godofshampoo
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Hi, I'm Adam, an incoming senior in high school, and there is a girl who I've liked from back to the end of last school year. A brief history of our status together before I told her I like her is basically; she is one grade under me, but I knew her for two years now, our first year not too too well, only somewhat. We did math competitions together and practiced with the rest of the team and stuff, but we got along pretty well and hung out during the competitions. This past school year we had one class together, but started becoming better and better friends in it (mostly toward the later half of the year). During the last couple months of school, she would always come over and sit near me, or i would sit near her, and we would do work together and study together and stuff, and after class she would wait for me and we'd walk to lunch together. On occasion she would also IM me and ask for help on other topics that i took my previous year. We would also maybe every other day chat on IM for a little before she would go to sleep.
Now over the summer, communication was cut down a lot, but not totally. She went to china for a month (where she couldn't talk to anyone), then when she got back, i went to mexico (where we would email each other maybe once or twice a day), then from that i went to a college program for about a month where we were only able to talk on IM maybe once ever three days or so, for maybe 30 mins or so before she had to go to sleep. Now when i was there, one of my best friends (who is dating one of her best friends and is also friends with her) started messing around with her and stuff. He told her one day that I like someone and she became interested and started like, asking him who it is and stuff for a while (but never went to me). Then maybe a week later he told her that he knows someone who likes her, and that night she kept on hounding him asking who it was (her first guess was me, but he gave an indecisive reply). After that night, the next day no one was able to contact her in any way. People tried calling, texting, Emailing, and IMing, but she ignored them all (also note that she is a shy girl).
So basically, about three days before i came back I started talking to her on IM more and more, and our convos (at night) would normally take her like, about 3 times to say good night before she would go, and she would start up like, some of the convos randomly.
So two days ago, after my same friend went back to telling her that he knows someone who likes her and stuff, and that i know who it is, she came to me and asked me. She told me "this is going to sounds strange, but I think the person is either you or avi", so eventually I told her that it was me, and she asked me when it started and stuff, and she told me that she had a really great time in our class together last year, and that im an amazing friend. And she told me tat like, it has been a while i guess since we have really had a long conversation, but "we will have to see, maybe this year we will have more classes together and i can get to know you better", but then she went on to say if we are lab partners I hope it is not awkward (so I don't know if she is telling me that if she gets to know me better maybe it can work, or not at all). We then talked for a little while longer, and she told me that she never liked someone since the 6th grade, and since then she has been putting everyone she meets into the "friends" section (which some of her other friends are telling her not to), and after a little while she said good night, told me she will talk to me tomorrow and signed off.
But a half hour later she randomly poped up again and started just randomly chatting with me for maybe 20-30 mins just about random stuff, and she said good night a couple times again before finally signing off, but her final remarks (which are kinda' odd, especially for her) were "anyways i really gtg to sleep i'm about to pms lol" then she logged right away. And now since then (today and yesterday) she has not been really communicating with anyone and kinda' put herself into a shell again.
Sorry about making it so long, but I'm pretty confused lol. What do you think I should do? Do you honestly think there is a chance for me, and if so how would you recommend me going about it?
Thanks
Now over the summer, communication was cut down a lot, but not totally. She went to china for a month (where she couldn't talk to anyone), then when she got back, i went to mexico (where we would email each other maybe once or twice a day), then from that i went to a college program for about a month where we were only able to talk on IM maybe once ever three days or so, for maybe 30 mins or so before she had to go to sleep. Now when i was there, one of my best friends (who is dating one of her best friends and is also friends with her) started messing around with her and stuff. He told her one day that I like someone and she became interested and started like, asking him who it is and stuff for a while (but never went to me). Then maybe a week later he told her that he knows someone who likes her, and that night she kept on hounding him asking who it was (her first guess was me, but he gave an indecisive reply). After that night, the next day no one was able to contact her in any way. People tried calling, texting, Emailing, and IMing, but she ignored them all (also note that she is a shy girl).
So basically, about three days before i came back I started talking to her on IM more and more, and our convos (at night) would normally take her like, about 3 times to say good night before she would go, and she would start up like, some of the convos randomly.
So two days ago, after my same friend went back to telling her that he knows someone who likes her and stuff, and that i know who it is, she came to me and asked me. She told me "this is going to sounds strange, but I think the person is either you or avi", so eventually I told her that it was me, and she asked me when it started and stuff, and she told me that she had a really great time in our class together last year, and that im an amazing friend. And she told me tat like, it has been a while i guess since we have really had a long conversation, but "we will have to see, maybe this year we will have more classes together and i can get to know you better", but then she went on to say if we are lab partners I hope it is not awkward (so I don't know if she is telling me that if she gets to know me better maybe it can work, or not at all). We then talked for a little while longer, and she told me that she never liked someone since the 6th grade, and since then she has been putting everyone she meets into the "friends" section (which some of her other friends are telling her not to), and after a little while she said good night, told me she will talk to me tomorrow and signed off.
But a half hour later she randomly poped up again and started just randomly chatting with me for maybe 20-30 mins just about random stuff, and she said good night a couple times again before finally signing off, but her final remarks (which are kinda' odd, especially for her) were "anyways i really gtg to sleep i'm about to pms lol" then she logged right away. And now since then (today and yesterday) she has not been really communicating with anyone and kinda' put herself into a shell again.
Sorry about making it so long, but I'm pretty confused lol. What do you think I should do? Do you honestly think there is a chance for me, and if so how would you recommend me going about it?
Thanks
