Some nasty stuff from yesterday night

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Yesterday I had an interesting observation on some female nature stuff.

My close friend organized his bday party at a restaurant where he was with his gf (they dates around 2 months already). So we are at the restaurant, they are happy, he calls her baby and kisses. Like a happy guy.

Later we switched to the club where we had a table. So we are sitting at the table, drink, his gf is dancing close to the table. Every time when some random dude was approaching her she was calling for my friend to take her out. So like you expect from your gf.

At some point my friend got quite drunk so he just sits at the table all the time, his gf also got quite drunk but just disappeared. My friend got pissed off that she is not with him but at the same time does not wanna go and look for her. I haven't seen her walking out with some other dude - she just stalked around but did not wanted to come back to my friend (I think she was mad that he was not paying her enough attention).

So my friend got too drunk and started saying that his gf is a ***** and it is done with her, started texting her i don't wanna see you again and stuff like that. She replied in the same matter - fuk off and other nasty things.

So we decide to leave the club without his gf (I bet she was not cheating that night) and go to her place to pick up my friends stuff. He texts her he left the keys and everything is done with her. While we are waiting for a taxi his gf arrives but goes straight to her place alone. End of this night.

Today my friend told me he went back to her to pick up other stuff in the morning and she was begging and asking to forgive her. She told she loves him and does not wanna break things like that. My friend told her it is done, you were disrespectful to play this stupid game on my bday in front others and he does not wanna have anything in common with her. So he leaves her place. And today the whole day she was texting him asking to forgive her and stuff like that.

From my perspective they both guilty for what happened - a friend should not bring her gf to the fking club, should stay or demand his chick to be close to him and did not drink too much; and his gf was guilty for playing this ghosting game especially cause it was his bday.

But the funny thing that she is begging him right now. I believe cause he told her fk off she is chasing now. Otherwise if he apologised he would have been in a weaker position.

So the moral of the story is not to bring your gf with you to the club and be the one who initiates the breakup. Cause he can take her back anytime he wants now.
 

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Sounds like they are both extremely immature and lack the ability to communicate effectively. This relationship was doomed for failure.

One person HAS to be able to communicate effectively. When neither one can it ends up just bubbling to the surface after a long time and blows up.
 

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Explain to me like if I were 5 years old exactly why I can't bring a gf to a club?
As a girl you go to a club to get attention from guys while as a guy you go to the club to potentially hook up with some girl. Once you are in relationship you remove hook up part while your girl still receives attention. So the question is what is your added value to bring her with you to such places?
 
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