Konada
Master Don Juan
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Been spinning plates outside my group of friends but a couple of months back I met this girl in my social circle which I would like to get to know better. In recent weeks I've been taking it slow because I am in unchartered waters and also because I'm extremely busy. Any advice how to proceed on this? There's alot of repercussions that may happen if I fvck up. I don't really care about being rejected but am more concerned with the BS that might arise from this.
A little background info:
1. I see her 2 times a week in training.
2. I have a class with her and sit next to her, seats can't be changed.
3. We go for lunch after class and head to training after.
4. We had our 1st date though I had to cut it short to attend to pressing matters.
The main issue here is that this circle is closely tied to one of my goals (this is my number 1 concern that it can potentially fvck up a smooth sailing journey) and I really hate to be in a position where I'm "that guy" simply because the amount of shvt I have to deal with if things dont turn out well. Can I risk rejection and the possible drama that comes with it? Is this a case where I can't have my cake and eat it too?
A little background info:
1. I see her 2 times a week in training.
2. I have a class with her and sit next to her, seats can't be changed.
3. We go for lunch after class and head to training after.
4. We had our 1st date though I had to cut it short to attend to pressing matters.
The main issue here is that this circle is closely tied to one of my goals (this is my number 1 concern that it can potentially fvck up a smooth sailing journey) and I really hate to be in a position where I'm "that guy" simply because the amount of shvt I have to deal with if things dont turn out well. Can I risk rejection and the possible drama that comes with it? Is this a case where I can't have my cake and eat it too?
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