Social circle

[NSX-R]

I was watching recently a guy in youtube (his channel is RSDtyler) and he was discussing the effects of social circle on how they can provide you with many very attractive women. In fact he says , getting women through a social circle is so effective and easy that he doesn't even need to make a move at them. This guy has been also hanging out with Dan Bilzerian who's a known playboy. Meanwhile this guy is an average fat guy but he's fcking some really attractive chicks.

Personally, in my life i have never ever did something with a woman through my social circles , actually my social circle has never brought me women but i was the one who was bridging women into them. I think that i hang out with the wrong people regarding this matter.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

Maybe you have much more value than the guys you hang out with? If so, find some other top men, which have some friendzoned girls. Then game them, but not too strong, you don't want to have a "gamey" reputation. Also, if you friendzone some girls of your own, you will have access to their girlfriends.
Two points:
1) Guys with equal or higher value will have various women that are just waiting for him to make a move on them. Just be you who makes the move.
2)Friendzoned girls will want to be with you, and so they will invite you to hang out with her group, usually full of other girls. Game them.

 

[Serenity]

Owen (RSDTyler) is legendary, he's so much more than just a bag of tricks. This guy has a pretty rough background and started out as a zero with women, depressed and filled with anxiety. One day he just decided to change that and worked insanely hard to achieve his goals. He knows how it is to be an absolute loser, he found the way out of it and that's what he teach.

He teaches game, real game. A game so strong it doesn't depend much on looks and money.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Social circle game and benefits of being part of the right crowd are undeniable however it doesnt fit to me.

I would rather risk dry spells and work hard on getting girls myself than being connected to a group of people and quit part of my freedom.

I also have a very low tolerance to drama which is an overpresent evil in any mixed group.

If you are the extrover type and like other peoples company, social circle is a blessing when it comes of meeting girls and getting them, its like a cheat in a videogame.

 

[Serenity]

I don't give a sh*t what RSD Tyler said. Loads of PUA's will promote the purple pill to make money.

I would listen to him about anything related to women before I'd listen to you.

Social circle game works fine, if you don't play it like a faggot though. It's exactly the same game with a few added elements. Don't play the girls you know well, play your friends friends that you don't know well.

 

[SgtSplacker]

You are hanging out with the wrong people.

My friends practically run a disinformation campaign on any women that come near us. We pump each other up, set each other up. Exaggerate our Victories. It gets a little tiring to keep up honestly but it does work. Social proof to women is real. Really real

 

[Serenity]

I have destroyed entire social-circles, and caused myself a lot of trouble in the workplace playing this game. And it isn't worth it one little bit.

"A woman scorned" and all that....

The only 'value' in social-circle game is being a lazy b*stard.



That was unnecessarily directed at me, so I will focus on you for a second. The idiocy is staggering.

You haven't gamed a woman in your life - they all game you. Whether it's the girl that you are currently in an 'equality gay' relationship with. Or whether it was the wh0re that you paid for sex, and didn't even orgasm: only to come here and cry about it later.

You wouldn't know game if it pulled your trousers down and slapped you in the face.

You're wrong.

 

[Listen_to_Olly]

Social circle game is how all of the alphas got ***** growing up in high school and even in college. I think that social circle game, by far, is the best option if you want hot girls and quality.

Cold approach is not that effective if you want the hottest girls, it really isn't. Most of the times if you do it at bars and clubs, it will break you down because you will get rejected so much. I have rarely seen guys at these venues get hot girls by cold approach because most hot girls go their with their social circle and then go back home, having sex with guys in that social circle.

Online dating is a waste of time if you want top tier talent. The best looking girls are usually fake profiles or there for validation. Sure you can score some 6s and maybe even a 7 every now and then but that is about it.

Social circle game is truly the way to go if you want the hottest girls because that is where status starts to matter. If you master social circle game, you will continue to hit the best quality of women out there but it takes time. Most of the socially awkward aspie PUA types who spam approach do not have the social skills to be liked by the right crowds. You have to work on being charismatic, social, and likable to the point where higher status people want to associate with you.

