Big Nozzle
New Member
This is my first post with this website, so I feel obligated to qualify myself with a little background information. I somehow ended up on the DYD website, and reading David D's emails as they came into my inbox, and then one day I ended up here signing up for the DJ Tip of the Day. I checked out the forums once, but the sheer enormocity (That a real word? If not, I want credit) of it all proved to be quite the deterrant. Tonight, for whatever reason, I came back.
I have spent the better part of a day reading through the 9,000,000 threads on this website, in hopes that I would find an answer to my specific question, but I have not yet found such a solution. I am not doubting that this has been asked before, just doubting my ability to find a thread relating to it. Anyway, off to the races we go.
My career path has lead me obviously towards a sales job since the day that I first realized that I had persuasive power over other people. This all changed last year when I decided to try my hand at the bar business to try and increas my 'ups' (retail sales term for potential sales opportunities) with girls. Up until then, I had dealt mainly with established married couples, with maybe a girl my age that was fairly attractive coming into the store once or twice a week, usually with a boyfriend or new husband. I found that just being one of the employees at a bar instantly upped my social status, and immediately increased my value to women. (Girls LOVE to get drunk, don't they??)
I have since stopped working at this bar, but one of the girls that had been chasing me keeps lingering in my mind. She has given me her number 3 or 4 times, and I never called her. This isn't because of a lack of interest (she is definitely do-able in my book...Not relationship material, but do-able), but because she has a boyfriend. Under normal circumstances, I would have left her alone altogether, but she has made it perfectly clear that he does not factor into our equation. She and I have played games of titty-twisters, and on one occasion I sat with her after work, got drunk, and had her on my lap making out with me.
This all sounds really great, and you are asking why I haven't had her over to my place for a little more fun, right? Well, she lives with her boyfriend, and even though she is completely unhappy in her relationship and pursuing me, I feel like I would be doing something immoral if I were to take her out, and consequently have sex with her (I am about 99% sure I could at this point). I guess that is the long story, but the short question is... Should I? Should I ignore the fact that she is in a relationship because she is ignoring that fact, or should I not pursue anything with her because Karma is a biotch?
Thank you all for your insight, it is very helpful.
I have spent the better part of a day reading through the 9,000,000 threads on this website, in hopes that I would find an answer to my specific question, but I have not yet found such a solution. I am not doubting that this has been asked before, just doubting my ability to find a thread relating to it. Anyway, off to the races we go.
My career path has lead me obviously towards a sales job since the day that I first realized that I had persuasive power over other people. This all changed last year when I decided to try my hand at the bar business to try and increas my 'ups' (retail sales term for potential sales opportunities) with girls. Up until then, I had dealt mainly with established married couples, with maybe a girl my age that was fairly attractive coming into the store once or twice a week, usually with a boyfriend or new husband. I found that just being one of the employees at a bar instantly upped my social status, and immediately increased my value to women. (Girls LOVE to get drunk, don't they??)
I have since stopped working at this bar, but one of the girls that had been chasing me keeps lingering in my mind. She has given me her number 3 or 4 times, and I never called her. This isn't because of a lack of interest (she is definitely do-able in my book...Not relationship material, but do-able), but because she has a boyfriend. Under normal circumstances, I would have left her alone altogether, but she has made it perfectly clear that he does not factor into our equation. She and I have played games of titty-twisters, and on one occasion I sat with her after work, got drunk, and had her on my lap making out with me.
This all sounds really great, and you are asking why I haven't had her over to my place for a little more fun, right? Well, she lives with her boyfriend, and even though she is completely unhappy in her relationship and pursuing me, I feel like I would be doing something immoral if I were to take her out, and consequently have sex with her (I am about 99% sure I could at this point). I guess that is the long story, but the short question is... Should I? Should I ignore the fact that she is in a relationship because she is ignoring that fact, or should I not pursue anything with her because Karma is a biotch?
Thank you all for your insight, it is very helpful.
