One thing I see here is that many men have not reached the level of loosing the bitterness towards women yet...
A woman who is taking what she wants and satisfying her needs is not a whr, she is the woman counterpart of what you want to be yourself... And from my experience, this kind of woman will be more choosy than 99% of the "playaz"...
It is not in what she does it is how she does it.
The woman, if she looses her choosing, then I would call her a whr, not when she is the one setting up the rules and deciding on the game.
the guy in question is her best friend, like a brother to her, a bit on the feminine side, so I have no issues with that.
there is one reply for which I thank, and it is the one about honesty, when you do not have to play games, and being honest is your strength.
Yes, I was asking a question for which I knew the answer, I just wanted to get a more mature man's opinion, in order to grow.