PUA teaches you to be less shy but most of these guys I've seen turn into weirdos, those annoying loud weirdos that just come off as geeky and suck at reading social cues.

 

[BeExcellent]

Higher status people congregate where there are barriers to entry specifically to avoid the less privileged.

Why else would there be country clubs and exclusive venues and etc. etc. The places that have barriers to entry automatically do a degree of pre-vetting people. If a place is very expensive, only those who can afford it are there; if a place is very exclusive only people with an "in" are there, etc. Within such venues its all about social proof and who you are and who you know. It is not impossible to cold approach in such venues but it usually takes getting established socially within the peer group unless an individual has exceptional panache. So at the highest levels social circle game is important one way or another. You either need to be established socially or have the ability to establish yourself very quickly.

The hottest women are always welcomed into exclusive venues because high status men desire beautiful women.

So for women gaining access is easy provided a woman is hot enough and cool enough.

One effective way to gain social proof (it's kind of a hybrid to social circle and cold approach) is to go to a venue that has barriers to entry and chat up the hottest girl you can find. Even if she isn't into you herself if you are cool and confident she can get comfortable with you and end up introducing you to other women...or other women will see you in the company of the hot girl and this will convey value...

Just bear in mind that if you are in a venue where people are high status, it is best to have the chops to be there yourself, i.e. the entry level wage earner who makes minimum wage is not going to last long trying to hang with business owners, executives, and white collar professionals. He will be seen as a poser who is a fish out of water sooner rather than later.

 

[Listen_to_Olly]

Higher status people congregate where there are barriers to entry specifically to avoid the less privileged.

Why else would there be country clubs and exclusive venues and etc. etc. The places that have barriers to entry automatically do a degree of pre-vetting people. If a place is very expensive, only those who can afford it are there; if a place is very exclusive only people with an "in" are there, etc. Within such venues its all about social proof and who you are and who you know. It is not impossible to cold approach in such venues but it usually takes getting established socially within the peer group unless an individual has exceptional panache. So at the highest levels social circle game is important one way or another. You either need to be established socially or have the ability to establish yourself very quickly.

The hottest women are always welcomed into exclusive venues because high status men desire beautiful women.

So for women gaining access is easy provided a woman is hot enough and cool enough.

One effective way to gain social proof (it's kind of a hybrid to social circle and cold approach) is to go to a venue that has barriers to entry and chat up the hottest girl you can find. Even if she isn't into you herself if you are cool and confident she can get comfortable with you and end up introducing you to other women...or other women will see you in the company of the hot girl and this will convey value...

Just bear in mind that if you are in a venue where people are high status, it is best to have the chops to be there yourself, i.e. the entry level wage earner who makes minimum wage is not going to last long trying to hang with business owners, executives, and white collar professionals. He will be seen as a poser who is a fish out of water sooner rather than later.

Wouldn't you say it is better to chat with higher status guys and get them to like you rather than chatting with women at these places? It could come off as poaching and pisses off other high status guys in the venue.

 

[BeExcellent]

The main thing is to mingle comfortably. If women are nearby chat with women. If men are nearby chat with men. If nobody is nearby be cool hanging solo. Be confident, natural & self assured. This is extremely attractive. Others gravitate toward very attractive people so very attractive people end up making less effort (since people are drawn to them.)

Good social circle game is about your own intrinsic self worth before it's about anything else. People also need to get the idea you belong in their environment, which is where your own level of accomplishment comes in.

 

[Trainwreck]

I feel like the greatest strengths of your social circle game can be your greatest weaknesses. You still have to confide to the rules of the social circle. If you had a gf that your friends did not personally know then you could do whatever the hell you want with her. In social circles, your relationship is constantly judged and being watched. If you don't treat your gf like a princess then some beta guy might spread rumors about you within the circle. You could get that girl every guy has been after and **** off everybody. Pretty much, if you **** off the social group you are screwed.

 

[skinnyguy]

Game the guys before you game women