First time I pop in here in a while and, surprises abound, one of my threads finally has re-emerged from the dead...or something like that.
About the ears:
From all of the girls I've been with, I can say with confidence that ears have definitely been hot spots for almost all of them. I say 'almost' because they were actually a turn OFF for one girl - but she also had some head issues for a professional shrink, so...
The neck:
Yes, if you have a playful girl you can do the old retaliation, if she marks up your neck you do hers twice as worse. Pretty fun if she can take it as a joke...and get the message to stop marking up your damn neck.
Some more random side notes that I've been meaning to add to this thread:
Hair pulling is actually MUCH more effective than I thought when I wrote this. I've tried it out a bit more lately and it is a DEFINITE winner. I would suggest, naturally, that you not yank her hair as if you intended to remove said hair from her head.
In all seriousness, hair pulling is great, and I think I'd have to cite a Chancelot thread somewhere for this, but it's also a GREAT move for during sex, too, if it's a particularily aggressive session. (not the candles-and-pillowtalk session
).
To further elaborate on hair, I remember reading on this site but my memory fails me as to the precise source, so I apologize to whomeever this blatant plagarism is towards, but a GREAT move is to run your hands through her hair. This isn't the 80's, she doesn't have big hair, you won't catch on any nasty tangles, just go for it. Run your hand(s) through it nice and gentle, remember, and don't be petting it like a house animal. I recall I touched on that before.
Tongue methods? On this, you should just go what feels natural. I mean, don't just let it sit there like a statue, but I'm not a big proponent of going hyper with it like it's the last minute of play in a heated game of tonsil hockey
. I'm a fan of something gentle but noticeable, if that helps any. Tongue, I really can't find the words to explain - possibly some other reader on the thread could chip in?
And to everybody: remember, these are guidelines to the clueless or to those a little lacking in their techniques. As I believe I previously stated (since it has been a while since I originally wrote the post and so my memory may be off), these are just guidelines, not absolute truth or the be-all-and-end-all gameplan. I don't believe in game plans or game - I play it honest and fair, but I recognize that everyone needs a primer on the essentials once in a while, so here it is.
Loosen up and read with an open mind, and hopefully the women in your life can thank you (if they want to thank me, hey, that's cool too
).
I'll mark this thread to email me the replies so I don't miss anything - take it easy, everybody, and have fun.
