"solo" sex, you might be literally screwing yourself

JdelaSilviera

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This is not any tip related directly with women, but since Don Juanism is about self improvement, I thought some readers would benefit from this.

It would be, of course, very simplistic to say that most problems you will have with women come from masturbation. Still, I think the impact can be significant and here is why, I could develop this case much further and made it look much more sophisticated but here it goes, because men need to know this Just a quick note I´m not religious, meaning I don´t view sex or masturbation as sinful, all this comes from my experience and research, also I´m a true skeptic by nature, so I disregard assumptions and social conventions to examine things by myself:

You only need about 4 days without masturbating, to see some immediate changes in yourself, you will become more confident, assertive and manly which of course has huge impact on how other people perceive and treat you. Men in the past used to be much more manly, it might be from the education they used to get, but families were much bigger and you would spend most of your day outside, which would lead less time to masturbate. Masturbation increases your cortisol (stress hormone) levels, which makes you more nervous in social situations.

If done excessively (which will vary among men) it will drain your energy levels, and you will lack motivation for everything, bodybuilding, college etc... That´s perhaps why you see a lot of guys, specially nerds that are living zombies, you rarely see that on women, they often have an energy that is almost annoying.

I now think that it can affect greatly the way your skin and hair looks (texture or hairloss), first it is a scientific fact that ejaculation increases your DHT levels SIGNIFICANTLY (http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/11760788). DHT is the main cause of hairloss in men, of course some men will be more predisposed genetically to hairloss, and might be more sensitive. The most common argument is that if it were true, every men would have hair loss, well.. in reality most men will experience hairloss and most women won´t.. DHT also can cause acne, and even wrinkles (http://nym195.typepad.com/blog/2011/09/eradicate-lines-and-wrinkles-with-ethocyn.html), perhaps that´s the explanation for guys in their 20´s having more laugh lines and stuff than women. Man are aging faster facially and hair wise ...

The enzyme alpha 5 reductase type 1, is more predominant in your skin,while type 2 in your hair, these enzymes convert testosterone to DHT. Most guys are either fvcked up in their skin or hair


Here you also have a medical doctor, baffled with the effects of over masturbation: http://www.definitivemind.com/forums/showthread.php?t=201.

It lowers your zinc levels, testosterone levels, Hgh. By the way all this essential to body building, and you do have lots of guys that notice more muscle when stop masturbating. (http://www.herballove.com/articles/...cessive-ejaculation-causes-damaging-chemical). Note: I´m perfectly aware that herballove wants to sell stuff, but their research does match reality, google is your friend..

Much more could be said, this site also talks on frequent ejaculation on rats (http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog...men-does-frequent-ejaculation-cause-hangover), their recover period is 15 days, and it might be possible that ours is longer. So even masturbating once a week might be too much..

Conclusion: it´s late in france and I´m tired so the writting is not the best , and I know this is a subject that upsets lots of guys, sexual pleasure is supposed to be healthy, anytime, anywhere, anyway. In an over sexualized society, someone who even proposes a moderation in sexual activity is called a religious nut. Doctors are also taught to tell that constant ejaculation does wonders even for prostate cancer (when recent discoveries say otherwise, or that´s just half the story) That´s why you have the doctor on definitive minds completly baffled, and hence the other doctors immediate unskeptical approach that too much masturbation couldn´t be the problem. Many oriental traditions know this too be true though, you only need an impartial research, the websites that will tell you to masturbate like an animal will most likely to be some teen helpers, or from sexologists that won´t provide you any evidence on ejaculation effects, they just assume it´s healthy because it must be. Many will dismiss this and think that if masturbation doesn´t grow hair on your palms like they used to say, it logically follows that every other negatives with it associated must be a fairy tale also


Looks play a major role, and women only have the power when they are superior to you... this could be a major obstacle on your good looks and your confident personality, if you have an healthy skin, hair, and muscled body, you will be considered good looking on most people´s standards even if your facial symmetry is not perfect.
 

