So Where Do Y'all Meet 'Em?

[Ballistik]

Aight, well school, for reasons I won't get into in this thread, ain't a great place for me to date girls anymore. I've tried a youth group, but it didn't have many options. Gone through friends and all that, limited success. Tried the internet, it's an ongoing process. So what else is there? How do y'all meet most of the girls that you Don and Juan into fully enjoying your company? It's a bit harder in high school....

 

[Evil-Rom]

How bout stop focusing on meeting girls, and studying?

Get in a good college/uni and meet the 20K girls there.

 

[Ballistik]

Erm.... because that's the worst idea I've ever heard?

 

[Evil-Rom]

Originally posted by Ballistik
Erm.... because that's the worst idea I've ever heard?

Haha okay, here's my second suggestion then.

 

[Ballistik]

Nothing comes up with that link.

 

[JSH]

its the search facility on this discussion forum, he is actually trying to help.

 

[Absolute Pimp]

Not focusing on girls and actually focusing on yourself to get into a good school is the worst idea you've ever heard?

AFC.
Read the Bible.

 

[Ballistik]

You deem me an AFC because I reject the idea of not dating anyone for the next year and a half?

Right....

 

[Sweet Ken]

So much to learn, young Patowan...

 

[oakraiderz2]

Originally posted by Evil-Rom
How bout stop focusing on meeting girls, and studying?

Get in a good college/uni and meet the 20K girls there.

DO you know him? He could be going to a good college so just give the guy some real advice.

 

[Evil-Rom]

Originally posted by oakraiderz2
DO you know him? He could be going to a good college so just give the guy some real advice.

Originally posted by Ballistik
It's a bit harder in high school....

I did give him good advice.

Stop focusing on meeting girls.

 

[Ballistik]

Okay, look, before we turn this into some weird sort of college vs. girls debate....

1) There could be a whole forum devoted to getting into the college you want. Let's not start that here.

2) I asked where you've happened to meet lots of girls before. I still haven't gotten a single straight-up answer to that. Who says I'm not trying to improve myself? I'm just also trying to not spend every single waking moment of my life doing so.

 

[Da Game]

Wow, everyone else's replies suck. Saying "get into a good college instead of finding girls" is stupid, because you can very easily do both and enjoy highschool a lot more.

Meeting girls: school-related events are good. Any kind of extracurriculars, a sport, debate, whatever, will help you meet girls. This also makes them more dateable, because you already have a common interest.

Try going to malls, bookstores, libraries, etc etc and doing cold pickups if that's what is necessary.

 

[Evil-Rom]

Originally posted by Ballistik
2) I asked where you've happened to meet lots of girls before. I still haven't gotten a single straight-up answer to that.

It's called the Search feature. This has been asked many times before.

 

[Ballistik]

Only found a couple threads that didn't really help much with search. And, ya know, Rom, in the time it took you to write the three or four replies in this thread telling me every single reason why I shouldn't have posted it, you could have easily just listed a few places you've met some girls before.

Yeah, Game, I'm starting on the cold approach stuff, just looking for any possibilities that might be a bit warmer. Have met a few at the extracurriculars, but in general that ain't working for the same reason I can't just do it in school.

 

[Sexual]

Ouch

Da Game knows what's up. I'm in your situation too, bro. High school sucks and it's hard to get any girls outside of school besides straight cold approaches, and you usually won't find too many women your age because they don't go out too much at that age except to school. Also, once you sleep with enough women in high school you lose your reputation and it becomes FUKCIN HARD to get women, and it seriously hurts your ego.

I hate to say it, but if I could have done it all over I'd make a hot girlfriend in school, and then work on your game outside of school. Keep that girlfriend for two/three months, and then find a reason to break up with and move on to the next hotty in school. As for me, *college incoming!* So I'm done with the drama and the lack of females. 30,000 people enrolled in the community college I'm going to, and no telling how many girls from UF.

 

[Need-2-B-Pimpin]

The forum may not be a college promotion, but it also isn't all about meetin and screwin and all that crap. It's about bein a man, and college is an awesome step in that direction.

And to the guy who made this thread, you meet chicks everywhere...mall, school, wherever. Get some balls and approach em, it makes it a lot easier. There's no easy place where you go and girls jump on you...ya gotta bust out the skillz