Some help about going for a girl or not.

[DonMEgaHoss]

Here's the situation, Im a lifeguard at a fairly large pool and my manager is a HB9 I say. Anyway, She's talks about her ex-bf some but not alot and about guys hitting on her and a some chump trying to purpose to her but she blew him off no duh. I dont think much about it So Im like 'Is that so?' She gives me some IOIs like when my sunscreen wasnt rubbed in she rubbed it in on my face and back and such. But I was like why didnt you tell me it wasnt rubbed in? She didnt reply and just went back to the stand since it was her turn to go on the rotation. Also, she calls me her hero, best lifeguard and other things to compilment me. I havent compilmented much on her not in looks anyways...I've heard some things about her being slutty but she's nice and smart. Not some empty-headed peice of arse. But I dont judge people by what others say. I judge for myself. Any ideas on which way I should go? And why chicks talk about guys to you even when you tell them you dont care?

 

[DonMEgaHoss]

Come on guys help me out, I dont like the idea of my question going unheeded... help a brother out ya know?

 

[thefonz]

Sounds like this lady occupies a great deal of your thoughts.....consult the bible as to whether or not thats good, in the meantime either DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT or get out there and sarge other girls, workout more, sociaize more, read more books, or do something that doesn't give you tunnel-vision syndrome

And I like your quote by the way.

 

[OneArmDeeJay]

She digs you man. She's throwing all kinds of signs at yeah but your missing them big time.

Here are the big three big signs.

1. Touching Shes touching and rubing you and claiming shes rubbing in the so called extra suntan lotion. She didn't want to say anythign cuz there wasn't she just wanted to touch you.

2. Social Proof She's talking about how all these guys want her. Thats womanize bratha for Hey stupid all these guys want me and think I'm hot how come you don't?

3. ComplimentsShe's always compilmenting you ex: Your my Hero.

She digs you man. She's throwing all kinds of signs at yeah but your missing them big time. Wake up man and make a move before she thinks your gay and move on. Strike the iron when its hot!

 

[Da Realist]

No man, no kids, and no issues= no reason to avoid getting with her.

 

[DonMEgaHoss]

Thanks for the opinions, I know I might be getting tunnel vision.
I do other things to occupy my time. Work out, Chill with friends,etc.Yeah I do need to go out and sarg some more but its harder for me to go out and sarge now due to the fact that I got a DUI . Oh and thanks for the comment on my sig

 

[Boner da Stoner]

unoriginal quote thief

I say make her jealous
make sure she wants you before you pull anything
don't endanger your job
don't become obsessed

if she is your boss and you finish wrong your screwed...

I'm saying basically what all other mack's would say to you, don't become obsessed, make her want you, and know your field... There are places that are out of bounds

 

[BackToTheMack]

She wants you if a girl refers to you as her HERO it means she gets wet when she thinks about you.

Go for it man.

WHY THE F**K ARE YOU SITTING BEHING YOUR COMPUTER?

You should be in a bed giving her mind blowing orgasms.

 

[brucevangeorge]

It's so OBVIOUS. LOTION!!!???

OMG, Do it, do her now! Stop wasting ****ing time!!!!


If you let this blow over, she'lll think you're an AFC.

NOW!:yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: :yes:



The luck some of these guys have.

 

[brucevangeorge]

Here are some translations:

HERO: You remind me of a sexy man stud. I want you to **** me hard.

Best Lifeguard: I want you. Take your shorts off and do me now.

Lotion: Whould you like to rub some lotion on me? Maybe a little..... lower? :yes:

Talks about loser boyfirends: this is waht those AFCs did. Dont make the same mistakes.
BTW, you make me hot and horny like they used to. Do me now. Now Now Now!!!

 

[h2o]

I PM'd you, but also read this tip/thread, " She has a BF. Is she really interested, or out for attention?": http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16513

 

[Jake-inator]

Here's your game plan:

1. Stop being so oblivious to the fact that she likes you. Go along with it.

2. Next time she tries to rub in lotion, look at her back and say... hey! you got some white spots on there letme rub 'em in for ya.

3. Compliment her, while you're feeling her up.
This works a lot better, than just compliments because you're physicially touching her. She interprets them as being of a sexual nature.

Note: You could get a boner at this point... which could be a bad or a good thing depending on her real intentions.


OUTCOMES
Scenario 1:

She grabs your dyck and drags you into the bathroom giving you a mind blowing blow job.
[Well done playa!]

Scenario 2:

You get embarassed, and come out like a total wimp.
[You're a total puzzy, and you will be sucking c0ck for the rest of your life unless you grow some ballz]

Scenario 3:

She accuses you of sexual harrassment and you get fired.

[Oh well these things happen, the most important thing to avoiding SH is not being so obvious about your intentions. ]



This is type of gameplan is what happens in my head whenever i try get with a chick.
You have to stop analyzing so much and start ACTING.

When you don't act you stand out as someone who doesn't know what to do in a situation.
When you act, you initate flirting which reinforces her sexual desire for you.

Inorder to act you need a PLAN of ACTION, and possible OUTCOMES.

Now that you know that,
whenever a girl does something that may indicate interest.... ACT ON IT!

At first you won't really know what to expect.
Once you get really good at this, you'll know what to expect. Knowledge comes with experience.

I'll make a whole post about this in the tips section, if i get some spare time.

 

[DonMEgaHoss]

Hell yeah, Do some kino, work in the ole' charm and see whats will happen. Whatever happens. As for the SH, not too worried she's not that shy about things. Pretty open about talking about sex and all just got to work it... Thaks for the opinions just helped back me up :woo: