Some advice guys?

[DjLarrySmooth]

Hello fello Dj's and just evryone. I'll start off with first off i love this forum i have began my confidence building and jsut trying to break out this shy bubble and i can see changes.
Now i kinda have this issue that sprung up today at work.
Ok so theres this girl (like always right haha), but anyway she comes in my work every now and then and i flirt with her (it wasn't really anything big because you know back then i was still pretty shy never even heard of this site) anyway so she's a waitress and works down the street from my work. So i one night go there and the manager ask me if i want her (which was really cool is a cool guy) anyway i eat and blah blah before i leave i ask her if you know maybe sometime we can go out for some mini golf maybe i said put put but anyway she's all like mayybeee with this cute ass smile on her face she gives me her number and so i called her a couple days later had some small talk then another day i caled her then one night i texted her and we talked back and fourth for a bit and i asked her you know if she'd like to go walking one night after work and she was like i'd love to . so we make plans for that
In my opinion i thought the walk went pretty good you know we talked quite a bit well she did but when it was my turn i had stuff to say. anyway afterwards i didnt go in for a hug or anything i knew this girl was realy faithful in christ and so forth atleast i think that. but anyway i slowly strayed away from texting her or calling her she would come in to work not much was said between us. but anyway heres where im all confused and and kinda mad cause its embarresing. so today one of the employees came into work and we where talkin with the managers and out the blue the employee is all like hey i was hanging out with this girl and she said that you gave her the worst line. He said that she told him i said ( would you like to go out for snacks) and then he goes on to say that she said the only reason she gave me her number was because she felt bad for me?? IMO i dont think this guy is trying to start anything he is new and we dont have a bad rep with each other. I'd like to say something to this chick jsut not sure how to approach it like maybe in a nice way like * hey look you know if i bother you let me know*? Or if i should just be a ****. IDk any advice Buds? btw we never went to play mini golf lol

 

[boomerick]

Larry---

First off....slow down and write with sentences and paragraphs.....

Second ....you are worried about the girl too much....

Third.... you are worried about some loudmouth co-worker....

I know this is said here over and over again ...BUT (here goes)....

Go to the DJ Bible....read at least Pook and Antidump.....

You are pedistilizeing your chick ....

And you are not centered/confident enough to ignore/deflect some irrelivent dude who is trying to shame/embarrass you....

Don't start off with the forum here ........read the 'reference' material first....

It has most if not all of the answers to the many questions you probably have right now about chicks.....

Spend some 'real' time educating yourself with the info availible on this site....

It will open your eyes and guide you towards the ideas and tools you need to deal with the above situation.......

Like my signature line says..... go to the bottom of the page and click on the bible link....

Over and Out.

 

[DjLarrySmooth]

Larry---

First off....slow down and write with sentences and paragraphs.....

Second ....you are worried about the girl too much....

Third.... you are worried about some loudmouth co-worker....

I know this is said here over and over again ...BUT (here goes)....

Go to the DJ Bible....read at least Pook and Antidump.....

You are pedistilizeing your chick ....

And you are not centered/confident enough to ignore/deflect some irrelivent dude who is trying to shame/embarrass you....

Don't start off with the forum here ........read the 'reference' material first....

It has most if not all of the answers to the many questions you probably have right now about chicks.....

Spend some 'real' time educating yourself with the info availible on this site....

It will open your eyes and guide you towards the ideas and tools you need to deal with the above situation.......

Like my signature line says..... go to the bottom of the page and click on the bible link....

Over and Out.

Boomerick thanks buddy,
Your right man why am i worried so much.
I will start on that reading material asap. About the paragraphs and sentences i tend to talk with this ghetto thug tounge, could be a nervous habit.
Any idea's for breaking this?

 

[new_hotness]

Let's get this straight: her manager asks you if you want her specifically?

Here's what happened; she looks for you to come into her place of work. When she sees you, she demands (in a polite way) that she serve you. Only her. And only you.

If her manager complies, that means she is on great terms with her manager. Her manager already vouched for her. And she has vouched for you.

Anyway, you didn't pull the trigger and now she's mad.

Just because a girl is religious doesn't mean she doesn't have sex.

You just used that as an excuse not to make a move.

Now, she's saving her rep by saying she gave you her number out of pity.

Anyway, I think you understand all of this stuff intuitively, but are afraid to admit to yourself what's going on.

It sounds like you are shy and can't really capitalize on opportunities yet.

Next time, just do what your "instincts" tell you to do.

Hello fello Dj's and just evryone. I'll start off with first off i love this forum i have began my confidence building and jsut trying to break out this shy bubble and i can see changes.
Now i kinda have this issue that sprung up today at work.
Ok so theres this girl (like always right haha), but anyway she comes in my work every now and then and i flirt with her (it wasn't really anything big because you know back then i was still pretty shy never even heard of this site) anyway so she's a waitress and works down the street from my work. So i one night go there and the manager ask me if i want her (which was really cool is a cool guy) anyway i eat and blah blah before i leave i ask her if you know maybe sometime we can go out for some mini golf maybe i said put put but anyway she's all like mayybeee with this cute ass smile on her face she gives me her number and so i called her a couple days later had some small talk then another day i caled her then one night i texted her and we talked back and fourth for a bit and i asked her you know if she'd like to go walking one night after work and she was like i'd love to . so we make plans for that
In my opinion i thought the walk went pretty good you know we talked quite a bit well she did but when it was my turn i had stuff to say. anyway afterwards i didnt go in for a hug or anything i knew this girl was realy faithful in christ and so forth atleast i think that. but anyway i slowly strayed away from texting her or calling her she would come in to work not much was said between us. but anyway heres where im all confused and and kinda mad cause its embarresing. so today one of the employees came into work and we where talkin with the managers and out the blue the employee is all like hey i was hanging out with this girl and she said that you gave her the worst line. He said that she told him i said ( would you like to go out for snacks) and then he goes on to say that she said the only reason she gave me her number was because she felt bad for me?? IMO i dont think this guy is trying to start anything he is new and we dont have a bad rep with each other. I'd like to say something to this chick jsut not sure how to approach it like maybe in a nice way like * hey look you know if i bother you let me know*? Or if i should just be a ****. IDk any advice Buds? btw we never went to play mini golf lol