So, what's going on in your game right now?

[Warrior74]

What are your weak point's in your game and your strong points and what are you doing about it?

Current Status.
Not much to report. Dating a 36 year old and 22 year old. Seeing both sporadically right now. The 22 year old is a bit different, anytime I make a mention about anything other than hooking up (anything date like), she gets cagey. She says she had some really bad relationships and she doesn't want that. Fine with me. Hook up culture at it's finest eh? I usually mention my dates with other girls which get her hot and ready to go.
Met a 24 year old a couple of weeks ago, haven't really been trying to hard with her as I've been busy.

Strong Points:

My confidence around women has been pretty high. My overall confidence has been great. My conversation skills are off the chain and I've been more relaxed about everything in my life that isn't financial or job related. In fact I enjoy life outside the office more than life inside. I really don't think about "how to pick up women anymore, I just go with the flow and feel it out". I guess you could nerd it up and say I have "internalized the process" but I just learned to go with the flow and to be bold. That's been the biggest boon, and to stop thinking so much in real life. Overthinking = bad. Thinking about overthinking = bad. Just relaxing and going with the flow will moving towards my goal = good.

Social skills. I've been stepping out of my comfortzone and creating new social circles. I joined several business organizations and started reaching out to distant associates. My confidence has made this easier to do. I've also been putting old negative friends behind me. I hate to do it..but right now its necessary as they clash with my new circles. Gotta keep em separated.


Weak Points

• Financial.
  The economy has my business on slow motion so I'm spending alot of time trying to find some new angles. Not alot of money to go out and do things at the moment.
  
• Meeting girls out side my circle:
  I haven't done any straight up approaches in a long time...all of my hookups have been social circle game. I feel like I'm really rusty in that area at the moment.
  I might try to do MOTU's challenge this weekend if I'm free.
  
• My front (presentation):
  I need to lose weight and do some serious shopping from head to toe. That's going to be my focus for the next few months. Going shopping next pay day. Time to get fresh.

 

[Colossus]

Man-tastic.

Currently I'm still with my gf of about a year now (the brazilian chick). Things have been a struggle the last couple of months. She has a LOT of great woman-qualities; such that I've stuck with her for so long, but I dunno, i think we're just cut from a different cloth. All we do anymore is bicker and defend ourselves. It's gotten to the point where it's a bane and not a pleasure.

On the up side, I have been doing more approaching lately, albeit "soft" approaching. This has felt great, but man am I deficient in the pickup area. It's not so much that I lack confidence, it's keeping that vibe rolling for the critical first 20-30 minutes. I just run out of stuff to say. Also, I hesitate when asking for a number, unless I'm drinking. This is something I def have to work on, because if there is one thing I've learned, it's that when that window of opportunity passes, it is gone baby gone.

I was accepted into PA school so I'll be starting that in a couple months. Pretty pumped to be moving on with my career, finally. The downside is I'll be in Delaware which isnt exactly a haven for female variety. We'll see.

Also have a powerlifting meet this saturday. Just doing push-pull (bench and deadlift), so I'm not super-nervous; but anytime I compete I get nerves. I'll be going for a 400 bench and a 600 deadlift, both PRs.

Going to buy Roosh V's book, Bang, and brush up on my pickup skills. Cant let those go; as they opften do in an LTR.

 

[ChumpNoMore]

I enjoy your reports Warrior. I am pressed for time but I will offer a point form summation:

Work: very busy, but considering everyone else is slow I don't mind, also scored a healthy bonus; need to stay focused and see/push things through, lots of travel which is part of earning the bux

Chix: one on the go but nothing serious, a few leads / orbiters here and there but my social circle is a bit small with all the married folks, not getting out enough and no real wingmen, and not cold approaching enough, was spinning a few plates but was kinda MEH on em; not attractive or interesting enough to retain my attention and they sensed it, or had an over entitled attitude to demanding my time and effort relative to what they offered in return LOL

Health: Good, still recovering from a pretty bad leisure sports activity related injury last fall (big wake up call as to my mortality) but at about 80% there, prioritizing on the physiotherapy and lifting consistently, eating well and making some good gains back to where I was pre injury, and leaning up

Personal: productive but busy, trying to get more time in on my dog, keep in touch with family and friends, several hobbies and project vehicles involving bikes and trucks and mechanical mods, I really need a new garage and need to trim a bit from my budget to accomodate it, and get the permitting and planning underway to get it going. I too could use a wardrobe update and need to dress better on a consistent basis.

I am the busiest most productive fella I know and I find it a challenge to balance the work / social / personal / chix aspects - you can't have it all, you do have to prioritize and yes chix can take a backseat to YOUR life and goals... That said I do get down about there not being someone that I'm eager to meet up with and make time for; but I don't dwell as I have tonnes of other productive pursuits!

Weak points: I am a good looking, quality, fit, successful yet easy going fella, and have lots of motivation; I need to reaffirm that I'm the prize, and act accordingly with women and go in with the same confidence, assertiveness, expectations and results I take to work, the gym, and my hobbies. Approaching needs to really ramp up, whats the worst they can say, no? Also need to cut the flakes out, but more leads always helps drop them to the B list. not many quality women out there it seems, so push through the masses to find the few rare gems left.


:rockon:

 

[synergy1]

Current status: I am not seeing anyone right now. I have not met many women, and certainly have not taken the liberty to get the few numbers I snag from the bar to hang out. Sure, there aren't as many chicks around here as a major city, but there are enough chicks around here not to make excuses on this front. On the upside, I managed to have some fun this past weekend on what I originally thought was a tanked effort. Gotta take the little victories!

Strong point:

Overall for some reason I am pretty content with life. I think part of it has to do with being friends with some kids who just can't find it. Their moods swing, mine don't, they seem to use more substances to calm them down, I don't. I like my mental state right now. Does this mean I am not stressed and worried about our new business? no, but I don't let it get too me too much. I have a unique perspective since I lost a parent due to heart conditions at the age of 17; I simply don't let crap that doesn't matter bother me anymore. In this regard, I am probably much more mature than my peers, or even people in their 50s. I am cruising into my 30s in the best shape of my life, no debt, women think I am hot ( pretty arrogant despite the slump huh? ) ..not bad.

Weak Points:

- its all there, I need to get my dating game back in order. I guess before I jump to a step 3, I need to get steps 1 and 2 down which are meet hot awesome chicks and get their numbers!

- One of our business partners said I lacked confidence and doesn't think I give myself enough credit. I prefer to call it cautiously realistic since I opt not to promise grandiose claims I can't back like most other "talkers" do. One thing that impressed upon me in STR8's threads was that you need a certain mentality to hang in the business world, and to that end i completely agree. The next few years will be a test to see if I hang in here with these guys who if things don't work out and move on.

-no 20 rep squats in a while!

 

[squirrels]

I am STARVED right now.

Probation conditions prohibit me from drinking and if I go to a bar sober, I will be bored in like 10 minutes...and girls don't like bored guys.

I almost want to go out to clubs sober and try to run game...but if you go to a club sober by yourself, women become priority #1, which means your whole night is tied to them. If you go home alone from a sober bar-night, you're p!ssed off. If you can at least get tipsy, you can enjoy yourself/the atmosphere even though there isn't jack to do, which means that when women enter the picture you're already having a good time.


MySpace has gone dead for me. Nothing but spam.

My friends are all homebodies and gamer-nerds...all their girlfriends seem to know NO good looking single women for whatever reason.

Work...well, I got into enough trouble with trying to run game there.

I got some girl's number during Jury Duty like 2 weeks ago...never called her because I could tell she's a party-girl and that it'd be awkward to meet up with her if she was drinking and I wasn't.

This girl with a nice body but goofy face was hitting on me in the gym...I'd hit it from behind, but the idea of kissing her make my stomach turn a little...so I passed on that opportunity.

Sh*t else, really. I have no sources. One of my slump-buster girls wants me to bang her out again, but I'm not trying to hit that a second time...she'll start catching feelings. An OLD one-itis IM'd me out of the blue the other night, haven't seen her since.

Like i said, STARVED.

Spring is here and the dog can't get off his leash. :nervous:

 

[Robert28]

what's going on in my game? not a d@mn thing. ive had the worst luck in the past 2 years then ive EVER had. i keep slipping more and more. things that never happen to me are now happening to me! i even had a girl recently not think i was serious about asking her out. wtf? i never had that happen before.

 

[Warrior74]

squirrels - sounds like you need to find new hunting grounds! Coffee shops, the park, community social events.

Robert28 - What are you strong points and weak points? When you know what those are you can start to do something to fix them.

 

[Robert28]

i really can't seem to put my finger on it. i dont think its just one thing but a culmination of things i must be doing wrong lately.

 

[BeyondCharm]

Well, it's been 35 or so days since I split up with my ex...

I immediately started approaching again and reframing my attitude to Alpha Alpha Alpha as much as possible after having fallen deeply into the abyss of beta-ism after being in an LTR for a while...

I created a "group category" on my phone for new numbers... So far I have 23 new girls numbers... I've been out on only a handful of actual dates from all of those, a lot of flakes and a few ONS.

Mostly i've been meeting people in the night life scene with the occasional online encounter via myspace/fb... A few have gone from single to "being in a relationship" within two weeks of giving me their numbers which is always amusing to see.

As of this posting, I'm supposed to be having sushi or hanging out in some form with someone tonight and a mexican food date tomorrow for lunch... We'll see how they pan out..

Last night I had a girl over and we watched comedy shows and messed around but didn't fvck, it was a first-date with a "my place and massage" follow-up so it was a fun night albeit no sex.

Other than that, business is good, been working long days and moving forward looking at the positives. Have not been dwelling on the ex much at all, occasionally thoughts pop into my head but I focus on other things and they are gone before I realize it.

I plan on continuing to Apply plate theory and continue to improve my game...

MY weakest area right now that I need to work on is patience with contacting them and not rushing to respond to their texts/messages/etc... Plate theory should help.

 

[Warrior74]

Ran into an old FB tonight. A few irish carbombs and a BJ in the parking lot. Sleezy sluts for the win! woot!

 

[ThreeStorms]

Not that many strong points in my 'game' right now. Let's be honest I never really had 'game' to begin with. Fighting hard to overcome that nice guy in me. It's just my personality, and being friendly is not a bad thing by itself; bad thing is, my niceness makes me weak. That has to go. Guess I'll just try being more of an ass for a month, and see how that works out.

Last sex was a year ago or so. Workout lacks due to various insevere injuries (knee, ankle, shoulder) - I am thinner than I have been in years which hurts my confidence. Worried about the knee pain - never had that since I started leg training, but now it becomes worse when I try doing squats or deads.

I really do need a new wardrobe - shirts ok, but all of my pants suck

Job's alright. However the urge to change something drastically is growing. Damnit, I have been living in the same region for 31 years now

 

[ProDJ26]

Wow if this hasn't turned into a pessimistic thread....

The important thing to remember is to keep that positive mindset.
I won't mention any negatives but when life throws a punch come back with two more

 

[Forty0ztoFreedom]

Currently I'm biting the bullet and focusing on getting in better shape. I don't know why, but unless its at the forefront of my mind, I start to slack.

 

[Bluntmaster]

Ran into an old FB tonight. A few irish carbombs and a BJ in the parking lot. Sleezy sluts for the win! woot!

Sounds like wifey material! How hot is she?

 

[Desdinova]

Dumped two plates and am focussing solely on a HB8 right now. This chick is pretty goddam hot and has the silkiest skin I've ever felt in my life. She's spending the night on Friday. Haven't been laid since I got the ball rolling on my divorce, so I'm looking forward to it. So far, she's great STR material. I'll have to see how this one progresses.

My ex from 9 years ago is still highly interested in me, but I've pretty much written her off. I've also got a few others who have shown interest, but they don't even come close to competing with the HB8.

And all these women are wanting to pay for my 5hit. I've NEVER had women so eager to spend money on me.

 

[Maxtro]

Alone but hopeful

Socially my life is a mess. This year I tried to base my social life around things that will happen in school. I planned to make some friends and fuck some girls.

Everything seemed to start off good too. I joined an intramural sports flag-football team as a free agent and that would help me to make some guy friends. I also took a surfing class to also make some guy friends and get some girls. I also joined the Japanese club for the same reason.

Then things went to hell. Flag-football has a huge barrier to entry and if you didn't play in high school or on some kind of league then you won't know what the heck is going on. I ended up getting a head injury on my third game and never went back. I've been having insomnia for a couple of months so I was too tried to be on the beach at 7 am which meant the surfing class was a no-go. The Japanese club didn't work out either because I had a class that conflicted with the weekly meetings.

All that's left was trying to make friends and meet girls through my classes. I spent too much time on one chick who ended up rejecting me. There are a couple other girls in my classes that I may be into but it may be too late now. Eh, I might as well go for them because if they do reject me, schools almost over so I won't have to see them again.

Besides summer school from 6/1 to 7/9 I don't really see any opportunities to meet new people until the fall semester. I expect to be alone most of that time period.

I just applied to join a surfing meetup group so I'll see how that goes.

 

[synergy1]

that sucks that the flag football didn't work out. Rec sports are the best hobby in my mind, but I guess you shouldn't have been trying to play A-league sports if you are a beginner. For that reason, I actually held off on playing in the local rugby league and am working on cycling and waiting for hockey to start up in august. Not worth the injuries at this stage in the game.

My summer looks to be slow in the lady department. It will probably fly by since there is a ton of work that needs to get done, mostly manual labor. That means no going out, and getting in even better shape for when the social life will pick up again sometime in september.

I really hope federal/ venture money brings me someplace more happening that here. Its relaxing, but a bit on the boring being so isolated from people who share my hobbies and interests.

 

[WhitePimp]

My life is one of extremes at the moment.

I am having sex with three different girls - a 40 something married cougar, a 26 year old Dominican cleaning chick/MILF at my job, and a 19 year old hot little blond with no desire for a relationship with any of them. The married chick loves anal, and buys me stuff too...she's getting me Rush tickets in July. By the way, NEVER GET MARRIED!!!! :woo:

Yet socially, I have few friends and rarely hang out on weekends. I'm lonely as hell at the moment, just working and going to school and banging these chicks. It's funny though, at one end of the spectrum I'm living many dudes dream with these three girls, yet at the other end, I'm a complete loser with no social life. I'm just bad at keeping friends for some reason. Plus money is a big concern too...I'm just flat broke.

So, I'm a complete social misfit with a sex life most guys would kill for.

 

[ArcBound]

Positives: I'm now just going out to random people on the edges of my social circle and starting to talk with them and keeping the conversation rolling, my long time acne scars are starting to go away. Made the second round of finals in intramural soccer before losing. Getting invited to house parties consistently. I find that I can also tell now whether a girl is into me or not its like I developed another perspective I never knew about before and this helps me a lot.

Negative: Schoolwork is suffering a bit, I end up doing allnighters when studying for a test. Can't force myself to act sometimes, I get the # make attraction and when the girl invites me over or a second date comes about its like my libido goes to a corner and cowers like a *****. Sometimes I go farther with the help of some drinks and i would even carry around "OJ" in a water bottle with me during the day. This is something I shouldn't have to rely on.

Also working on health, eliminating everything that's not water and cutting out caffeine. Also ramping up workouts.

 

[ProDJ26]

Haven't been laid since I got the ball rolling on my divorceQUOTE]

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: