Social proof question

[DJinTraining06]

I recently met a girl and we have a 2nd date planned and is been as easy as pie so far, she is totally into me already. But one thing that always worries me with girls is my social circle. Basically i hang out with the same 2 guys all the time from college. They both have gf's so i was always the 5th wheel, now this other girl joined our little group, so its the 6 of us alot. Ive become friends with this other girl and we hang out alone. Other than that i hardly chill with anyone else, i have lost a few friends in recent yrs due to arfuments and stuff. So im basically down to these 6 with a few others from college that i see once in a blue moon and basically just talk to online or thru myspace comments.

U think this girl will be turned off by my lack of a social circle. is 6 people enuff? 2 of my closest friends that i used to chill with all the time and go on trips with and stuff became idiots and we had a falling out and dont speak anymore. So my circle has really dwindled since college. Obviously i gotta meet new friends and crap i know that, so im not lookin for that advice, im just askin if u guys think my group of 6 and a few outisde perimeter friends r enuff. or will this girl think im a loser. My friends r a bit dorky too, they r kinda cool alone, but they have the weirdest dorkiest gf's, i hope this isnt the dealbreaker cuz right now this girl thinks im the man.

 

[MyOwnKryptonite]

It sounds to me that you really do want more friends. Listen, it doesnt matter how many friends you have, it most certainly shouldnt matter to her, if shes going with you based on how many friends you have, the shyts already twisted, get out of it. Its really up to you as to how many friends you want to have.

 

[DJinTraining06]

It sounds to me that you really do want more friends. Listen, it doesnt matter how many friends you have, it most certainly shouldnt matter to her, if shes going with you based on how many friends you have, the shyts already twisted, get out of it. Its really up to you as to how many friends you want to have.

Well i do kinda cuz those 2 guys got gf's so i dont really "hang out with the guys" anymore these days. It's kinda like they call me up to go have dinner with them or see a movie etc. I really dont care cuz im a low key guy i like doin dinner with good friends, but from this girl has told me she has 6 close friends from college and a whole bunch of semi-good friends from high school. in all her pictures on myspace shes with big groups of people. So i just wonder if shell compare my group to her huge group and think wow hes a loooser. I personally liken myself to jerry seinfeld. I would be totally happy with a george,kramer,and elaine. A small group is fine by me, i just feel like it doenst look good these days to have such a small circle. I feel like alot of people make friends just for social proof, and i guess thats always beneficial, but at the same time its bs, mos tpeople i suspect only have 3 or 4 really close friends tops and everyone else is not important.