the way you dress, or some sort of physical appearance that is noticable every two weeks.

- looks really seriously dont matter (most of the time...unless you're terribly ugly). it is your actions that lead. just dont look like a slob.

- flirt with as many girls as you can, but just dont be annoying.

- act crazy as hell for three days straight, and then totally quiet the next day. watch how many people ask you "whats wrong."

- girls love guys that can sing.

- become friends with your friends' friends until you're friends with your whole school.

- when something that gets you angry occurs, laugh and make a joke out of it.

- do something on stage in front of a crowd.

- don't tell them your talent. let them find you doing it while you "dont know they're watching."

- "one who takes the simplicity out of things is a fool" ~ bruce lee

- don't wear the same piece of clothing or outfit unless it's been two weeks.

- if you see someone you've talked to before, instead of pretending you dont see him/her, just say whats up! you idiot.

- don't speak negatively about anyone with hate...but if you have to, do it with laughter and a joke that you are sure is funny...and don't linger on the subject too long.

- don't eat anything that gives you gas before or during the school day.

- an ego is easier to be fed by what it was first fed once you have one.

- save any video/computer games for weeknights that you dont go out on.

- try not to speak to a girl through instant messaging if you can help it.

- try not to speak to a person you dont know in person through instant messaging unless its for a certain important purpose (aka, don't become good friends with people online that you dont know in person).

- speak to, and make jokes with your teachers.

- speak to the whole class at the same time.

- don't spend so much money on school lunch.

- instead of putting your earphones on, talk to someone during: study halls, free periods, bus rides, etc.

- try to talk to every girl that is above average on your looks scale.

- if you have a girlfriend in your school, unless she's in any of your classes, don't make it a habit to go and see her everyday.

- play hard enough during games in gym so you're not the last one picked next time.

- chill with different group of friends every now and then.

- be about something in school!! (ex: the best dancer, the best singer, the best rapper, yadda yadda yadda)

yes well im getting sleepy and it's almost my bed time (trying to get enough sleep every night now -.-) so i must conclude this. if anyone has any questions about any item on the list above, i will gladly explain.

thx for your time!! :D

~1~

ooh nasty
 

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OMG this might not be for everybody but its good for me , heres where i gotta improve:

- always speak loud and clearly when you speak. whenever you have something ****y or funny to say but you're not loud enough and she goes "huh?" it just ruins it.

- it's better to put your ego on risk when doing or saying stupid things rather than letting your ego sit and becoming the "shy person who says nothing."


- we tend to like more of the race that we had our last affair or crush on. (oh no, the deadly crush word).

THATS WHY I HAVE A FETISH ON ASIAN CHICKS

MOVING ON

if something is uncomfortable to do, do it everyday non-stop for two weeks and then it won't be anymore.

- change your hairstyle, the way you dress, or some sort of physical appearance that is noticable every two weeks.

- looks really seriously dont matter (most of the time...unless you're terribly ugly). it is your actions that lead. just dont look like a slob.

- flirt with as many girls as you can, but just dont be annoying.

- act crazy as hell for three days straight, and then totally quiet the next day. watch how many people ask you "whats wrong."

- become friends with your friends' friends until you're friends with your whole school.


- "one who takes the simplicity out of things is a fool" ~ bruce lee

- don't wear the same piece of clothing or outfit unless it's been two weeks.

- if you see someone you've talked to before, instead of pretending you dont see him/her, just say whats up! you idiot.


be about something in school!!


WHEW I GOTTA WORK ON THIS
 

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good post! if anyone could follow all of those rules, they will deff. be a true DJ...espically the one about eating foods that give u gas..hahha
 

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- Be socially connected. The more social you are, the more friends you'll have, and the more girls will notice.

- Never give up on anything. This may not be girl related or it may be but if you're a slacker, thats not attractive.

- Kick back and relax. Take school serious to a point. Nothing wrong in taking notes if you need help but school should never get in the way of your social life once you leave your school.

- Grades aren't everything. Unless you are a genius that can get a full ride then maybe worry about getting the 4.0s. For most people though, many people won't get above a 22 on the ACT or whatever score the SAT is for people who are slightly above average. Most people won't get full rides because they don't volunteer or of a minority. If you know you're not getting a free ride, slack off. Try to aim for a 3.0. I never did homework outside of school and pulled off a 3.38 GPA and that was with numerous college credit classes as well. I could have achieved a 4.0 or near that but whats the point? I could have got over a 30 but I'm white, middle class, and didn't volunteer. Nor do I feel like kissing a bunch of ass to get massive scholarships. So I figured that slacking off would be good. It worked as I went to my 1st choice without any problems. I wound up getting a 26 on the ACT which is definitely good but not amazing. Didn't study for a second though.

- Girls here can be fun but clique-y. Just basically talk to as many girls as possible. Try to get their numbers and all that. Sure you probably won't get laid by every one but in HS, a lot of girls try to rush into relationships just because they can now. So you can probably get a gf easier at HS than anywhere else probably.

- Have fun. Life should be fun and in HS, you should have even more fun. HS isn't hard, in fact its damn easy. There are always times where you can have fun at school. Go to the various school social events. Some may be lame but its a good way to socialize and meet new girls.

- Don't get into a deep relationship in HS. I don't know this but I've seen so many friends and acquaintances get bummed because their gf of 2+ years broke up with them and they thought it was serious, etc. If you want to be in relationships, have them fun and social as well as lots of sex. Leave the deep emotional **** after you leave college.
 

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Good ideas nasty but I'm going to have to respectfully disagree with some. (I left out the ones that I agree with). Here goes:


- change your hairstyle, the way you dress, or some sort of physical appearance that is noticable every two weeks.

I just don't see the point in this. It sounds like you're doing it to instill an "unpredictability factor" in your appearance. Dress how you want, when you want. Plus, changing your hair/clothing so often gets expensive.

- don't tell them your talent. let them find you doing it while you "dont know they're watching."

Don't try too hard to get other people to notice you "without you knowing". Do what you want; if they notice, cool- if not, their loss.

- don't wear the same piece of clothing or outfit unless it's been two weeks.

?? I guess this is very general advice... but have you really encountered a downside to this?

- don't eat anything that gives you gas before or during the school day.

LOL.. so true.


- speak to the whole class at the same time.

Don't get this one. Do you mean in class? Out of class?

- don't spend so much money on school lunch.

Don't get this one either. It's as arbitrary as saying "don't spend too much money on clothing".

- try to talk to every girl that is above average on your looks scale.

Disagree. Treat every girl the same-- it takes a man to make the insecure girl feel special. If you concentrate your attention on the HB6+'s, you'll get nowhere. Not-so-good looking girls also provide great social proof.

- be about something in school!! (ex: the best dancer, the best singer, the best rapper, yadda yadda yadda)


AMEN TO THAT. Stand out.

Cheers. As you can tell, I agree with most of 'em. :D
 

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"- try not to speak to a girl through instant messaging if you can help it."

I have problems with this one. Why is this so bad though?
 

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theres a bunch of reasons not to talk on IM all the time , but the main ones being-

-Kino is impossible via Instant Messenger

-Some people run out of stuff to say in person if they use it up on the compy.
 
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