Purefilth
Master Don Juan
So, you got dumped.
Firstly Stop crying. Put the phone down, Don’t even THINK of looking at facebook. Emails are a nono too.
Realise this – She is over you.
Yup, that’s it – She had her “mourning the end of a relationship” period last month – when she was distant?
You remember that ? She seemed moody but it wasn’t that time of the month?
Maybe you even pestered her about it because You were Concerned, but then simpered around and handled her with kid gloves because you didn’t want her to snap at you again?
Yeah, you remember. Those two weeks were her way of preparing herself for the big storm coming. Maybe she even said “we need a break – lets not talk for 2 weeks”.
My buddy came to me with this and I told him what I’m about to tell you.
THIS RELATIONSHIP IS OVER
That’s it, done, finished. Lets have a two week break has the Simple translation to
“I’m testing the strength of this new branch.”
Or
“ I can go and wh0re myself out down town”
AND she will justify it to herself and her friends WHO WILL BACK HER UP.
“It’s ok because we’re on a break”
But he didn’t listen, He held on for those 2 weeks staring at his phone. Honestly the only thing that kept him from blowing up her phone was – the ever dedicated wingman, pillar of support and wisdom that was a young Purefilth
Lets be honest here. I knew that his relationship was over, and I told him so. But Because SHE called it “a break”he held on to those words for dear life. Him blowing up her phone would have had ZERO effect on the outcome of this scenario. I just wanted to save him his dignity – That’s all that matters here. Holding yourself together is what matters.
And when those two weeks were up, and she had tortured him with radio silence – dangling the chance of reconciliation in front of his nose with no intention of ever letting him near it?
Yup – He was crushed. “I told you so” are not the appropriate words here. Just silence and pass him a beer.
Now it kicks in for him that its over.
Now 6 weeks after she decided that she didn’t want to be with him and treated him like dirt.
6 WEEKS and she finally decides to let him into the “relationships over” loop.
SHE is out on the town, she has a new fella already and HE is only just getting the news.
Hopefully you have the balls to stand and take control, to deal with any behaviour that you don’t like before it gets this far.
Remember that you can live without her. Walk before its too late. Leave HER wondering WTF just happened.
This is just one example, but it is something I’ve seen time and time again.
NO.
Never be “On a break”.
If you ever hear these words, reply with
“Goodbye”
Then turn and walk away.
Peace.
Firstly Stop crying. Put the phone down, Don’t even THINK of looking at facebook. Emails are a nono too.
Realise this – She is over you.
Yup, that’s it – She had her “mourning the end of a relationship” period last month – when she was distant?
You remember that ? She seemed moody but it wasn’t that time of the month?
Maybe you even pestered her about it because You were Concerned, but then simpered around and handled her with kid gloves because you didn’t want her to snap at you again?
Yeah, you remember. Those two weeks were her way of preparing herself for the big storm coming. Maybe she even said “we need a break – lets not talk for 2 weeks”.
My buddy came to me with this and I told him what I’m about to tell you.
THIS RELATIONSHIP IS OVER
That’s it, done, finished. Lets have a two week break has the Simple translation to
“I’m testing the strength of this new branch.”
Or
“ I can go and wh0re myself out down town”
AND she will justify it to herself and her friends WHO WILL BACK HER UP.
“It’s ok because we’re on a break”
But he didn’t listen, He held on for those 2 weeks staring at his phone. Honestly the only thing that kept him from blowing up her phone was – the ever dedicated wingman, pillar of support and wisdom that was a young Purefilth
Lets be honest here. I knew that his relationship was over, and I told him so. But Because SHE called it “a break”he held on to those words for dear life. Him blowing up her phone would have had ZERO effect on the outcome of this scenario. I just wanted to save him his dignity – That’s all that matters here. Holding yourself together is what matters.
And when those two weeks were up, and she had tortured him with radio silence – dangling the chance of reconciliation in front of his nose with no intention of ever letting him near it?
Yup – He was crushed. “I told you so” are not the appropriate words here. Just silence and pass him a beer.
Now it kicks in for him that its over.
Now 6 weeks after she decided that she didn’t want to be with him and treated him like dirt.
6 WEEKS and she finally decides to let him into the “relationships over” loop.
SHE is out on the town, she has a new fella already and HE is only just getting the news.
Hopefully you have the balls to stand and take control, to deal with any behaviour that you don’t like before it gets this far.
Remember that you can live without her. Walk before its too late. Leave HER wondering WTF just happened.
This is just one example, but it is something I’ve seen time and time again.
NO.
Never be “On a break”.
If you ever hear these words, reply with
“Goodbye”
Then turn and walk away.
Peace.