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This argument has been done to death. One dude claims that he gained superpowers from not masturbating and the next dude claims to jack off three times a day and not see any negative effects. The fact is that there's no conclusive evidence for what you're claiming. Most dudes that I've seen that claim to have seen drastic improvements from abstaining were addicted to porn. That's more likely to be the culprit than masturbation itself. Do it in moderation, once a week or so and you're good.
 

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DHT only causes hair loss if you have the genes that express male pattern baldness. If you don't have the genetics for expressing male pattern baldness, all the DHT in the world won't make you lose your hair. But yeah, if you have the genes for MPB, you will lose your hair.

I agree with him about energy levels.
 

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If ejaculation is bad for you, then alpha males would have no testosterone at all because they have sex ALL THE FREAKING TIME with women.

Masburbation is more cost effective than chasing after women.
 

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skinnyguy said:
If ejaculation is bad for you, then alpha males would have no testosterone at all because they have sex ALL THE FREAKING TIME with women.

Masburbation is more cost effective than chasing after women.
^^ this...

I have never really understood the no-fap challenge; it all comes down to ejaculation, so in the long run, do you argue that we shouldn't have frequent sex as well?
 

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the no fap challenge is BS ... it mainly relates to the unrealistic p0rn that is being viewed... sure we all want to fvck like a p0rnstar or fvck chicks that look lik them... but it is an unrealistic ideal. and that is what is doing the damage.
 

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well, i tried some nofap challenge, but after 5 days all the result i had was that i was horny as heck, and couldn't think of anything else. i could even fuk a chair if it had holes.
and if you have regular sex with someone in the meantime, then what the heck? your body doesn't see the difference between a girl and your hand. you get rid of jizz either way. i think this is kinda like those crystal mumbo jumbos, when you put a piece of glass in your hand and expect to be hercules from it.

nofap will NOT get you more women, EVER.
going out and game will get you that.

just look at muslim coutries (no hate toward muslims). they are forbidden to jerk it off, and what is the result? a country full of pissed off people.

no thanks, i rather when feeling horny, just get it out of the system. sometimes i am even too lazy to go to one of my plates (she is my neighbour), and just spank the monkey, and continue my work.
and no girls complained.

one thing i attribute to my excessive faping past (when i was a kid i did it even 6 times a day every day for years until i had my first gf, and even that didn't stop me), so the result is that i can keep fking for a loong time, and girls go crazy about it (those who didn't reject me lol). i don't think i am superman. but i really think it has something to do with "conditioning the snake in an excessive manner"
 

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I went no-fap last month simply because I had too much work and other bullsh*t to deal with... and then when I f*cked one of my chicks I came in like 20 seconds. I had a rock-hard erection but it was the first "premature ejaculation" I've had in 20 years and it was f*cking embarrassing. Usually it's a challenge to nut even without condoms.

There must be a balance.
 

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Yep, this is not supposed to be to all, perhaps some guys are not that affected by ejaculating too much who knows.

But it´s correlation with acne, wrinkles, hair loss and even gray hair according to some sources is very likely, one just need to take a look at the links I posted an there are a lot more by credible sources, it´s a fact there is an hormone roller-coaster after you ejaculate, the human sperm is also made at a slower rate than most (if not all ) animals. Of course you still die, but the way you look might be dramatically affected by this.

Of course if one is 21 the effects might be minimal, but acne for instance very common in teenagers, you just need to go to acne.org and see the dozens off threads on this, there are lots of guys who already noticed it. Many guys might be getting acne scars for life, because no one told them the biggest acne aggravator.

Some of these effects are noticed gradually, others not. And the recovery is much more time that most guys are willing to control themselves..
 

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just stop wanking all day every day... go out and slay some p00n and you will be fine. there is nothing wrong with spanking the monkey but really it is becoming an addiction or just a habit for most men because they are too fvcken lazy or scared to go out and talk to real living breathing girls.
 
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