So where are the "Kept Men"?

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Surely among this fine and quality crowd we have some gentlemen whose looks and charm have made women into "beta-providers". The woman provided money, or lodging, or paid for dates, or gave gifts beyond an equal reciprocal share.

Please share your secrets, and tell us....How did that go for you?

And no...Your mother doesn't count.
 

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When I was running with the swinger crowd as a single guy I had couples buying my food, drinks, lap dances, taking me on trips with them, etc. It was pretty cool but I knew I always had to be ready to perform and if I didn't I'd be cut loose since there were always tons of guys willing to take my place. I know that's not exactly what you mean but its probably as close as I'll ever get. Lol
 

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I have never had women pay my rent or car payment, however I have had women pay for dates and buy me some expensive gifts ( I didn't ask for these things they just did them for me). As far as secrets I don't have any other than perhaps treating all the women the same, some will like me and others won't and I just focus on the ones that want to be with me. O one more secret I have a big diick, know how to use it , and can fuuck for hours, this I think has helped me a little bit.
 

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I have never had women pay my rent or car payment, however I have had women pay for dates and buy me some expensive gifts ( I didn't ask for these things they just did them for me). As far as secrets I don't have any other than perhaps treating all the women the same, some will like me and others won't and I just focus on the ones that want to be with me. O one more secret I have a big diick, know how to use it , and can fuuck for hours, this I think has helped me a little bit.
Yea, my current lady does this. Not crazy about it either.
 

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@RickTheToad as long as it isn't excessive I don't mind, part of being with women is letting them do nice things for you. Just make sure you show them appreciation and don't take advantage of them.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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It's happened before, I never like people buying me things. Makes me feel I owe them something.
If it's your love interest and she's always buying you something and you don't like it because of that feeling just let her know you wouldn't do it for her. You don't feel like that. That will level it out quick.
 

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Those guys aren't allowed online. They are rubbing the feet of their owners as they sleep.
 

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im not kept, but i do make women do stuff for me. Buy me food, clothes, pay for dates. It’s a scientific fact that people like you more when you have them do you favors (invest) in you.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

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im not kept, but i do make women do stuff for me. Buy me food, clothes, pay for dates. It’s a scientific fact that people like you more when you have them do you favors (invest) in you.
Definately scientific! Nobody hates anything worse than "losing" their investment.
 
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