So, why don't you have a cute girlfriend?

stuka1939

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I find myself asking this question quite often and so should you for the following reasons.


1) You are physically fit, have a good haircut (or look good bald) and you have a respectable looking face (e.g. you are not ugly)

2.) You are intelligent, have a college degree or higher, or are in the process of getting one.

3.) You have a good job or have the credentials to get one.

4.) You are a respectul person with morals.

5.) You realize attractive looking women are not a rare thing (E.g. Women who can qualify as atleast cute are sure as hell NOT in short abundance) and should not be put on a pedestal.

6.) Everytime you go out you see a guy no better looking than yourself and worse with an attractive girl by his side.

7.) Unless you are ugly (chances are you are not) you realize thinking a girl is "out of your league" is NOT a humbling honest thing to do but hurts your own self-esteem and puts women on pedestals.


So, I am sure most people on here can put a check mark to all seven of these points. Why the hell don't you have a cute girlfriend then?

If you fit into most of these points I made, there is NO REASON why you should not have a cute girlfriend to take home to mom and dad.

You are probably lacking in confidence or you think you do not deserve one.

However, deep down you know this is false because of these seven above points which most of you can agree with.

Remember these seven points, and repeat them to yourself as much as you can. I am sure it will help with your confidence.
 

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Even with all those points you can lack social skills.
That's why some people who cover your 7 points still don't have a girlfriend even when they want one.
 

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As far as the "out of your league" comment I made.

It is ok and realistic to believe a girl like this (posted below) is out of your league unless you are model handsome or average looking and very rich.


http://sportshogwash.com/2007/01/11/tim-tebows-girlfriend/

However, 95% of young women out there aren't as hot as this anyway, so it is not reality.

My post was mostly referring to women in the 6-8 range, where most attractive women fall anyway.

Which also leads me to say that the saying "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" does not apply to extremely good-looking women and only works for girls who are attractive (but not stunning)

Not to change subjects, but what guy in this world would NOT think that girl is beautiful and a knockout.
 

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Being unable to resist the role of Devil's Advocate, I say what of those who cannot put a check mark to all seven of those points?
 

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stuka1939 said:
As far as the "out of your league" comment I made.

It is ok and realistic to believe a girl like this (posted below) is out of your league unless you are model handsome or average looking and very rich.


http://sportshogwash.com/2007/01/11/tim-tebows-girlfriend/

However, 95% of young women out there aren't as hot as this anyway, so it is not reality.

My post was mostly referring to women in the 6-8 range, where most attractive women fall anyway.

Which also leads me to say that the saying "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" does not apply to extremely good-looking women and only works for girls who are attractive (but not stunning)

Not to change subjects, but what guy in this world would NOT think that girl is beautiful and a knockout.
I guess I am that guy. I find her to look odd. Not at all attracted to her type. Defines the "American hooker/stripper" look to me. Big breasts/thighs/behinds and loud people are two things I don't miss about America. Ghetto chic is not my thing.
 

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My gf is hotter. She has a better face and is smaller in every way except possibly the breasts.
 

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Wolf said:
She's not that hot, maybe a 6.5... I would like to give her more, but I can't find reason to...

A 6.5? Are you serious bro?

How many women do you see that look as pretty as that girl? Unless you live in LA or South Beach, I am sure it is very rare.

I am not just giving her a high score because of her chest either, that actually has nothing to do with it.

That girl can't be a 6.5 or anything close because a 6.5 can't walk into a room and get stared at by tongue drooling men. (This girl certainly would)
 

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stuka1939 said:
A 6.5? Are you serious bro?

How many women do you see that look as pretty as that girl? Unless you live in LA or South Beach, I am sure it is very rare.

I am not just giving her a high score because of her chest either, that actually has nothing to do with it.

That girl can't be a 6.5 or anything close because a 6.5 can't walk into a room and get stared at by tongue drooling men. (This girl certainly would)
South Beach is mostly gay men coupled with a sprinkling of tourists. LA is pretty much void of white people these days. So I don't think she would fit in. Remember, the media has a product that it wants to sell to you. LA and Miami will forever be spots for the beautiful people. This just isn't the case in reality.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xd9y8j5PG8Q
It is consistently rated as the most gay friendly city on this planet. If you have actually been you would know that you will feel uncomfortable if you are not gay.

I can look from my window and see girls much better than she is at just about anytime that it is light outside (only about 5 hours a day of light at this time). It is cold and dark outside for almost all day now. 9am and it is still as dark as at 3am. The sea is near, but it freezes come January and February. However, genetics are on the side of the girls here. I have found that usually the best looking girls come from places that are cold and dark. Not exactly postcard type of weather.

America is a land of fat people. If you are thin and a female you will get looks. Miami and LA are loaded with Hispanics and Blacks. Hence, unless you are into fatties, look somewhere else. Here are some disturbing numbers if you are living in America...
"Overall, 73 percent of non-Hispanic Black women, 67 percent of Hispanic women, and 56 percent of non-Hispanic White women are considered overweight or obese."
http://mchb.hrsa.gov/whusa_05/pages/0200introduction.htm
 

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That statistic seems a little drastic, for blacks, latinos, AND whites.

And yet again, race gets brought up in this forum.

What started as a thread that gave a good tip will now probably get closed.
 

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I have to agree. That girl didn't do it at all for me. I am attracted to a smaller physique. In my books she was a 7 at best..
 
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